Travel and marriage are popular, how do young people choose?

Marriage is popular. How do young people choose?

Hello, everyone, I'm Damiao. I'm glad to meet you. Is the love in your heart brand-new today? There is no doubt that with the passage of time, love will show different colors. Having said that, this time I will talk about a relatively new way of witnessing love-traveling and getting married.

Presumably, many people have heard of traveling and getting married. In recent years, it has been sought after by young people who advocate free love and originated in western countries. Simply put, the process of traveling is equivalent to a wedding, and the procedures and forms are not fixed. The wedding started from the moment the couple set foot on the journey, and the wedding was completed when they came back from the tour! Sounds romantic! That's right.

It is also interesting to talk about the origin of travel marriage. According to legend, in ancient England, the Dodons prevailed the custom of robbing marriage. The husband robbed his beloved wife and didn't bring it home. Instead, I traveled first and spent a sweet "seclusion life". During this time, the couple happily drank mead made of honey, which was so sweet that the custom of traveling and getting married came from it. It sounds almost as exciting as China's elopement.

Young people in China are increasingly pursuing freedom and individuality, which leads to the idea of traveling and getting married. This is a good thing in terms of ideological emancipation, but on the other hand, it still has a great impact on traditional marriage. Realistically speaking, parents and elders are very sad. First, even if you get married without a banquet, it is hard to accept. Second, the money sent out can't be recovered. I'm sorry, young people who plan to travel and get married are also worried about these problems. Let's listen to their experiences.

Talk about Zhou Xiao and her husband's travel and marriage experience;

When I decided to travel and get married, I had no time to rest. Zhou Xiaoyun and her husband boarded the plane to South Korea and started their wedding journey, but it didn't go well before departure. Zhou Xiao said that she had planned to get the full support of her parents, spend a happy "seclusion" time during the holiday, celebrate their wedding through travel, and did not plan to hold a wedding reception when she came back. But this wonderful idea was opposed by both parents. Because of their elders, many young couples now have the idea of not hosting banquets or traveling to get married, but in the end, there are not many successes.

"This photo was taken in Seoul, South Korea, this photo was taken in Haeundae, Busan, and this photo was taken in Jeju Island ... We also took DV, so many memories are so beautiful!"

Zhou Xiao opened a barber shop in Qiandao Lake Town. The husband and wife run it together and live a good life. In her shop, I saw the photos taken by Zhou Xiao and her husband during their trip. I can see that they are very happy and satisfied. Zhou Xiao said, "We do our own business. Except for the Chinese New Year, the store can't be deserted all day, so we seldom travel. I'm going to spend my honeymoon after I get married, but the thought of all those red tape and big banquets makes me dizzy. I might as well travel and get married. You can live alone and learn a lot. So we decided to go to South Korea, which is closer and takes less time on the road. "

"We stayed there for twelve days, just like returning to the curiosity and romance when we first fell in love." Although he didn't get the full support of his parents, Zhou Xiao didn't regret their decision at all. "All the trips were arranged by ourselves, and we had a good time. In foreign countries, the only person we can rely on is each other, which makes our feelings closer. Everything is for your own happiness. I really feel that I have been a master once, which is very cool. " Zhou Xiao finally said.

Young people who refuse red tape and pursue individuality say no to the wedding banquet.

A lively wedding reception is a top priority for both families. Nowadays, the wedding ostentation and extravagance competition between relatives makes the standard of wedding banquet higher and higher. A table of $4,000 is the starting price, and all kinds of extravagance and waste have nothing to gain from the essence of the wedding.

Some people say that the wedding banquet seems to be out of shape now. Guests must pay, and gifts must be as thick as friendship. Isn't it? There are too many people getting married on holiday, and their wallets will shrink a lot when they go home. Some people joked that marriage has become a new way of financing.

How to balance travel, marriage and catering?

You may think that since you have already gone through the journey and got married, the banquet will naturally be omitted. The advantage of getting married is that you can save more trouble, right? If you must have a banquet when you come back, why do you have to travel and get married?

However, in the face of parents' obstruction, it is not advisable for children to insist on their own confrontation. After all, this marriage is not only about two people, but also the harmony between two families. In addition, China's traditional filial piety does not allow a person to go his own way. So it's best to choose a more appropriate method and discuss with your elders to take a step back.

Newcomers should also consider the following practical issues:

First, do both husband and wife want to travel and get married? If not, I think it's best to communicate well and see which way to choose. After all, a once-in-a-lifetime wedding should be held in a way that both people are satisfied with. Second, if you choose to travel to get married, you have to give up the traditional wedding banquet. You can't have your cake and eat it. See if you can accept such a fee. Third, can free travel be controlled, otherwise travel and marriage will eventually become a mess, and happiness will naturally be less.

The problem is the problem. In the final analysis, it is planning and communication in advance. Resolving these contradictions before talking about personalized wedding is not the best of both worlds! What do you think of travel weddings? Welcome to continue to pay attention to the emotional story of the big cat! If you like it, click here to let your friends know how you feel today.