Aventures, affairs and travel

When it comes to traveling, many people will talk about having an affair. If you are traveling alone, your friends will wish you an affair. A trip is only complete if you have an affair. If you are not single, it is best to be with your lover, as this will not be romantic. If it is a family, this trip seems to have a lot less color, because in China's universal values, family is closely connected with responsibility. Look at the friends circle, either parents or parents and children are posted, which is rare. To show off the husband and wife team. In our country, once two people become fixed partners, everyone's focus is on marriage and reproduction, and they leave the intimate relationship itself. So in our viewing circle, apart from celebrities and gossip, there really aren’t that many couples showing off their romance.

So besides having an affair, what else can travel do? In my eyes, there is another layer of romance, which is the beauty of natural scenery and the magnificence of cultural landscapes. This gorgeous encounter must be sexy. For example, when we go to see a scenery or an art gallery, there are sexy elements everywhere in the world of beauty. Sexy is often a marginalized word in our culture. In fact, without sexiness and hormones, it would be difficult for you to imagine that beauty would exist in this world?

Freud said: Art The essence of art lies in the "sublimation" of the artist's repressed sexual instinct desires. When we see good works of art and good cultural landscapes, they are all very sexy. They contain the most natural and colorful beauty of human nature, and these are contained in natural humanities. The beauty inside will cause the body and mind to stretch and scream.

“Never travel with someone you don’t love.”——Hemingway

I think this sentence means that when you travel, you have an affair with the scenery, and the scenery around you If it's someone you don't love, then you're going to cheat. Cheating does not necessarily mean being with a certain person. Cheating means that you have broken away from the original fixed track. Your heart is not in its original place, and the people you are traveling with have not kept up. This is when things get derailed, so sometimes the "derailment" is with one's own work, and when traveling, it may be with the scenery in front of you.

In such a changing world, a life that can withstand scrutiny must be a life that is often "derailed". Because there are too many inappropriate tracks in this world, otherwise there wouldn’t be so many flaws during the Chinese New Year. Those who are urged to find a partner, those who are forced to get married, and those who are asked to have a second child...

No. The word "cheating" has been carefully given a new connotation. It can be said that all "cheating" people in this world are aliens to some extent, and the world is often driven by aliens.

Thinker and liberal master, the arrogant and unruly Li Ao has a unique view on travel: anti-tourism theory. He feels that there are many famous mountains and scenic spots and many good places that are worth seeing, but they are not worth traveling to see. He never travels. Why? He thought it would be nice to just look at the photos. Why should he travel? Nowadays, technology is so advanced, and there are so many slides, movies, and various travel books. If you want to understand a place, it is too realistic, too vivid, and too detailed. Why go and see it? Don't go.

He said: The fun of life is that it retains a lot of imaginative space and a lot of eternal space. The photos are here. The more you look at them, the more you realize: How much can you see by just glancing at them?

So Li Ao is sleeping at home, so according to this statement, does it mean we don’t need to travel? Definitely not, because there is a very important foundation for sleep travel, which is having a big heart, room for imagination, and a strong understanding of beauty. And this ability is usually not that powerful for mortals, so we still have to go out and meet it.

I went to Wuzhen for two days during the Spring Festival. I went there on the 29th of the Lunar New Year and came back on the first day of the lunar new year. When I left Xizha on the first day of the new year, tourists were pouring in like a tide. The service staff told me that at the worst time, you couldn’t walk in the entire Xizha, so you had to follow the crowd. I remember that during the holidays in Suzhou, the queues in front of Subo and the Humble Administrator’s Garden could stretch two blocks away. The number of people in a good scenery is designed. If there are too many or too few, the scenery will be completely distorted. When there are too many people, the scenery will become unbearable. Therefore, travel must have the right time, the right flow of people, and the right place to be called travel.

In my opinion, traveling is to a certain extent a date with distant scenery, but if the date place is so crowded, how can you make an appointment?

For a good trip, you need to think carefully about the scene you want to date. After all, you have to spend money and time to see it. This consideration includes how many people there will be in that place and what happened in his past. What are you doing in your life, what interesting things will happen now and in the future, what kind of things do you want to meet when you go to this place, what kind of food will you enjoy, what interesting sights will you see, etc. This is a cherished heart.

I went there for two days on New Year’s Eve, and I spent a day writing about my three favorite places in Wuzhen, because they really fascinated me, and I kept coming back like a amazed person. , I always go back and forth several times when I leave each place, and I always feel that I haven’t seen enough. When I wrote it out, someone replied to me, Wuzhen, I visited Wuzhen last time, but it didn’t feel like what you wrote. There are several people who responded in this way.

It makes me feel dreamy, but it doesn’t matter at all, because it is my real feeling. I write because I feel so good in my heart, so good that I can’t put it down in my heart. It must be written to be stable, just like when you go on a date with someone and like it too much, you can't help but want to write a love letter when you get back and reminisce about the date. Nothing, just for what you like.

The meaning of travel to me is an encounter. This encounter is outside of daily life. It has been anticipated and sketched, and then I carefully selected the days, the clothes I like, and dressed myself up. Then go on a date with a beautiful part of the world.

In this process, experience every thing you see with your heart, relax yourself and chat with the world, and have a conversation. You must know that every beautiful thing you see is the product of many people in time. The overlapping crystals in the depiction will make you feel awe and closeness.

You can’t see those creators, and they won’t tell you their thoughts, but as you walk around, suddenly at a certain moment you understand the thoughts of other beings in another dimension. This sense of pleasure is the magical joy of travel, and it is also the most exciting thing for me. Although you can also have this kind of interest when reading, when traveling, the feeling you get is three-dimensional, just like the five senses and the brain are enjoying a feast together, so for us mortals, it is necessary to travel.

The significance of travel is when we can use our own breath to feel the lives of people in another world, their food, fruit fragrance, air, landscapes, vegetation, tower walls, paintings, flowers, birds, and cordyceps With history and folklore, etc., we have the opportunity to nourish our souls in another way. All natural and cultural landscapes will be affected by the life around them, and we also listened to many lives while traveling.

All of this exists in every breath and breath. Only by calmly feeling the contact between your feet and the ground, the air supporting your face, and at the moment of breathing, without making any noise, can you calm down. Something that lingers in the mind.

So, you still have to travel when you have time. Find the place you want to go and travel alone or with someone you love.

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On the night of the fifth day of the lunar new year with young people My friends made this sharing, and we talked about "cheating" in youth in the group. Ha, if you are willing, you are welcome to reply and chat with me about the gorgeous encounters you had when you were "cheating" during this Spring Festival.