How would you respond to an invitation from someone you don't like?

I find that people are particularly double-standard, and I am reserved in the face of people I like and determined in the face of people I don't like. I think since I don't like him, I don't want to accept his superiority, but the way to refuse must be chosen.

In the first way, you can tell him that you are busy at work recently and have no time to date. In fact, after we leave the campus, we will find that we have to face many things every day. We will be very busy and sometimes we can't get away. So when everyone is busy, you say that you are busy with work and have no time to date. I'm sure the person who made this proposal will understand you. In fact, I think this is a euphemism for refusal. If he has a little emotional intelligence, you can see that you are politely rejecting him. In this case, his feelings for you will gradually fade away. I think being busy with work is a very legitimate and sufficient reason, which makes people unable to find fault and is very suitable for refusing others.

The second way is to go on a date with him and see what he really wants to do. Just because you don't like others doesn't mean that others don't like you, so when someone you don't like asks you out, you can also go out with him to see what he really thinks. Maybe he has something to say to you at the dinner table, and he will tell you that he is close to your goal. In fact, we can't refuse others because they don't clearly express their feelings. If a person likes you, you can feel it, but if he doesn't confess to you, you can't refuse him, because if you refuse him, if he says he doesn't like you, it will be embarrassing. Understand what the other person is thinking, and then make a better response.

The third way is to reject him directly. Show your attitude. Some people have a thick skin. After you have rejected him many times, he still wants to pursue you or date you. At this time, you can refuse him directly, without taking too much care of his face, show your attitude and let him know that you are firm in your attitude towards him. He has no hope at all and will slowly let go.