Want to increase the success rate of dating a goddess? You must know these "hidden rules of dating"!

Have you ever failed on a date? If you ask me if I have, I will tell you that there are so many, so many that I can’t even remember them. But if you fail, you will learn, so I will tell you now. The experience I gained comes from countless dates with beautiful girls. Everyone has studied hard and paid a heavy price.

If you're attracted to a woman from the beginning, that's great. You can maintain that attraction and develop a good relationship with her. If you are unable to attract a woman at the beginning, then you can switch to a protracted war and maintain daily contact at the lowest cost. If your value is not too low and the woman's conditions permit, she will usually be with you within two weeks. Dating. If you persist for two weeks and still don't come out, then change her, but don't delete this girl, just refrigerate her. The way to make a date is also very simple. You have to envision a date plan and then tell her that it must be a complete and feasible date plan. 1. When you make an appointment, just ask directly, "Are you free on Saturday?" 2. If the girl says yes, continue to say, "Let's go play somewhere, I'll pick you up at 11 o'clock in the morning."

3. If the girl says she is not free, continue to ask: "Are you free on Sunday?" If so, it will be Sunday. 4. If the girl still says you are not available, ask: "Are you free that day?" Then make an appointment on that day. 5. If the girl says she doesn't know, just politely reply: "Thank you very much. Goodbye." Then switch to protracted war mode. 6. A protracted war means contacting her every day, but not inviting her out for a while, until a girl shows up and is attracted to you and thinks about your characteristics before making a date. (Only make phone calls and WeChat messages every day) 7. If there is still no progress in two weeks, change someone and refrigerate this girl. At the end of the day, you have to dare to make an appointment and don’t think too much about it. From a woman's perspective, dating a man is about getting to know a man deeply and considering whether she should have an intimate relationship with him. What women consider is different for every woman. There are five most common factors: money, kindness, energy, handsomeness, intelligence, etc. Women will consider these reasons. In a long-term relationship, women tend to consider whether they have money; in a short-term relationship, women tend to consider whether they are handsome or not. There is a little Japanese TV series called Yamato Gold digger. It says like this: "At a party, a man wore a designer suit jacket belonging to a rich friend of his. The jacket also had a gold brooch from the most powerful local club. He was killed by a The flight attendant who was super money-loving saw this, and then the beautiful flight attendant took the initiative to date this man. But then she found out that this man was a fish vendor, and his family still owed a lot of money to others, and he was a very poor man. The flight attendant was very angry and cursed at the man. But in fact, this flight attendant’s family is also very poor. She lives in a small shabby house full of brand-name clothes and cosmetics, and eats instant noodles..."

People. , there is no way, during the date, you must at least meet the woman's requirements. Let’s talk first, that’s what everyone always asks, why go on a date? Here, I focus on first dates. The first date actually played a decisive role. A woman will almost never go on a second date with you if she doesn't like you. If I can go on a second date with you, it will be much less difficult than the first time. Let me talk about two more cases: "When I was a boyfriend, I had a female friend, Ms. A. When I first dated her, it was a very traditional process: watch a movie, sing in KTV, eat, and then send her home. Nothing much. Special, of course, there is no improvement, and they cost me more than a thousand yuan and they don’t even let me kiss her. "This is a failure. "My other girlfriend at the time, Ms. B, went on our first date with her. I took her directly to a coffee shop. The coffee shop was by the lake and the scenery was beautiful. We sat by the window, and I wanted to sit with her. She didn't want me to sit across from her, so I sat at a 90-degree angle to her, and eventually I sat next to her little by little. Then I talked and talked alone for four hours... "This is a success story. You will find that in dating, what you do does not seem to be important. Indeed, the most important thing is to chat with her, let her feel you and understand you through chatting, and use your sense of humor to make her feel happy. If you follow my routine, chatting is the most important thing, and other things like playing here, playing there, or whatever, may be to create a stage for me and the girl to chat, so that the girl and I can chat more happily. Women are very chatty animals. If you want women to like you, you have to work hard to learn to chat well. The weather, geography, people, and land, find a quiet place, find a comfortable place. What are the characteristics of a good place for a first date? First, it must be private and comfortable enough. Let’s talk about the case. I took a girl who was studying law to listen to a rock music performance. It was very high, but very noisy, but during this period, I couldn’t chat with the girl. If I were familiar with her, I could hug her. If I wasn’t familiar with her, I could hold her in my arms. I don’t know what to do. I will take this girl to KTV again so that we can spend some time together in private, and we can hold her in our arms and sing. Another situation that often happens in big cities like Beijing is that you take your girl to a famous restaurant and end up waiting in line for half an hour. Don't let this happen, either make a reservation in advance or find a restaurant with fewer people. In addition, you must understand all the details of the place, so it is best to take the girl to a place you are familiar with. If you haven’t been to a place before, I don’t recommend taking a girl on your first date.

