How about finding a foreign boyfriend?

If you are abroad, it is normal to find foreigners. On the one hand, no one abroad will care about who you are dating. Even if you have changed a few times, you can pretend that you have never had it after returning to your country, and then go on a blind date and marry someone calmly. On the other hand, as long as you can achieve good cultivation, you can immigrate and directly integrate into the foreign society, which is also a good result.

But since you are in China, I think the risk may be higher if you seek help from a foreigner.

First of all, many foreigners in China think that Chinese girls are easy to get started with. I even saw videos online before where foreigners taught others how to get Chinese girls. So I think you have a greater chance of meeting a scumbag than a good man. They may just be there for fun and not really love you.

Secondly, only a small part of the foreigners who can go to China for development are expatriate company executives, and the vast majority go to China because they did not do well in their own country. Of course, there are also some foreign students who are serious about studying. We cannot kill them all with one stroke. But you are already working, so it is difficult to find someone who is much younger than yourself.

Thirdly, the thinking patterns of foreigners and Chinese people are really different. I am not talking about what it would be like to be a boyfriend. I am just talking about the people from these countries I have come into contact with. They all have their own differences. What characteristics!

When you first come into contact with Americans, you will feel that Americans are very talkative and all of them are good orators, but in fact they are very exaggerated. They are used to complimenting people in person but behind their backs...? In short, they are people who talk more than they do. There are few types. If you want to find someone who likes to talk sweetly, you can consider it. However, most Americans' bodies are not very good, and it is difficult to save them after they gain weight in middle age.

The British always give everyone the impression of being gentlemen, but in fact this is a complete illusion! Many British people are arrogant, suspicious, and self-centered in everything. So if you don’t want a arrogant big baby, you’d better think carefully! However, it is still OK for British people to dress and look good. If they consider future generations, they can enter.

Germans are famous for being rigorous, but the worst thing to say is obsessive-compulsive disorder, which will force you to do what they want, such as how you must arrange the table, you must learn German, etc...? And Germany has taken in too many refugees in recent years, the public security is not very good, and taxes are high, all of which are used to support refugees. So if you are planning to immigrate, I suggest you not consider Germany. But I feel that Germans may be really tolerant. Look at the many weirdos in the entertainment industry, aren’t they all married to Germans?

The French are probably the most carefree people among these countries, because for the French, pursuing women and dating are like customs. The French may give you a lot of sweet words and know how to be romantic, but they are not very stable. If you meet someone you like more, or they lose interest in you, they can be very decisive in breaking up with you. of. Moreover, the French also have their own arrogance, so learning French is a must. There are many black people in French metropolises and the public security is not good, but the small villages are more comfortable. If you want to find a French person, it is recommended to find someone in a rural area. If he says he is from Paris, just say no, you may not be his match at all.

I won’t comment on Japanese people. Unless you like Japanese culture, if you find a Japanese boyfriend, you are probably just trying to attract hatred. Your colleagues and neighbors may become anti-Japanese in any minute due to social trends. thoughts.

Finally, there is the issue of girls’ reputation. If a boy finds a foreigner, people will say that he is "bringing glory to the country." But if a girl finds a foreigner, many of the words will not sound so good... Especially for girls who have had foreign boyfriends, it is difficult to have another one after a breakup. I have a Chinese boyfriend. Because Chinese people are still relatively traditional, Chinese boys can now accept that they are not virgins, which is a big progress. If they know that this woman has experienced foreign guns and foreign guns, they will think that she is very frivolous, and they will stay away from her.

In short, the domestic situation is so realistic. As long as you can successfully marry a foreigner, you will be the winner in life; if you are dumped, whether you dump him or he dumps you, you will lose yourself. In the market, you can only go to the dark side on the road to find foreigners.

So before you embark on this path, you must think clearly, then keep your eyes open to recognize people, and don't sacrifice yourself too quickly, otherwise there will be no turning back!