How is the poison tongue made?

Even adults, every time they think of their parents' poisonous tongue, they will be completely shocked, their backs will be cold and they will sweat all over. Right?

You are confused, saying that parents love children the most, but why are my parents so mean? What is a vicious attack? (Friendly reminder First of all, this article is "toxic". )

1. Perfect family inheritance

Your parents grew up in a poisonous tongue family and experienced the poisonous tongue of their elders when they were children. When I grow up, I naturally inherited the family's way of treating people, including the poisonous tongue;

2. Pursuing the so-called fairness

People are born to pursue fairness.

When your parents were growing up, for various reasons, they didn't achieve the success they imagined. When he (she) becomes a parent, he (she) will intentionally or unintentionally make vicious language attacks and derogatory remarks on your growth until you fail. At this time, he (she) felt the so-called fairness.

For example, think about your parents' facial expressions when they say "You have today, too". Is he or she smiling?

3. Giant Baby Thinking

Your parents are giant babies themselves, worried that they can't support themselves and that they will be abandoned by you. So he (she) will stimulate you with a poisonous tongue, which is the so-called "hate iron and not produce steel". I hope that the future "steel" will take care of itself and support him well.

If you don't accept it, you are unfilial, a baiwenhang, and ungrateful; Can you stand it if you take him (her) with you?

This is why when volunteering for the college entrance examination, the only requirement for universities is to stay as far away from their parents as possible.

You, afraid of being stuck by your parents, continue to be cruel and want to run away, right?

4. Strong desire for control

Your parents didn't realize the so-called sense of success when they were growing up. Only when they raised you, did they feel successful.

What kind of you are most easily controlled? Babies. Therefore, he (she) will make you feel that you know nothing. Nothing, just a baby. In order not to be persecuted at home, in order to have a foothold, in order not to be attacked by poisonous tongues, you have become a giant baby by procrastination.

Tell me, am I right?

I hope you can gain something after reading this article; I hope you can really understand the meaning of this article, and you won't inherit the poison tongue.

Fight poison with poison, and only when you are sick can you save it.