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There should always be a trip with good friends in your life
It is said that traveling is the best test of the relationship between people.
You really can't just find someone to travel with, because there will always be some small problems during the trip, which can expose people's originality.
What about my bestie?
Could it be that we share everything from trivial things to life ideals, from celebrity gossip to family antics, and not stand the test of travel?
Recently, four best friends who have known each other for 20 years traveled to Myanmar together, showing us the "true face" of their friendship.
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The program "We Are Real Friends" was launched recently. Four good friends, Xu Xiyuan (big S), Xu Xidi (little S), Liu Hanya (Aya), and Fan Xiaoxuan Take a trip together.
The big S who is always exquisite online but sometimes has a venomous tongue; the little S who is funny but knows when to stop; the delicate and gentle "housekeeper" Aya; and the magical girl Fan Xiaoxuan who is as cute as ever.
The four of them met when they were young, and twenty years passed in the blink of an eye.
Fan Xiaoxuan once almost jumped off a building due to depression; Aya married a living Buddha and gave birth to a daughter; "Kangxi is Coming" was suspended, and Xiao S became an "unemployed woman"; she shouted that she would never gain weight My big S got fat and became a mother.
From the pure friendship when they were students, to the mutual support and cherishment when they first entered the entertainment industry, to the strong friendship that has not been alienated at all despite all the ups and downs, the four sisters have spent different stages of life together and become become an integral part of each other's lives.
The youthful clothes of 20 years old were taken off, and time gave them the best appearance. They reunited, went deep into a strange country, ate and lived together, and started a life without work and family. Only the journey of good sisters.
Unlike other travels with a group of unfamiliar people, with good sisters, everyone understands each other's personalities and how to get along with each other so that everyone is most comfortable.
I think this is the best way to travel.
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When good friends are together, they can go crazy and make trouble together.
The four sisters have very different personalities, some are lively and some are quiet, and they can use venom to undermine each other.
The "mutual loss" between them began as soon as they got in the car.
Little S, who loves beauty, showed off the condition of her skin to Aya, describing her "whole face is shining".
Aya retorted wittily, "Why don't you inhale the oil quickly?" Little S then teased Aya for a beauty injection.
The only ones who dare to joke like this are sisters.
Little S is the kid king in the sister group, pushing and playing with Aya, and singing with Fan Xiaoxuan anytime and anywhere.
When you are with good sisters, you can easily joke with each other, and the journey will be more energetic, noisy, but also happy.
"The four of us are sisters who are not related by blood."
In her forties, she might be called a "middle-aged aunt" in real life, but at the age of There is no influence on them, they still have a heart that loves life.
They still like handsome guys, go shopping, and be pretty, and they will be troubled by small blemishes on their eyebrows.
In order to persuade Big S to go boating together, Aya lied to them that the boatman was handsome. Little S immediately took out her makeup bag to touch up her makeup, and Big S even changed into slippers.
Although when they met the boatman later, both of them showed disappointed expressions, it must have been a rare experience for the four sisters to enjoy the sunset on a boat together.
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Good friends can make each other a better version of themselves.
Although the four sisters’ trip is noisy, there are also many tender moments.
When I got up early to take the bus, Little S had a problem with stomach bloating when she got up early, so she burped. Aya, the "health guru" sitting next to her, naturally stretched out her hand and said, "I'll press it for you." .
Before the trip started, Fan Xiaoxuan personally made a guide, so the four sisters decided to follow the instructions mentioned in the guide to challenge the hot air balloon and overlook the tens of thousands of pagodas in Bagan.
On the hot air balloon, everyone learned that Aya was actually afraid of heights. The other three sisters had been comforting her and encouraging her:
Big S comforted Aya and said, "Jump down." I was afraid of heights, now I want to fly upwards." Unexpectedly, it had the opposite effect.
Little S asked Aya to try to look straight down, while Fan Xiaoxuan started playing music to calm her down.
The most effective method is the most annoying little S. She and Aya "mutually harmed each other" and successfully made Aya slowly shift her attention.
After a while, he proposed to listen to music, sang songs on the hot air balloon with Fan Xiaoxuan, and teased the coach from time to time.
Slowly Aya relaxed and sang together with her sisters. Finally she stood up unconsciously and everyone applauded her.
Good sisters are together, truly relaxed and truly happy
When facing fear, the company of good friends will give people great courage.
Look, even the "weaknesses" in life can be repaired with the help of sisters.
With their company and encouragement, we did not miss this rare spectacle in life.
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When you are with good friends, you can be free to be yourself.