Secondly, this place should be relatively convenient for transportation. For a general date, you either choose to be close to the man or the woman, or you drive to another place together, but it is not recommended to choose a place that is far away from both parties and is inconvenient. As a man, I suggest you consider a woman’s feelings and give priority to a place that is convenient for her. Whether she is tall or not is not the point. Whether she can get it is the point.

Guess what is the most common answer when dating a woman? Based on my large number of cases, I found that the most common answers given by dating women are: "It's too far" or "I won't go." Just don’t make this mistake. A woman is a very lazy animal. She won’t go too far to find you before there is a strong attraction. Obviously, you may not have that much interest in her on the first date. attract. You can drive and pick her up, that's best. If not, now that there are smart phones and map software, you can simulate how many trains a woman needs to take and how long she has to walk to get to this date location. The more convenient the better. Another important point is logistics. Do you want to calculate where to go? How many places to go? How to get to these places? Have you ever driven on the wrong side of the road and been scolded by a girl? I've tried it many times, haha. Have you ever been on a date and suddenly it started raining heavily? I've tried that too. This also illustrates a problem called "uncertainty." When dating, you must minimize uncertainty, think through all the issues you can consider, and come up with corresponding plans. I suggest that in front of women, you must arrange everything very neatly and neatly. The ideal situation is that women do not need to use their brains to think, and you strategize and handle everything well. This will give women a strong sense of security. feel. Finally, talking about people, before dating, you really need to understand all the conditions of the date: 1. If the girl is young, she loves fun and novelty. You can take her to the amusement park to have some fun on the first date. You can watch an IMAX movie and have a good chat afterward. Mature women prefer relaxing activities. On the first date, you can take her to travel, try special restaurants, and have a good chat. 2. The cultural background of the girl. The average girl is not too complicated. Just take her to two places and change scenes once in the middle. For example, it would be good to find a small coffee shop with a beautiful view and go watch a movie. There is a kind of woman called a literary young woman. She is a bit of a loser. She likes all kinds of cultural things. Unlike most frustrated men, she lives in another world. Then you can follow her fancy, discover all kinds of weird places, and take her on adventures, even if you haven't been there before. There is also a kind of girl who is too fair, rich and beautiful, and has played all kinds of high-class things. This kind of woman, there is no need to accompany her to be high-class, give her some new ideas. For example, in Beijing, I like to take Bai Fumei around the small alleys and look for various secluded restaurants. There is no need for four-star or five-star hotels and restaurants.

