Why do you feel lost after traveling?

I feel that there are several reasons, all of which are my personal experience. I hope I can answer your doubts. I feel that there are several reasons, all of which are my personal experience. I hope I can answer your doubts. When you are tired, you can travel for as short as 3 to 5 days and as long as half a month or even longer. The body has been in a state of full-load exercise. Maybe I didn't feel it on the way, and I suddenly felt relaxed when I got home. That strong sense of fatigue came over. For example, the last trip to Japan 12 days, all kinds of trampling, all kinds of shopping punching. Every day in the local area, I look energetic and have no fatigue at all. But when I got home the next morning, I found my legs were sore, and then I had to go to work that day. You can imagine my mood at that time. Psychological comparison I took photos at the scenic spot yesterday and ate delicious food. Today, I worked hard at the workstation. The sharp contrast between the environment before and after leads to a drastic change in mentality and a serious sense of loss. Originally, traveling was to escape from the present living environment and experience a different life. Now suddenly returning to the original life will inevitably have a lot of gaps. In fact, this gap is similar to holiday syndrome. Think about it. After a short holiday, whether traveling abroad or staying at home for a few days, did you feel uncomfortable and lost when you first returned to your post? Poor travel experience is also a common reason. In reality, many tourist attractions are hyped, and all kinds of online celebrities punch in the cards, which are all false propaganda. When you go to such scenic spots hopefully, you will get all kinds of disappointments. When I got home, I thought it was not only a waste of money, but also a waste of precious holiday time. It's strange that you won't get lost in this result. Remember the "Flower World" that was madly transmitted by WeChat last time? These photos are so beautiful that you are jealous. As a result, you drove for two hours, which made people stunned. Looking at a large area of hay, it is crowded. They should all be flower-viewing tourists who have been cheated in the past like me. On July 9th, I was awakened by a crow from a shabby hotel in a sparsely populated demolition area. Yes, you're right. It's a cock crow. Hotels with cock crow tips. At five o'clock in the morning, there were no signs of cars or people on the expressway. Our family of four walked to the tall building of Jinan West Railway Station with their hands behind their backs. Speaking of exercise and seeing the scenery all the way, it's a good thing. Because you can't get a taxi at all! Finally, I saw the prosperity from the end of loneliness, relatively prosperous. The breakfast in Jinan West Railway Station is not bad, so we have firmly put the question of not having breakfast in this new city behind us. While waiting for the bus at the station, my girl and I visited all the specialty shops in the waiting room. If nothing else, just to understand the local characteristics and specialties, as well as the understanding and insight into the growth point. The feeling of taking the high-speed rail is always the same. What the radio said about it, what the passengers said about themselves, were all talking to themselves without interference. When the station name plates on both sides of the railway are left behind one by one, the distance from home is getting closer step by step. Outside the window, the gap between the scenery in the south of the Yangtze River left in my mind and the scenery in the north that is becoming more and more obvious in my eyes is very obvious. It can't be said that the scenery in Jiangnan is exquisite, nor can it be said that the scenery in the north is rough. It can only be said that the south of the Yangtze River has its own advantages, the north has its own wonders, and the scenery and products have their own advantages. Everyone has his own opinion. If you ask me how I feel, I will say that Jiangnan is livable and the north is livable. As long as you are with your family, as long as you have relatives and friends around you, everywhere is a good scenery! The freshness of millet gruel, boiled eggs and pickles instantly made me feel at home. This flavor covers a wide range, which can be a flavor, a bloom or an object, and it will be a relaxed and practical feeling. Well, it's really good to feel relaxed, comfortable and wonderful at home. The scenery can be mountains, water, grass, wood and anything that makes people feel comfortable and happy. However, the scenery can also be a family's mutual support during the journey, * * * sharing the responsibility, and going home together to enjoy the most beautiful scenery at that moment, the unspeakable happiness and warmth that we feel together. There used to be a saying that "one place is missing a mystery", which means that if you haven't been to a place, it will be a mystery to you. Only when you have been there in person and seen it with your own eyes will the mystery be solved. However, today, for tourists, every time they go to a place, in addition to solving the mystery of the scenic spots they have been to, they often bring back a bunch of newly harvested "mysteries". You can even get the result of "five questions for solving one problem and ten questions for solving one problem". Of course, the more these fans gain, the less satisfied they feel and the greater their sense of loss. Even though many people are still in their territory, they have already issued a sigh of "not regretting for a lifetime, but regretting for a lifetime"! Why is this happening? First, it's too exaggerated, and the gap between propaganda and reality is too big. When introducing and promoting scenic spots and attractions, you are full of hype. Go and have a look, it's not like this. And the higher the expectation before going, the greater the sense of loss after reading it. Second, rough and disorderly buildings violate the reconstruction of history and environment. Yuxian, a historic town, is famous for its paper-cutting and the "Great Shuhuaxiu" on a warm spring day. In the past few