Sleeping with the blind date, the man and the blind date went out to travel.

0 1.

Every girl has her own reserve in her heart, which stems from her inner desire for self-protection. Only people who are very familiar with her can open her heart, even abandon this reserve and show their identity. But in fact, in my opinion, this idea is not hypocrisy or "pretending", but more self-respect and self-love.

Reservations are like women's clothes. Once lost, it is equivalent to willing streaking. As Tu Lei described, "once courtship fails, love becomes a gift", so that the other party will not cherish you.

On the contrary, women insist that the other person can't get what they want, and will always cling to this feeling. Although it is a bit "mean" to describe men like this, it is human nature.

Therefore, reserve is not the same as affectation, but the efforts made by both men and women for love. If a man regards a woman's reserve as a "costume", then such a man is not worthy of love, so leave the reserve as early as possible.

02.

Under the introduction of friends, Chen Kexin met Du Hai, the blind date. Both of them thought it was very good at first sight. Du Hai is humorous, and his family conditions and income are not bad, which meets Chen Kexin's standards for future husbands. Chen Kexin is also good, with a good face, exquisite figure and no worse career than Du Hai, so the relationship was confirmed after they met for about a month.

Both Du Hai and Chen Kexin like traveling, so when they are about three months old, they discuss going out to play together. Chen Kexin agreed without much thought. Du Hai booked a three-day and two-night tour route in a coastal city, but Chen Kexin didn't want to take care of these things and agreed to Du Hai's decision.

That day came, and they had a good relationship, talking and laughing in the street. It's not that Chen Kexin can't play. Now that the relationship is confirmed, there won't be too much resentment when the partner pulls his hand, hugs himself or even kisses himself. This is also a way to express love.

However, the problem is at night. Du Hai only booked a room in his hotel, which was unacceptable to Chen Kexin. In fact, at the time of blind date, Chen Kexin said that he had never had a boyfriend and hoped to save his first time for marriage. At that time, Du Hai readily promised, but I didn't expect to do so now.

When Du Hai heard that Chen Kexin wanted to live separately, his attitude was a little bad and he didn't agree. He said there were two beds in the room, so they could live separately, but Chen Kexin didn't fall for it. If he really enters a room, who knows what Du Hai can do?

Two people for this matter contradictions, the atmosphere is getting worse and worse, finally Chen Kexin booked a room, and Du Hai sleep separately.

03.

This incident made the atmosphere of the two people instantly ice to the extreme. Originally, Du Hai planned to go to the beach with Chen Ke in the evening, but they never mentioned it again after they returned to the hotel. Du Hai didn't call Chen Kexin again.

The next day, Chen Kexin felt that the relaxed feeling in front of Du Hai was wrong. Du Hai insisted on living in Chen Kexin's room for various reasons, even at night, and his attitude gave Chen Kexin a very tough feeling.

Therefore, Chen Kexin thought Du Hai must have ulterior motives, bought a return ticket in advance, and finally took Du Hai's luggage and left when he went to buy a supper.

It wasn't until I got on the plane that I sent a message to Du Hai saying that I was going back first. Du Hai replied "Yes" almost every second.

A week later, Chen Kexin did not contact Du Hai, and Du Hai did not contact Chen Kexin again.

But in fact, it seems that Chen Kexin has been blocking a stone in his heart. I don't understand why Du Hai thought he would definitely share a room with him, so he asked Du Hai out. On the one hand, after all, he agreed to associate, and if he broke up, it would be good to be together. On the other hand, ask him what he thought at that time.

Du Hai also simply agreed, and didn't pester Chen Kexin too much about breaking up, so Chen Kexin asked what was in his heart.

Du Hai said: "After all, it is a relationship between men and women. What can it be like to live together? "

After hearing this, Chen Kexin has no nostalgia for Du Hai's heart.

04.

The Book of Songs says: "The mulberry leaves are fat before it falls. In the nest, there is no mulberry. I am a girl, so I don't have to worry about it. I can still get rid of my troubles. You can't get rid of women's embarrassment. " In other words, as a woman, she should be rational and reserved under any circumstances.

Without this trip, it is really hard for Chen Kexin to find that Du Hai is selfish and eager for quick success, which is far from her dream of patience and good temper.

Actually, two people are not suitable. In Du Hai's eyes, as long as they are male and female friends, they can live in the same house, but in Chen Kexin's eyes, they are different.

Maybe there's nothing wrong with both of them. When you think about it, it is natural for a man to feel humiliated and angry when he is rejected by a woman. As a woman, Chen Kexin doesn't want to live with a man before marriage, so it is reasonable to leave early for self-protection.

The emotional thing is "together, we are together, but we are not together."

However, Du Hai's phrase "What is hypocrisy and reserve" really ruined his character.

To tell the truth, when a girl agrees to travel with a man, it almost means that she admits and trusts each other. Besides, there was a conversation before that she wanted to save her first night after marriage, and the man was still so strong. This is essentially a disrespect for women's behavior and a disregard for feelings and relationships.

And girls have long "opened their eyes" before getting married, and never let go of any details, so it is naturally impossible to be with such a man again.

I remember reading such a sentence on the title page of a famous foreign book: "The sun is new every day. As a girl, I want to be as bright as the sun every day. "

For love and marriage, Chen Kexin has no problem, because she faces up to love and herself, and the bottom line has not been broken, so that the future marriage will face up to her and believe that she will find her true happiness.