The most romantic and talented man in the Song Dynasty neglected his beloved wife

The most romantic and talented man in the Song Dynasty neglected his beautiful wife.

Text/Liu Liping

Love, although it begins with a romantic drama of 999 roses, may end with a realistic drama of growing old with you. Romantic love is the gorgeous fireworks in the sky, while realistic love is the solid flowers and plants on the soil, even the dog's tail flower.

So let’s not believe everything about love that is said, sung, written and acted, especially by talented people who are good at writing emotional articles. Their love lives are much more exciting than their practices. If you look at it from the perspective of normal people pursuing a normal state, their emotional world may be very unbearable.

The most famous love chapter of Liu Yong, the most romantic and talented man in the Song Dynasty, is Yu Lin Ling Han Chan. It is "thousands of miles of smoke and waves, a small wind and a waning moon." He held his son's hand and looked at him with tears in his eyes. However, the unhappiness behind this is unknown to ordinary people.

Suspense:

I burst into tears watching it again.

Is there an emotional crisis behind it?

Love must be beautiful, visible, and admirable, especially the love of celebrities. In modern society, variety shows are for show, and red carpets are for show. In a society without modern means of communication, poetry is used for expression and lyrics are used for expression.

Liu Xianghong and Liu Yong’s original intention was not necessarily a show, but his poignant Yulinling and Hanchan made this farewell love show last for thousands of years. This love farewell show took place in the sixth year of Xianping reign of Emperor Zhenzong of the Song Dynasty, which was 1003 AD. It was also the year when I wrote the manuscript, which was Qingqiu.

The good times were wasted.

The weather is showing off. A heavy rain had just stopped and the showers started to stop. There is some coolness, and the coolness of the climate permeates the animals in nature. So the cicada is also a show. It mourns for those who are leaving.

A show was also arranged at the venue: the ancient gymnasium. This set was moved to the farewell stage in time. The set designer returned it to the pavilion as a farewell, casting a layer of twilight on the pavilion. I arrived late at the pavilion.

Transportation is also on display. Lanzhou, the port outside the capital of the Song Dynasty, urges people to set out in a nostalgic atmosphere. The more they pressed, the more they gave up and the more they wanted to stay, Lanzhou urged. Well, the world is putting on a good show for your departure. Come out quickly, you show-off.

Find a partner to get married, and whoever leaves is just a show. what do I do? Holding hands, eye to eye, the hands are holding the body heat of the moment, and the eyes are full of farewell feelings in the future. Dear, do you want to say something? The best show is not to say it out loud, but also to have a throat blockage. I wanted to say it or not say it, which would be the best, so I held my hands and watched with tears in my eyes, but I was speechless and choked with sobs. It's really a bit like a love show on a celebrity couple's variety show, a touching performance: holding hands, crying, being speechless, hugging, and sobbing. Only Liu Yong's farewell show set off thousands of tears, while the celebrity couple show only set off tears during the prime time that night.

Here, it is necessary to insert some allusions. From textbooks to dictionaries, it is said that this is a portrayal of Liu Xianghong's breakup with his girlfriend. However, I recently read the annotations of Xue Lezhang Collection, and there is a point in it: this is the farewell of Liu Xianghong and Lady Liu. The heroine is not a prostitute, but Mrs. Liu, whom the matchmaker is marrying. Looking at other people's research, it still makes some sense.

Analyze this farewell show from the time and place of farewell. In the late autumn of 1003, the dock was located outside Bianliang City. The Farewell Hero Liu Yong was born in Jining, Shandong Province. Although he is from Fujian, he spent his youth in Bianliang and entered the age of marriage.

Around 1001, Liu Yong got married in Bianzhou, and about the third year after his marriage, he arrived in Hangzhou. At this time, Liu Yong was only seventeen years old and not yet a minor. In love, it is estimated that his wings have not yet fully grown, and his pure heart has not yet turned into a love heart. At this time, his first wife, Mrs. Liu, should have come to say goodbye.

Look at the parting of this young couple, how old it is. It's different if it's a bit cultural. It's not enough to get to work before autumn dusk. It is also necessary to drive the vast middle and lower reaches of the Yangtze River to perform. T

I have exhausted all the factors that can make a drama. Finally, I have to make up my mind: My dear, in the years without you, all the beautiful moments are in name only because of your absence. I am too lazy to tell people that I am not in the mood to pick wild flowers on the roadside. After so many years, the beautiful moment must have existed in name only. Even if it is full of emotions, who can enjoy it together?