years, food and housing conditions are not very good. Now in order to develop tourism, all kinds of infrastructure have been greatly improved, and they are still improving. But what if it is "too much improvement"? There is a newly-built "Old Fishing Boat Department" in the county town, which is not small in scale, and the county government has complete facilities, no less than the ancient county government in Pingyao ancient city. But we spent a long time in it, and there were no more than ten tourists, the three of us! If someone comes back and says "that place is nice", it must be "playing" you, because he will never go again. The third is too "killing". In the Water Margin, when Yang Zhi accepted the task of escorting the "Birth Program", he once talked about several places where strongmen appeared, including Huangnigang. Why? Because these "dangerous places" are often in the middle of nowhere, and there are forests. Therefore, the strong people at that time were called "green forests", indicating that their behavior was relatively hidden. Nowadays, this group of "strongmen" seems to have gathered in various tourist attractions and scenic spots, and they are all unscrupulous. Even in some places, it is not an exaggeration to say that they are "streaking" and "grabbing fame": they are forced to pay extra diplomatic fees in the middle, and they are kicked out of the car without paying. They were taken into the jet shop by the tour guide, and even cheated and forced to buy and sell. There are tens of thousands of cases in which prawns are only sold without light meals and are led by tour guides to buy thousands of fake vinegar and fake food. If all the above acts are committed by some lawless elements, who will be responsible for the arbitrary price increase of tickets? Tickets for scenic spots are expensive, but why do many scenic spots have to be charged separately? A few years ago, I went to Lushan Mountain. Is the ticket for 180 yuan still cheap? There is an extra fare for driving in, and there is also a charge for opening the Lushan Conference Hall. A "three thousands of feet" bigger than the water in the water pipe is not enough, and it is not enough to buy a cable car ticket back and forth. It only takes ten minutes to get in, and it will cost another thirty dollars. I'm afraid there are not a few scenic spots like this. It is a kind of relaxation and spiritual pleasure for people to travel. However, when traveling, you have to be careful not to be cheated, cheated and fooled by monks and monks in the temple. You think it's easy to play? Would you still feel happy if you were cheated again? Perhaps, what I said is a bit heavy, so I accept your objection. Welcome to give more good places that make people feel "not lost" after going. This is exactly what I want ... My sense of loss is: I haven't played enough! Still going! I'm always in high spirits when I travel, and I'm a little lost when I come back. Because, after a few days, I simply can't play enough. Especially by cruise, I really don't want to get off the boat and want to play for a few days. But because the internet is not easy to use, it takes up to seven days by boat. I don't have high expectations for anywhere, so I won't get lost in the trip. This is my purpose. To put it bluntly, there is no place like home. Because, without high expectations, there is naturally fun. It's always fresh to see places you've never been. Going out to play means eating, living and playing. Every place has its famous attractions and snacks. As long as everyone is satisfied, they will not go in vain. Because, if you don't play enough with your work, you will be lost. When I swim deeply, I probably won't have this idea. For me, the best way to travel now is to take a cruise. Convenient and comfortable, as long as you get on the boat, everything is OK, and you don't have to worry about anything. Therefore, I often can't sit enough. I'm going to make a breakthrough next year. I'll go to South America for more than ten days and take enough cruises. Traveling is interesting, so don't feel lost, otherwise it's thanks to you. After spending money, I am still not satisfied, and my heart is blocked. Let nature take its course Enjoy the happiness brought by travel, more than anything else! In order to answer this question, I specially looked up the meaning of "lost". Baidu explained: sense of loss refers to a sense of frustration and discouragement caused by expecting too much of yourself and others, but not reaching the expected level. We all come here for many scenic spots. Even if you ask for leave and spend money, you will come all the way excitedly. However, many tourists get lost. I analyze the following reasons. First, it really doesn't live up to its name. Mainly due to imperfect supporting facilities, dilapidated facilities and insufficient connotation. It takes more than an hour to go around, and there are three or two scenic spots. It makes people feel that the scenic spot has exaggerated propaganda. Second, the tour with the group is too tight, and you can't finish it in a day and a half. For example, some places that need to play for three or two days can only be arranged for a short time due to the itinerary, which makes people feel that they have to float on the surface and swallow the dates raw. Third, it coincides with holidays and Golden Week, and people are crowded, but people can't see the scenery along the way. It takes a lot of time to queue up for tickets, eat and go to the toilet. Even if you take pictures, you have to queue up. There are always people you don't know in the camera. Fourth, there are too many scenic spots and some services that deceive people. There are also some scenic spots that are too commercialized and incompatible with the style of the scenic spots. To put it bluntly, it is trite. For example, individual religious attractions were delisted and fell to the stars. There are many other reasons leading to loss and depression, and so on. In fact, there is nothing perfect in the world, it is almost enough. A good attitude makes you happy, don't you think? There are different opinions about why there is a sense of loss after traveling. As the saying goes, as long as you are in a good mood, there