When traveling, you should wear comfortable clothes, no heavy makeup, no fancy clothes, very casual.
Go shopping together, bargain together, and buy together.
Although the four sisters are all famous stars, as best friends, their daily life is almost the same as ours: they can’t do without talking about beauty topics, making jokes about each other, and seeing handsome guys. At the same time, we were united and in high spirits.
In my forties, I have gone through the ups and downs of life, my family is stable, my career is almost busy, and I seem to be moving closer to my true self.
Feel more calm, more comfortable, and more able to calm down and face life and yourself.
Among the many roles in life, they are mothers, wives, and children, but only when they are with each other, they are eternal girls and eternal best friends.
In front of our closest friends, we can always take off all our guard and be ourselves without any worries.
In the show, Little S plays mischief without any burden, as if he has returned to his teenage years. But in fact, they knew very well that this was Xiao S's unique way of venting her emotions.
No one tried to change her and let her be herself.
Big S, when faced with Aya’s fear of heights, she said that she did not force her to stand up, but instead said, “We must respect other people’s fears.”
She did not put pressure on Aya because she felt that she had already done a good job in all aspects, and she did not necessarily have to force herself to overcome all her weaknesses to prove it.
That’s what good friends are like, they understand you and cooperate with you.
Sometimes after little S has played, he will hurt others with his words. Little S said that he sensed Aya's aggrieved energy at that time and reminded himself to shut up.
Good friends are like this. They can sense each other's emotions in time and shut up or stop in time to prevent conflicts from intensifying.
Communicate in a timely manner, reflect when you need to reflect, apologize when you need to apologize, and completely resolve the knots in your heart.
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After a disastrous trip with Fitzgerald, the author of "The Great Gatsby", Hemingway came back and wrote a golden sentence——
Never travel with someone you don’t love.
On the other hand, friends who can travel happily together should be extraordinary friends.
When traveling with a good sister, you know what kind of snacks she likes to eat, and she knows where your favorite scenery is. Many little things during the trip "coincidence."
Even if you are unhappy occasionally, you can clear it up in a few words. When you are unhappy, I will give you a hug, encourage you and be proud of you.
At the age of 40, the youthful appearance has wrinkles due to the carvings of the years;
At the age of 40, the youthful appearance may still be found in the mature mind. Breath;
At the age of 40, the people around me are in a hurry, and some of them have no intersection with the passage of time;
At the age of 40, I can still be with you and play together. Traveling to reminisce about the past may be the perfect definition of a true friend.
Best friends may be more important to women than lovers. What woman doesn’t have one or several good female friends?
Traveling with a best friend is like bringing an ideal travel companion with multiple identities of perfect lover, lover and sister.
It’s so difficult to have friends all over the world. Having a close friend is already a blessing.
Traveling together with like-minded friends is a very happy and beautiful thing.
If you don’t have a husband or children, put down your work;
Sing and dance together;
Play and laugh together.
Do you remember the last time you traveled with your besties? Why not take advantage of the moment and make up your mind to customize a bestie trip that is just for you?
Going on a trip with good friends, is it too troublesome to prepare your own strategies?
Leave it to us at Yueling Travel!
We mainly recommend slow travel, so that every time you set off, you can spend enough time to experience the local customs and people, and refuse to travel in a casual way.
We recommend traveling in a small group. Make an appointment with family and friends. A group of 6 people can be formed (5 to 8 people can also travel as a floating group).
Those who travel together are close friends. They are neither too lonely nor too noisy. They can also respond flexibly to various situations and can easily agree on opinions. The whole trip will make you more relaxed and have more fun!
Don’t worry about accommodation. We believe that even if you travel for fun, a good resting place can allow you to fully rest and travel with full energy.
Therefore, we select hotels with local characteristics and benchmark domestic four-star services so that you can feel them at your destination.
These hotels are usually very cost-effective. Don’t choose the most expensive ones, but choose the most reasonable and distinctive ones. This is the smart first choice for travel.
When traveling, many people worry about being urged to go shopping by "tour guides". With our Yueling Travel, you don't have to worry. We promise: all consumption items will be open and transparent, with no hidden consumption or shopping traps.
Our route is purely fun and non-shopping. You don’t have to work hard to prepare travel strategies yourself, a professional guide and driver will be arranged for you.
They are familiar with the local scenery and topography, and can take you to eat delicious food and sightseeing, just like your local friends. The scenery and stories along the way make your trip more profound.
Time flies but friendship lasts forever.
Make an appointment with your friends and confidants and go traveling!
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