This is the most successful love farewell show and has moved thousands of people. However, we know that celebrity love shows are often potential breakup crises. Is the love between Liu Yong and Mrs. Liu, after a poignant and touching farewell show, also an emotional crisis of driving cattle?

Decryption: Liu Yong admitted in the lyrics that he was having an emotional crisis with his wife.

Let’s follow Teacher Xue’s ideas to analyze Liu Yong’s love psychology. Granted, this is not my personal discovery. I just use literary techniques to interpret the findings of scholars.

Liu Yong was probably married in 1001, and his wife was beautiful and virtuous. The saliva of offspring may not be used as evidence. Let Liu Yong prove this point in his own words.

Lady Liu is very beautiful and has a good figure: slender waist and picturesque figure; very charming, very charming, very charming, dominating the world, very charming; ice and snow smart: orchid; considerate: on the wedding night, I I was afraid that my husband would be too tired to socialize. I didn’t want to be happy, but I told my spouse to take a rest first, but I told her to go to bed first.

Liu Yong reflects on his married life.

Look, Liu Caizi is praising his wife. From the perspective of a kind-hearted literary uncle, I would rather believe that Liu Caizi's description is true. Mrs. Liu is beautiful, good-tempered and considerate. At least, there is no negative evidence to prove that Mrs. Liu is ugly. As an artistic young man or an artistic uncle, you must believe in beauty. If you didn't believe in beauty, there would be no literature or even a world. Please remember.

However, there seems to be a bottleneck in marriage, whether it is a genius or a grassroots person, an ancient person or a modern person. Does this period occur two or three years after marriage, but less than seven years?

Two or three years after their marriage, the relationship between Liu Yong and his wife developed a rift. Let us speak in the words of those involved. It is said that Liu Yong and his wife separated. On the way to Hangzhou, they began to calmly think about their emotional and life experiences over the years. He was filled with emotion and composed a new song called Zhu Ma Ting, which briefly summarized these experiences.

First of all, he believes that the three-year marriage life is still dominated by love: two or three years, the joy of fish and water. Happy days are always like this, just brushed aside.

The next step is the entanglement of married life: Liu Caizi believes that the problem lies in his wife's character, and Liu Tai's character is really difficult to take care of. Although Liu Caizi fell in love with his wife more and more, obeyed everything, and loved her more affectionately, just to give her what she wanted, his unilateral positive actions did not bring about positive interactions with the other party. My wife is very willful, indulgent, excessive, and arrogant. Of course, in order to respect women, I would like to make a statement here. Because there is no statement from Mrs. Liu, I can’t say whether this is because she is too willful and caused a marital crisis.

Finally, Mr. Liu Yong made a pessimistic prediction about the trend of marriage and the development of the relationship between husband and wife. He thought that their relationship was drifting apart now, and he also gradually realized that although regret was hard to catch up with, the two lines of emotion were getting farther and farther apart, and they lost their intersection, and felt regretful in their hearts, but they could not catch up with the past state. It's easy to fall in love, but so hard to get along with. Even if they come back to reunite in the future, it will be difficult for them to rekindle their old love, and they will never be able to return to their former selves: the long farewell may not end well, just as hard as it was then.

The biggest sadness is that I want to go back to the past, but I can't help but go back. My feelings are gone, this and Liu Yong's playboy. At that time, Liu Yong didn't look like a VIP in a brothel.

It can break up lovers and cannot be quantified when the relationship between husband and wife breaks down. You and I never know when love will fall apart and when you will not

From Liu Yong’s reflections, regrets and helplessness, we can boldly judge the reason for their separation in Bianliang: the young couple has entered There is no way to remedy the bottleneck period of relationships and marriage. Then, they should break up for a while before making a decision.

Ms. Liu died of depression.

The problems are common to all centuries, but the solutions are different. In that era more than 1,000 years ago, we couldn't be separated, we couldn't. We broke up amicably, and then we found each other. Then, let the man go on a trip, and the woman here can only stay at home. But she got sick. Three years after Liu Yong came back, Mrs. Liu became seriously ill and gave up.

Imagine a couple who still love each other, but can't live in harmony 1000 years ago. They agree to amicably separate for a while to allow time and space to work things out and hope for love to come back, but the ending is dark and its beautiful moments are in vain. That kind of helplessness is more than just parting.

Can we understand it?