What kind of experience is a person's birthday?

First of all, I want to talk about loneliness. More than two years after graduation, at first, due to the nature and location of work (I went to a strange city alone after graduation), I had few holidays and had a rest on weekdays. I can't find anyone to go shopping and watch movies with, and my colleagues have few opportunities to eat. It is really a heart-wrenching process to suddenly turn from collective life to fighting alone. Only gradually, people will become accustomed and numb because of this loneliness, and even gain another unprecedented freedom. I have changed my job now, returned to a familiar place, rented a house by myself, and am still used to entertaining myself and traveling far. Loneliness has not made me an unsociable person, nor has it affected my normal social activities. On the contrary, I became stronger, more independent and had a more mature way of thinking. The second thing is a person's 25th birthday, which will be celebrated soon. I am a girl, and 25 years old is really a very important watershed. I have always been a crazy and impulsive person, and I still don't know how to plan (the suggestions given by netizens are basically finished). I want to say the topic, of course, and tell myself: the purpose of form is to commemorate, birthday is a form, to commemorate that we have passed another 365 days in this world, and whether we grew up with the years this year, whether what we saw and heard brought us experiences and gains, whether I understood the big topic of life better than last year ... stripping off my coat is the core value. Therefore, no matter what form it takes, whether someone cares about the company or not, this inevitably waved 25th birthday is valuable if it can witness personal growth or open a new chapter in life.