In your prime, what do you do when you suffer from cancer?

When I was diagnosed with cancer, I was 46 years old. I am older and younger, so I must be in my prime, right? Fortunately, my child is a senior and will graduate soon.

To be honest, although I am not that strong on weekdays, it is a bit hard to accept and a bit confused to be suddenly diagnosed with such a serious illness. Moreover, I didn’t know much about cancer before, and I privately believed that this disease was incurable. I usually went to the hospital to relieve the pain, and died within a year or two.

Then my wife and son sent me to the cancer hospital, where I received formal treatment in the Western medicine system, including chemotherapy and radiotherapy. After staying in the hospital for more than two months, the disease was effectively relieved, and then I was discharged. I was discharged from the hospital in very good condition this time, much better than before I got sick! The whole person seemed to be completely reborn, light and stretched, and surprisingly free.

However, the good times did not last long. Within half a year, he was transferred to the hospital and went to the hospital for chemotherapy and radiotherapy. This time it is obvious that the endurance is not as good as last time. Especially during chemotherapy, it felt like life was worse than death. After being discharged from the hospital, I felt exhausted even after walking a few steps, as if I had worked all day. If this kind of treatment is very effective, then it is worth the pain and money. But the disease relapsed more than a month after discharge... I privately believe that this chemotherapy has no effect at all. In this way, I have had five relapses and metastases so far. Every time, my lover and son sent me to the hospital for treatment. Each time I was hospitalized for two months.

I have been sick for too long, and I have a clear understanding of life and death, and I no longer want to be a drag on this family. At this point, it became clear to me that there was no hope of a cure. The cancer cells are getting closer and closer to me, and I am afraid that even if I go to the hospital again, the doctors will not have any effective treatment options. My lover and son have been doing their best to save me, so I think my life is worth it.

Being poor means being alone. Even after I got cancer, I always thought so, but in the end I never did it. But I hope that all patients like me will never force things or embarrass their relatives. It is not good to see some patients forcing their families to sell their houses and land. This disease cannot be cured at all, unless you have it in the early stages. I think if you have money, you can treat this disease. If you don’t have money, just forget about it.

I pray that everyone will love themselves well and that there will no longer be such a disease in this world.

I am 57, so I can die. If you get cancer, you will definitely breathe a sigh of relief. The hard journey of life has finally come to an end.

1. Apply for special services. It is an outpatient special disease. The reimbursement rate is 90%. No matter whether it is surgery or medicine, it will not be used outside the scope of medical insurance, and no "experts" from outside hospitals will be invited. In addition, there is commercial insurance, which guarantees that except for the three thresholds of 3,200 yuan, which are 800 yuan for outpatient services, 1,100 yuan for special care, and 1,300 yuan for hospitalization, there is basically nothing to spend. It's impossible to go bankrupt. Tianjin’s medical insurance policy is better, but I feel at ease. After all, I have been a tax-paying citizen for decades.

2. Apply for Maka. This is proof of the use of poison and anesthetics. I try not to use NSAIDs because they have serious side effects, the most common of which are gastrointestinal side effects. That’s not possible. I have to save some appetite for a gluttonous meal. The use of poisonous anesthetics is effective and has few side effects. Since the country allows its use, why should I hesitate not to use it? Some people are afraid of addiction. Oh my god, I don’t have a few more days to live. What kind of addiction do you have? What's more, when you are in pain, using an appropriate dose of poisonous anesthetics is not addictive at all.

3. Resign yourself to fate. If it is late-stage cancer, even surgery and other treatments are not required. I don't want to seek medical advice from people all over the world. Tianjin is not good, Beijing and Shanghai are terrible, and Japan and the United States are also talking nonsense. Otherwise, if Steve Jobs was so rich, why would he have to die? Don't tell me what if, what if? Instead of dreaming about a cure, it's better to dream about a misdiagnosis, and it's better to dream about self-healing. That is to say, as long as I stand still and let nature take its course, my chance of surviving is only 10%.

