Step out of your circle and you will find the world is very different.

What is a circle?

Each of us has his own circle, a circle of relatives and friends, a circle of friends, a circle of study, a circle of work, a circle of life...more or less. There are several. Every day we travel through various circles.

The most common one is the circle of friends in WeChat. Here, we will learn about our friends’ lives, interests, work or things they care about from time to time. Friends will share with you whether they are happy or sad. , you get together because you have the same topics or interests, influence each other, and accompany each other.

You may also have a circle, which is the work circle. In this circle are your colleagues. You are doing similar work or have some contacts at work. Because of work, You are in this together. What the work circle brings to you may be the improvement of work skills and gossip at work. Of course, a certain part of the work circle may overlap with the friend circle, and some people are both friends and colleagues.

You may also have various study circles, game circles, and travel circles... In the study circle, everyone learns from each other; in the game circle, everyone plays games together and has fun; in the travel circle, everyone Travel together and share your travel experiences.

There are familiar people or things in these circles, which make us feel comfortable and carefree. Gradually, we become afraid of the outside world and become accustomed to our own circle.

Why should you step out of your circle?

In these circles, you can filter out a large amount of information to get information that is somehow related to or helpful to you. Just like Weibo, Zhihu, Toutiao, etc., when you register and log in, you will be asked to select the aspects you are interested in, which is the so-called personalized customization. During the subsequent use, it will appear on your phone. These are all of your choice.

I have to say that it is good because personalized customization filters out what you like. But on the other hand, it also limits you and limits you from understanding things beyond your interests. This means that what you see, understand, and learn is always within the circle. The world is a big place, why do you only read and learn things in your circle? When you stay in the circle for a long time, you will inevitably get bored. At this time, why not jump out of the circle and see the outside world? I don’t know if you have discovered that staying in your own circle Being in a circle is like boiling a frog in warm water. Gradually, you will be trapped in this circle and die.

Although most of the recommendations on Weibo, Zhihu, etc. are what you like, they will also launch a hot list to help you find other hot topics.

If you step out of the circle, you will find that the world is very different. It can give you a different perspective, make you more calm when facing changes, and allow you to truly realize your self-worth.

How to get out of your circle?

First, learn to think independently.

A person who can think independently is often sober and knows what he wants and what he doesn’t want. I don’t blindly accept things within my circle, and I’m not afraid of things outside my circle. Independent personality and thinking can help you realize your own shortcomings, so that you can take action, make breakthroughs and changes, and improve yourself.

Second, try to do one new thing every day.

In this ever-changing world, new things are happening every moment. Doing something new, that is, something you have never been exposed to or done before, will help you maintain your spirit. curiosity. For example, if you have never been exposed to classical music before, you might as well listen to it today; if you have never tried traveling alone before, why not set off now and take a casual trip. After a month of persistence, you will find that your changes are far beyond your imagination.

Third, meet or find someone who can guide you out of the circle.

There is a kind of person who has his own light. He is full of energy and constantly attracts your attention. Therefore, you will also change for him. He is your spiritual power, and his changes will also drive you. with your changes.

Breaking out of the circle does not mean breaking away from the original circle, but observing and understanding the circle you are in and the world outside the circle from a more objective perspective. Finally, I wish you can discover a wider world.