3. Girls’ dating style. Some women are very conservative and won’t even hold hands on the first date. I have also seen many cases where women scold men for being frivolous after a date. In fact, this only expresses one problem, she doesn't like you at all. Some women are more open-minded and willing to be intimate with you on the first date, kiss you, and even go home with you. How far you can go depends on how attracted you are to her. Observing and analyzing women is a necessary skill for a man to pursue happiness, and it cannot be completed in just a few minutes. At least it can take several hours to talk about it, because it combines a lot of psychology and social practice. If you don't, it's almost impossible for you to be happy. Once you are proficient, you will be able to instantly kill other people on the road to love. Many short, poor and ugly PUAs, including me, are loved by so many women because they have reached the highest level in this area. This will be explained in depth in our Love Spectrum course. According to the survey, these essential dating skills increase the success rate of dating by at least 86.4%. When dating a woman, sometimes you have to learn to observe her bottom line. The simplest method is called "gradually moving closer": 1. Start with the most common and lightest physical contact, holding hands and clapping your hands. 2. If there is no resistance, push forward step by step and start deeper contact, such as gently putting your arm around her shoulders and gently hugging her. 3. After a while, if there is still no resistance, you can try holding her and kissing her face. 4. Okay, try kissing! The technique of moving is rarely discussed in traditional dating science. This topic has been covered in our love spectrum course for at least two hours, covering psychology, female physiology, and practical experience. 4. Girls’ scores. I don’t know whether girls have medium or low scores. I have never dated a woman who didn’t have high scores. Generally, women with high scores have gone on a lot of dates and have been to many places in a city. If they have super high scores, they can go all over the country. The higher the score, the more skilled they are at dating, and they are more familiar with men's dating skills. The higher the performance requirements. Back then, I was dating a Chinese-Korean mixed-race girl with a super high score. She was very picky about all the little details of me, as if I owed her something, and I didn't feel very good. This is called "princess disease." Sometimes, it’s better to be with a girl who has average high scores. The higher a woman’s score, the greater the pressure she puts on a man. It depends on how much pressure you can withstand.

5. What the girl wears that day. What a woman wears represents how much she values ??you. Many women dress up for half an hour to an hour on their first date just to go on a date with you, but you spend five minutes to put on a pair of pants and a shirt and go out.

Remember one thing, women like to wear high heels. You have to be a considerate man and tell the girl the details of your date in advance. Don’t make her wear high heels to go bungee jumping in the ravine with you. It is a man's responsibility to give women appropriate advice on how to dress. There are also some women who are more open-minded and wear less. As I said before, you must check the weather forecast when you go out. If you know it may be cold at night, you should try to be a gentleman and wear a removable coat. If necessary, take it off considerately and give it to the girl. wear. Summary + Filling in the pits At this point, it should be almost over. At the beginning, I said that there is a dating method that can create the chance of TD. Assume that you have dated her several times and confirmed the relationship between boyfriend and girlfriend. Your date should be designed to be within one kilometer of your home or a place where you can TD, preferably five hundred meters. Moreover, you must know this kilometer or 500 meters well, and be able to lead the girl smoothly and skillfully around this range. For example, if you ask a girl to go to a coffee shop 500 meters away from your home, flirt with her, and try what Qian Qian calls "gradually moving closer." When she is willing to be moved close enough for you to kiss her deeply, just ask her: "Come to my house and sit for a while." Since your house has been arranged in advance, it can be TD, so you can try it after you take her home. Continue to move closer and make out with her until TD. If she doesn't want to, it doesn't matter. You can continue to move to the next place. Anyway, you are familiar with the road. But I want to emphasize that this is not a date, and it is not the first date between you and her, and the relationship between man and woman has been confirmed. You two have sex voluntarily. Women hope that men will take the initiative to take this step, but they are afraid that men will not dare. , but in fact, many men just don’t dare and always come to me and ask me: How to have sex with my new girlfriend? Do I need to be taught? Finally, let me summarize. The dates we are talking about are not dates that do not enhance the relationship, but dates that can build love. At least one of these dates will turn into a date of desire, and your and her lives will be combined. Finding the road to love is never easy, that’s life. We use strategies and tactics to talk about love, but your opponent must not be women, but other men. They will definitely compete with you for women, and you must defeat them. Today I talked about the meaning of dating, the arrangement of people, things, and things, how to make a date, how to act, and related details. Please use the highest accuracy to perform these tasks. You have to practice observing women and analyzing women, which will be taught in our courses. Every woman is different. What different women need and how to need them, you will learn in our courses, and you can satisfy them. A woman doesn't mind if you get close, she just wants you to get close in a way that is acceptable to her. She wants you to get close in a real man's way. We will teach you how to do that in the course. Don't be cowardly, don't be cowardly, don't be afraid, we will tell you the right way. Men competing for women is absolutely cruel and unavoidable, and has been so since ancient times. What we can do is give you the best weapons so that you can defeat other men in the battle of love and come back alive with the woman you love most.

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