The company organized a camping trip during the National Day this year, but I don’t want to go. How should I politely refuse?

First express that you have something to do, and then refuse. This is a tactful refusal. In fact, you can refuse directly. Company camping is not a private date. You need to consider human relationships. It doesn’t matter whether you go or not.

Rejection is an art and a knowledge, which can reflect a person's comprehensive quality. When someone wants something from you but you can't do it and you have no choice but to refuse, it's best to refuse politely. A polite refusal is more likely to be accepted than a direct refusal. Because it saves the face of the rejected to a greater extent. In her article teaching everyone how to speak well with high emotional intelligence, Mi Meng, the "national inspirational female writer", mentioned a trick for "packaging" rejection - you can blame yourself first if you reject others.

That is, first express your embarrassment, then blame yourself, and then refuse.

Rejecting others, if not handled well, can easily affect the relationship between each other, so when rejecting others, it is best to say your "no" in a roundabout way. Everyone has self-esteem. When a person asks for something from others, he will inevitably feel uneasy. If you say "no" as soon as you open your mouth, it will inevitably hurt the other person's self-esteem and cause strong resentment. If you don't say it but let him feel the meaning of "no" in your words, and then reject the other party tactfully, you can get good results. Therefore, it is necessary to master the appropriateness and skills of saying "no".

I think the most basic way to politely refuse is to have an embarrassed expression. Then add the language.

Everyone’s approach is different. For example, when you encounter something you don't want to do next, just blame it on other things. It's not about shifting responsibility, it's about amplifying the things of other people around you or your own things.

For example, a friend asked me to go see a movie, but I didn’t want to go. I said that I was participating in a competition with my teacher recently and was busy doing homework, so I couldn’t go for the time being. I think it's more tactful than saying "no time". In fact, you are indeed participating in the competition and busy doing homework, but you are not as busy as you said.

In this way, you have a legitimate reason for rejecting him, and at the same time, you are not lying, and you are not afraid of being found guilty.

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