How to chat with your blind date?

How to chat with a blind date

1. The minefield of chatting

1. Check-meter conversation

Male: Are you there?

Female: Yes.

Male: What year are you from?

Female: 1990s.

Male: How tall are you?

Female: 163.

Summary: Chatting like this makes people feel very straight. People are not rigid machines. Dry conversations can easily be blocked by the other party.

2. Comment the other person casually

Male: You are so beautiful, so many people should be chasing you, right?

Female: No.

Male: How many times have you been in love?

Female: Never talked about it.

Male: Is there something wrong with you?

Summary: People who like to evaluate others casually are either a typical people-pleaser personality or a typical arrogant personality. Both personalities are very unpopular with women.

3. Tell the truth

Male: My name is I'm anxious, so I want to find a marriage partner as soon as possible. What do you think of me?

Female: It’s okay.

Male: Then tell me your views and interests again, and I’ll see if we’re a good fit?

Female: No.

Summary: Blind date is a process of getting to know each other. You take the initiative to explain everything to the other party. On the surface, you seem to be very down-to-earth, but in the eyes of girls, you have no sense of mystery. I want to continue to get along with you. It is gone.

2. How to chat with your blind date

1. Establish a tacit understanding

When you meet your blind date for the first time, girls will definitely be wary of you psychologically. If you are overly flattering, caring, or casually commenting during a chat, girls will only label you with a "bad impression." Therefore, if you want to quickly disarm the other party, you can establish a tacit understanding through humorous exchange of information. You must know that once two people establish a tacit understanding, they will also establish an emotional connection.

Example:

Male: By the way, I still don’t know your name?

Female: Just call me Xinxin. What do you call me?

Male: Zhao XX, or call me shy little brother.

Female: Brother, what do you do?

Male: I work in an Internet company and work overtime every day until I vomit blood.

Female: We have been working overtime recently, and we have a lot of customers at the end of the year.

Male: Then this is our first tacit handshake.

2. Humor

If your date always likes to perfunctory your chat, it means that your chat topics are not nutritious and girls will not enjoy the fun of chatting with you. Therefore, it is better to change your chatting style and express ordinary topics in a humorous and funny way. When girls' emotions are satisfied after being happy, they will naturally like to get along with you.

Example:

Male: Looking at your photos, I think you are quite cute.

Female: I don’t think I’m cute.

Male: Then you are responsible for being funny, and I am responsible for being cute.

Female: Haha, how cute are you?

Male: Every cell in me from head to toe is full of pure green and lovable.

Female: Haha, what you said reminds me of green plants and succulents.

Male: Whatever you like.

3. Warm Flirting

The purpose of blind date is to fall in love and get married. If the chat with a girl remains at the stage of friends, you will eventually fall into the friendship zone. The so-called friendship zone means that the other person only regards you as a friend and does not experience the feeling of love at all from you. Therefore, we must seize the window and take the initiative to launch an attack. From the initial superficial expression of interest, we can gradually talk about intimate topics. Intimate topics include: shopping hand in hand, hugging, kissing, etc. Intimate titles include: baby, baby , cute little ones, etc.

Example:

Male: How tall are you?

Female: 165 What about you?

Male: 177 and we have the cutest height difference (expressing interest).

Female: Isn’t the cutest height difference 15?

Male: It means to stand on tiptoes just right, to stand on tiptoes and lift the skirt.

Female: You really make things worse for yourself.

Male: Yes, I am the leading and supporting actor both in and out of the play.

Female: Your tricks to flirt with girls are too deep.

Male: No, if you want to blame it, it’s because the baby is too cute. (Warm name)

Female: Tsk, where do you work? (Girls taking the initiative to ask questions indicate that there is a window)

3. Prepare all-purpose topics

If you want to have a pleasant chat with your blind date, you must prepare a chat topic bank in advance and filter the other party from it. Chat about the topics you are most interested in. Once you have established the same topic, the subsequent chat will become much easier.

Topics suitable for chatting with girls include: pets, celebrities, gossip, cosmetics, brand-name fashion, games, food, travel, TV movies, variety shows, music, childhood, future, ideals...