are scenery everywhere. There is a sense of loss after the trip. Traveling abroad is relaxation, and traveling is fun. My sense of loss is that I haven't been able to travel for a long time after traveling. The sense of loss after traveling is mainly manifested in the contrast between the expectation before traveling and the actual process of traveling. For example, fellow tourists disagree, the scenery they see is different from the propaganda, and the weather is not satisfactory. The various situations encountered during the trip are too different from the wishes before the trip. At the same time, it is also because individuals have different ideas and ideas after encountering situations, resulting in a sense of loss. My personal experience is that when you meet people with different viewpoints, different food and shelter requirements and different viewpoints, you should enrich your experience, seek common ground while reserving differences, continue to cooperate on your next trip if you can, and cooperate once if you can't, so there is no sense of loss. On the contrary, what you get is harvest, long knowledge, comprehensive enrichment of your own experience and accumulation of experience. I don't know if everyone feels the same way. I am fascinated by nature, living a romantic life with a simple heart and enjoying the beautiful scenery of nature. People are very cheap. I don't know when there will be some inexplicable emotions, loss or excitement. Women are more likely to lose, and men are more likely to get excited. Strong-willed people are not easy to be emotional contagion by the outside world, while mentally fragile people are more likely to fall into confusion. This is also related to the resources available. Under the omnipotent feeling, there is strong spiritual and material support behind it, except for mental problems. The reason why you feel lost after traveling is because you have achieved a goal, but it is not your psychological expectation or you have no goal for the time being. When traveling, people are excited, and the beautiful scenery makes people heroic. Over time, the stronger the excitement, the greater the sense of loss. Sense of loss is an emotional experience composed of negative emotions. Such as sadness, distress, depression, irritability, guilt, anger, guilt, anxiety, pain, self-blame ... Travel will consume a certain amount of money, time and energy. There is no doubt that some people will feel lost on this trip on this basis. Value, valuable distress; Not worth it. Not worth it. It's not difficult to solve it. Just find yourself another goal and divert your attention. The past has passed, and the future will continue to experience it. Why do we feel a sense of loss after traveling? We have to think about it first. Why should we travel? To sum up, we have three needs for travel. First, I want to escape from the environment full of work pressure and life pressure that I am tired of. In the face of people, things and things familiar all the year round, we can no longer find their beauty. Therefore, I yearn for a strange environment. In a strange environment, even without beautiful scenery, everything is fresh. I don't need to face them and think about how to live and work. Just for fun, just for leisure, let yourself become yourself immediately. When I finished this trip, I felt very lost when I wanted to go back to my original life. The second is to experience the beauty and customs of the tourist destination personally, but it may be a matter of time, and the experience of the beauty or customs is not enough, so I can't bear to leave, so I feel lost. It is also possible to reach a tourist destination, and the experience of beautiful scenery or customs is not as good as you expected, so you are lost. Third, just to satisfy their mentality of coming here. During the trip, I was only busy taking photos and taking photos, and maybe I was busy making friends again. Not only did I not calm down to experience the beauty and customs of the tourist destination, but I finally enjoyed the scenery in my photos. At the same time, I am very tired and have no leisure and relaxation mood at all. So after the trip, there is nothing but photos, and I feel very lost. The above is my experience of traveling for many years. I don't know what you think. Why do you feel lost after traveling? Tourism itself is a kind of relaxing travel, but many people will feel a sense of loss after traveling. Why is this? Going out for a walk every holiday is also a feeling. Sense of loss is also one of them. First of all, the most direct reason is that publicity in scenic spots is greater than efficacy. Nowadays, many famous scenic spots rely on hype and network celebrities to punch cards to achieve the purpose of circling powder. When you drive here with curiosity, your heart will change 180 degrees. Many tourists have come, and swimming feels worthless. In fact, there are not a few scenic spots that exaggerate publicity. Driven by interests, they can be described as strength pits. Anyway, there are many people in China, and I don't care about lying to you. In this case, people who love to travel should pay more attention to the relevant information of the destination before traveling, and look at both sides. Avoid being dug by manpower. Secondly, I feel that the inexplicable sense of loss after traveling is caused by the psychological gap. Think about all kinds of relaxation in the past few days. Don't worry about staying up late and getting up the next day. Don't be a man with your tail between your legs every day. In short, how to get high in the days of travel. After the tour, I suddenly have to go to work again, and everything will be on the right track. At this time, there will be inexplicable sadness and loss. This is actually a holiday syndrome. Although the tour is over, my heart has not recovered. Therefore, some people were in Cao Ying and their hearts were in the Han Dynasty. In this case, everyone should pay attention to slowly adjust their emotions. The last sense of loss is a temporary psychological boredom caused by excessive fatigue after traveling. This is easy to handle, have a good rest, and after dawn, I will still be beaten by all kinds of trips!