When you are in love, whether your boyfriend loves you or just wants to sleep with you, it only takes one trip to find out.

Whether he loves you or just wants to sleep with you, everything that happens during the trip will reveal his true face. When a scumbag hooks up with you under the guise of traveling, you can clearly say "no"!

—1—

My cousin was in a bad mood recently and asked her what was wrong. She said that her boyfriend proposed to go to Chongqing during the May Day holiday. I say this is a good thing. Traveling can best test a person’s quality and overall quality.

But my boyfriend said that I could only book one room, and the two of us had to live together. My cousin said reluctantly. My cousin is a relatively reserved girl. She has only known her boyfriend for less than two months, so she has concerns.

I asked my cousin, during the two months you have been dating your boyfriend, has he ever hinted at having a relationship with you?

There is no hint, he said it many times - when we were shopping together and passed the entrance of a certain hotel, he said that he had a membership card for the hotel, let's go and stay for one night.

I clearly refused, and then he became unhappy, played with his mobile phone while walking, and refused to talk to me.

I heard that this guy doesn’t have a high emotional intelligence and is not very reliable. So, you tell him that when you go to Chongqing, you must book two rooms, and all expenses are AA, and then see how he reacts. If he agrees, you can continue to date in the future. If not, break up as soon as possible.

My cousin did what I asked, but the boy got angry and said that he had been dating his cousin for two months. He treated her every time he went shopping and had dinner, and he also bought some gifts for his cousin. However, his cousin has never bought him any gifts. This time he went to Chongqing to play. If the two of them live together, they can save a lot of accommodation fees. If the cousin’s head was caught in the door, this account will not be settled...

The more the boy talked, the angrier he became, and eventually it escalated to the point of personal attack. He said that his cousin was so fat that even if he took off his clothes and lay on the bed, he would not take a look...

Listen After hearing what my cousin said, I asked her what she thought now, and she said she had broken up with that boy.

I told my cousin that you are doing the right thing. A boy is petty, caressing about everything, and becomes angry when his dirty thoughts are exposed by others. Then he makes bad words and hurts others, even up to personal attacks. Such a boy should not Whatever.

—2—

Colleague Lili has been dating her boyfriend for almost three months. During the Qingming Festival holiday, her boyfriend suggested going to Tianshui for fun. Lili agreed, but when they arrived in Tianshui , Lili discovered that her boyfriend had only booked one room.

Lili is the kind of girl with relatively conservative ideas. Although her boyfriend usually takes good care of her, after all, they have not been dating long enough and her understanding of all aspects of her boyfriend is not deep enough. So once her boyfriend has Lili would still reject the more intimate gestures, let alone sleeping in the same room.

Lili wanted to book another room, but then she gave up the idea. She wanted to take this opportunity to test her boyfriend to see if he was reliable and whether he knew how to have a deep relationship.

At night, after washing up, Lili told her boyfriend that she was on her period and wanted to go to bed early.

The boyfriend said yes, and then he turned off the lights in the room. The boyfriend said he was going out to buy something and would be back soon.

A few minutes later, her boyfriend came back with a bag of brown sugar in his hand. He turned on the flashlight on his mobile phone and made a cup of brown sugar water for Lili. In the dark night, Lili was lying on another bed. After seeing this, she felt warm in her heart - her period had just ended and she no longer needed to drink brown sugar water, but she had to finish the bowl of brown sugar water her boyfriend made for her.

That night and the next night, her boyfriend stayed on his bed as quiet as a kitten. The evil plots and overlord’s advances that Lili worried about did not appear in her mind.

The next morning, they originally planned to climb Maiji Mountain, but their boyfriend temporarily adjusted the route and said they would go to Fuxi Temple. Lili asked why? Your boyfriend said that you are not feeling well and are not suitable for mountain climbing...

In Fuxi Square, there are various vendors selling snacks. "Quagua" is a specialty snack of Tianshui. Every foreign tourist who goes to Tianshui must try it. Guagua, Lili also wanted to eat guagua, but her boyfriend stopped her, saying that these few days were an extraordinary period and they could not eat raw, cold and exciting things...

They had a great time on that trip to Tianshui, After returning to work, Lili called her parents and told her that she had found a boyfriend and would take him home during the National Day holiday to accept your test.

—3—

My friend Xiaofang went to the ancient city of Xi’an with her boyfriend of half a year during the National Day last year. Xiaofang is a relatively traditional woman. She made it clear at the beginning of her relationship with her boyfriend that she was still a girl and could only have sex after she got married. My boyfriend said no problem. So they booked two rooms after arriving in Xi'an.

But at night, her boyfriend stayed in Xiaofang’s room and refused to leave. He first showed Xiaofang the adult videos on his mobile phone, but Xiaofang refused to watch them. Then he told dirty jokes again, and the same thing happened. Was stopped by Xiaofang.

The boyfriend looked embarrassed. Suddenly, he turned off the lights in the room, then held Xiaofang tightly in his arms, kissed her forcefully, and unbuttoned her clothes with one hand. ...

Xiaofang struggled to break away. She ran out of the room in disheveled clothes, and then sat on the sofa in the hotel lobby until midnight.

During this period, his boyfriend sent him a text message, saying that he was a little impulsive and sorry. But he didn't come to the hall to find Xiaofang.

The front desk staff asked her with concern if she was okay. Why didn’t she take a rest? She said it was okay, and after sitting there for a while, she returned to her room. That night, she couldn't sleep.

At seven o'clock the next morning, her boyfriend knocked on Xiaofang's door and said it was time to set off. Their tour route today was the Terracotta Warriors, Huaqing Pool and Lishan Mountain. Because I didn’t sleep well last night, Xiaofang asked me not to go out for fun in the morning. Is that okay?

Of course. The boyfriend replied. Then he went to the Terracotta Warriors alone.

At almost noon, Xiaofang’s WeChat received another message from her boyfriend: Let’s break up. I can’t stand a saint like you, White Lotus. We’ve been dating for half a year and you still won’t let me. Touch it, why are you pretending to be innocent? In the past six months, I spent a lot of money shopping and eating with you. If I use this money to find a lady, it is better than spending it on you. I am blind...

That afternoon , after visiting the Terracotta Warriors and Horses, my boyfriend took the train back to his hometown.

After Xiaofang saw this message, she was a little sad at first, and her heart surged, but she quickly regained her composure. She should be happy after seeing the true face of a scumbag and then losing him. So she went to the Terracotta Warriors alone after lunch, and took a lot of selfies at the largest musical fountain in Asia (Big Wild Goose Pagoda) in the evening.

She went to Huashan the next day. Instead of taking the cable car, she climbed the mountain on foot. When she climbed from Yuquanyuan to the North Peak, she was covered in sweat, but she felt very comfortable.

Standing on the top of the mountain, looking down at the earth, she felt relaxed and happy. At this moment, she suddenly felt that this trip to Xi'an was particularly cost-effective: break up with the scumbag, learn to stop losses in time; climb to the top bravely, Only then can you broaden your horizons. When your horizons are broadened, your mind will become more mature. In the future, you will be able to identify various emotional traps on the road of emotion. At least, when a scumbag hooks up with someone under the guise of traveling, you can clearly understand Say "no" to him!