4. Travel around. In the past, when you had time, you didn’t have money, and when you had money, you didn’t have time. Now I have money and time, but I don’t have good health or a good mood. I learned how to drive a few days ago, and I could have considered going out for a walk, but I must not travel with my wife, otherwise she will be wrinkled and talk nonsense, which is really annoying. It seems that it is still down, even if I didn’t say it.

5. Handle funeral arrangements. The big treasury will definitely go to my wife and children, and the small treasury will go to my father. Speaking of dad, it must be painful in my heart. How could I die in front of the old man? The poor old man is over 90 and still has to bear the pain of losing his son. But the old man was heartless, and he probably could only be sad for three days.

For decades, I have always been the one paying tribute to my parents. In recent years, the old man has been getting 1,000 and 2,000 a month. He has lived a comfortable life and has been out on the streets every day. I used to ride an electric bike without moving at all times. My face was bruised and swollen from the fall, and I even suffered comminuted fractures. Now I ride a bicycle. I often get tired of riding halfway and call the police to take me back.

Then, if you give the old man 200,000 yuan, he should be able to survive until his death. With 20,000 yuan a year, he can survive for ten years. I don't believe the old man can get over 100. If it really exceeds 100, it will be hateful and take away our short life span.

Naturally, the wife and children had to make a fuss because the money was given to the old man. Just think about it, if the old man dies, the money will go to the poor brother. But the objection is invalid, so I will do it this way. Don't make too much noise, otherwise, I will smash a corner of the big treasury. Do you believe it?

43 years old, endometrial cancer, 44 years old, breast cancer. I originally thought that I was an omnipotent strong woman, but when I was diagnosed with cancer for the first time, I still thought that I could save the world after the surgery, and I was still in various cycles of high-intensity work and overtime work. When I reported cancer for the second time, it was during the epidemic. Office buildings in Beijing did not provide heating, and everyone in the company with hundreds of people worked remotely, but I insisted on going to the company every day... I still insisted on working when I knew I had cancer. What's more, the boss was still stuck in the United States at the time, and I had to watch over him no matter what, so that the company wouldn't be in chaos... The funniest thing is, the boss first told me, if you behave like this, resign first!

Suddenly I realized that I was not the one who saved the world, but the one who needed to be saved by the world...

I am still undergoing chemotherapy. I don’t know what else I can do after treatment. Can I still go to work? Or retire from now on?

I used to only know how to read, only know how to work, and didn’t even watch TV. Now I watch TV series every day; I used to never spend time on things other than work and reading, but now I have bought a pot to study various TV series. Growing food; if I were to live to be 80, would I do these things every day from now on? I have no direction and don’t know how to face tomorrow.

He was diagnosed with gastric cancer at the age of 34, a typical young adult. After working in the company for more than four years, I reached the master level, and my salary was not bad at that time. However, my sudden illness extinguished all my expectations. I thought a lot at the time. My parents are still alive and I have just been married for more than a year. If my illness is serious, I will say goodbye. My parents want a white-haired person to give a black-haired person. My wife is widowed at a young age. My brothers are missing limbs. In those days, I felt... The sky is gray, and people are coming and going on the street, laughing and joking. It feels like these ordinary things in life are suddenly so far away from me, so far away that I can't reach them. For a moment, I realized that the money that people work hard to earn is not the most important, but a healthy body is the most important.

After a few days of psychological suffering, I slowly accepted this cruel reality and actively accepted treatment. Fortunately, the result was better than the doctor expected. One week later, the stitches were removed and I returned to my hometown for recuperation. Three months later, I just buy groceries and cook every day, my wife goes to work to make ends meet, and I fish and bask in the sun when I have time. Three years later, I go to work. The wind and drizzle have alternated all the way, and it has been almost fifteen years now.

As an old patient, what I want to say is that if you have any physical discomfort, you must get checked early. Finding it early or late is sometimes the difference between staying and leaving.

Due to family reasons, there are several young cancer patients around me!

As the original poster said, you are in your prime!

