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My boyfriend and I went on a trip, and my parents wanted to cut off the relationship with me after they found out. What should I do?

I don’t think your parents really want to sever ties with you. This is just an angry word they say when they are angry, or they use it to express their dissatisfaction with you as your boyfriend, or it is a manifestation of their dissatisfaction with you and your boyfriend going on a trip. That’s all.

Don’t explain yourself any more at this time. Give them some time to calm down, and give yourself some time to understand why? They will have such a big reaction, don't conflict again lest they get angrier. You can not show up in front of them first and let them calm down, or you can try your best to do what they expect you to do now and don't let them down.

Your parents should have always been disapproving of dating your boyfriend. They don't really agree with your boyfriend, so they don't want you to have too many intimate behaviors with your boyfriend. So, they will be very angry when they hear that you and your boyfriend went on a trip.

Or maybe your parents still have a relatively traditional concept in their hearts. They may imagine that if you travel, you will inevitably move in together. They think girls should be more conservative before marriage, that's why they are so angry.

No matter what the reason is, since your parents said such things, they must be very dissatisfied with your behavior. As a daughter, you should find out what is the real reason for your parents' anger? Explain it to them well, because traveling is indeed a good way to enhance the relationship between you and test whether you are really suitable for being together. I think if you can stay calm and patiently explain to them, or say more nice things to them, they will calm down.

Parents are the closest people to us, but we often leave the worst tempers and worst attitudes to our parents when they are dissatisfied with some of your behaviors. Don't contradict them, they are just doing it for your own good. Maybe the method is wrong, but you also have to be considerate of their heart. So love can resolve everything.