How helpless is it to travel with a group of people who have different values and are particularly subjective?

I just want to say "bless you" to you. I have deeply experienced such helplessness, and I am still a good friend since childhood. I can only keep all my grievances in my stomach and have nowhere to tell and vent.

Let's talk about values first. At first, we never thought that different values would lead to our emotional decline. After reading many real cases of roommates and listening to many, I found that values are a poisonous thing. It was not until last year that I felt really helpless and lived with different values.

We had agreed to travel after the college entrance examination, so we planned a route together. Unexpectedly, we didn't travel far, have no experience, and didn't book a room in advance, so we dragged our suitcases to find a place to live at night. There are many small hotels beside the bus station and railway station. Looking unsafe, I'm a little scared. I want to show her a more formal place. As a result, she refused my proposal and chose a small hotel because it was much cheaper.

The sound insulation in that hotel is not good. The voices of talking and playing games next door and opposite the door, as well as singing and unspeakable voices, have never been encountered by a person who has never been out of the house. I'm always afraid of other people who break into the room in the middle of the night, and I'm scared all night. But unexpectedly, the next day she insisted on living here, and I really wanted to cry for her.

Going out to play during the day, there is a famous snack street. I am a foodie, so I have no resistance to food. But I didn't expect to be scolded Yes, that's right, I was scolded! Just because I bought a lot of snacks. I thought, what's the matter, can't I buy what I want to eat? My dad gave me money to spend. Do I have to cheat?

Later, she felt that she had to spend more money to end the trip ahead of schedule, although she had money in her hand. This is a sad and humbled experience, and I want to cry. I can't say anything to him yet. Dumb people can't tell how bitter it is to eat Rhizoma Coptidis.

Later, I never dared to go shopping with her again, because of different values, buying better clothes can be shot to death by complaining eyes.