What do you say? It should vary from person to person and be discussed on a case-by-case basis!

1. If your family is relatively wealthy, it is strongly recommended that you listen to your doctor and get standard treatment! Standardized treatment!

Today’s scientific and technological means are particularly developed. Multiple treatment plans combined with treatment can cure the disease in the early stage and extend the life cycle in the middle and late stages. You can definitely receive it!

After all, life is about hope together!

2. Make up for the regrets in your heart!

It is impossible to be born without any regrets.

Cherish every day and make up for the regrets in your life!

3. Spend time with your family!

Family affection is a stabilizer of emotions, and the love given to you by your family is the most precious thing in the world! Others are sad for a moment, but they are sad for a lifetime!

4. Pay attention to your diet, don’t eat outside food, there are too many additives! Keep cooking for yourself! Ensure food is healthy!

5. Keep exercising. After cancer treatment, it takes a long time to recover. Moderate exercise is a win-win solution!

6. Pay attention to your living habits, don’t stay up late, and don’t put too much pressure on yourself (family pressure and work pressure!)

7. Check regularly! Follow the doctor’s orders and have regular check-ups in major hospitals!

8. Prepare 100,000 in cash for emergencies!

Cancer is not scary. The harder you work, the more the cancer will scare you!

Come on, live every day with an unyielding heart!

I was diagnosed with gastric cancer in 2019, at the age of 43. If it can be cured, I will treat it as soon as possible, including surgery and chemotherapy. Give up your tiredness, worry less about your career, rest, and hope to never relapse! If it cannot be cured in the future, you can only let it go. When your life is over, you have to go sooner or later. It is just a different period and a different state. When you are alive, you can be as happy as possible without leaving any regrets. God has given you a chance to live, so live every day well.

Face it, accept the reality, things have already happened, can you change the facts no matter what you do?

My advanced breast cancer recurred twice after surgery, and I am still fighting cancer after 3 years.

When I first learned that I had cancer, no one could accept it, and then I gradually got used to it.

Once it happens, face it, so don't add trouble to yourself.

On April 18, 2018, I always thought it was a good day and underwent liver cancer resection. After the operation, I was transferred to the intensive care unit. I was very tired but couldn't sleep. Close your eyes and listen to the nurses chatting. Two days passed in a daze and I was transferred to the general ward. In fact, I had never been very clear about my physical condition. Why liver cancer? It was a little bit of luck among misfortunes. It was in relatively good condition. I recovered quickly and was discharged from the hospital almost ten days after the operation. And I gained a few pounds. The scary thing about cancer is that you don’t know when it will come back... It’s been three months since the first surgery, which is three years. The bitter history [crying] is really not easy. In fact, what I really want is that there is no other way. I don’t want to raise money this way or that way. Wouldn’t it be good to leave this world with dignity [witty]

< p> I turned 58 this month, one year after surgery for stage III ovarian cancer, and two years away from retirement.

When I first heard from my son that 20% of people with a disease like mine could live for another two years, I was very sad: A fortune teller originally said that I could live to be 93 years old, although I knew that this was not true. Seriously, my grandfather lived to be 99 years old, and my grandmother lived to be 93 years old. I hope I can live a long life too. Watching my two grandsons grow up, get married, and have children, and also accompany my parents who are over 80 years old, for They stayed in retirement

Later, with the help of their son, they gradually got to know some patients from all over the country and learned about other successful anti-cancer cases, which strengthened their confidence. Now, they have calmed down and figured it out. Toruo: Treat well, cherish the moment, and leave your life to fate.

In any case, I have lived to the age of being a grandma. Life has its bitterness and sweetness. I have struggled and tried, and I am better than the best.

I was diagnosed with cancer at the age of 57, but I I have never been afraid. It doesn’t matter whether I die or live. I don’t have any worries. I do whatever I have to do every day. I never regard myself as a patient. I live and cherish the moment. Death is a relief. Now I can hit an eight-pound unicorn whip. One hundred lashes