A woman and a man's best friend went on a trip, and when she came back, her husband asked for a divorce. Is there pure friendship between men and women?

Do you believe in pure friendship between men and women?

I believe many people have thought about this problem. Some people think that there is pure friendship between men and women. Sometimes men and women are too familiar with each other, and they don't like each other. The rest is friendship. But most people think that there is no pure friendship between men and women.

Because opposites attract, it is difficult for men and women to have friendship. Even if two people say they are friends, it is nothing more than that one party is interested in the other and the relationship has not been opened yet.

In fact, this question has no substantive significance. Whether a man and a woman are friends or lovers depends entirely on the thoughts of both men and women. The speculation of outsiders is groundless and meaningless.

But let me ask you another question: if your other half has a very good friend of the opposite sex after marriage, will you agree?

I think this question is easy to answer. Most people will answerno. If you want to ask why, I believe there will be many answers.

But fundamentally, I still feel uneasy about the other half, which also shows that I don't believe in pure friendship between the opposite sex.

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You see, two similar questions are put in different situations and get different answers. Therefore, there is no standard answer to some questions at all, and the answer given is only that people look at the problem from their own perspective.

But getting too close to friends of the opposite sex after marriage is undoubtedly a handle to increase suspicion for the other half. Personally, I think it is better to be cautious.

The correct way should be to communicate with the other half actively, clarify the relationship between the two people, and then it is best to bring the other half with you every time you meet. Only in this way can we gradually eliminate the suspicion of the other half and ensure the feelings between husband and wife.

But in real life, it is not excluded that two people are tricky, but they cheat the other half to be ordinary friends. It is precisely because of this situation that most people don't believe in pure friendship between men and women.

Reader Jia Yu once confided to me that his wife had a good friend of the opposite sex. He has been worried about them. Just a while ago, something happened that he couldn't accept, so he showed his cards to his wife, which eventually led to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife and ended in divorce.

Jia Yu said: "I don't believe in pure friendship between men and women anymore, because there is only an unopened enough paper." I don't believe that two people can't have feelings after getting along for a long time. What they say is just cheating the other half. "

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Jia Yu is 30 years old and has been married to his wife for three years. His wife, Qingyu, is three years younger than him, and her married life has been ok.

Jia Yu loved his wife very much, and he was the first person to pursue her actively, so after being together, Jia Yu liked her very much and relied on her for almost everything.

When two people first met, they met by chatting online. At that time, Jiayu saw the photo uploaded by Qingyu and thought it was his favorite type, so he took the initiative to say hello.

Just at that time, Qingyu just fell in love and was in an emotional window, so she chatted with Jiayu.

Jia Yu thought it was a good opportunity, so he began to be caring and attentive to Qing Yu, and talked to her if he had nothing to do. In the long run, Qing Yu also has a good impression on him.

So in reality, the better two people meet. After meeting, Jiayu likes Qingyu more. Jade is also very satisfied with Jiayu. The two met several times and finally decided to be together.

At that time, Qingyu told Jiayu that she had a particularly good friend of the opposite sex, which could be said to be her male best friend. She also asked whether Jia Yu cared about it. Jia Yu was carried away by love at that time, and just said that he didn't care. Qingyu promised to be with him.

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Two people talked about love for about a year, during which Jia Yu also met her boyfriend, who was very good-looking, but at that time men all had girlfriends, so Jia Yu didn't take it to heart.

Before long, Jiayu married Qingyu. Married life is also relatively happy, because Jia Yu married the woman he likes, and especially cherished this marriage. No matter what he does, he tries his best to give her a good life.

Qing Yu is younger than Jia Yu, and his personality is somewhat capricious and selfish, but these Jia Yu have chosen tolerance. He thinks Qingyu is only young, and she will know how to be a good wife in a few years.

After marriage, Jia Yu did all the housework, washing and cooking at home. Jade didn't want to do this, so she left it all to Jiayu.

Moreover, Jiayu found that even if she got married, Qingyu would keep close contact with her male girlfriends, and sometimes she would often stay up late to go home together. When Jiayu asked her, she was impatient and disliked Jiayu for not believing in herself. The couple quarreled many times because of this matter.

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This matter has become a knot in Jia Yu's mind more and more. He doesn't trust that his wife is always with other men, which no man can tolerate. Jia Yu can endure for so long, is already a different kind.

The couple quarreled many times because of this matter, but Qingyu said that it was impossible for them not to break up with their male girlfriends. She wanted both love and friendship. Jiayu has been worried for a long time.

Just some time ago, Qingyu suddenly said that she was going to travel. Jiayu was busy at work and didn't accompany her. Qingyu told him that she was traveling alone.

However, a friend of Qingyu slipped to Jiayu and said Qingyu had gone with her boyfriend. Because the man's girlfriend is lovelorn, Qingyu asks for leave to accompany him to travel.

After listening, Jia Yu almost went crazy. Moreover, he learned from the side that at the beginning, Jade liked male girlfriends very much, but male girlfriends were always lukewarm to her. In other words, these years are just spare tires for male girlfriends.

Jia Yu left a mind's eye. He secretly checked Qing Yu's reservation records and found that she only booked one room, which means that she has been living in the same room with that man these days.

Jia Yu felt great humiliation, and his wife's infidelity made him angry.

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Qingyu came back from a trip and looked in a good mood, but Jiayu directly filed for divorce.

Qing Yu asked why, and Jia Yu shouted hysterically, "You know what you two did behind my back, and you still ask me why?" You bitch! "

Jade suddenly panicked, and she argued, "I have a pure friendship with him, so don't think about it."

Jia Yu was furious: "Pure friendship? Pure friendship will live in a room? You bitch, get a divorce. "

Qingyu knelt down and cried and begged Jiayu to forgive herself, saying that she would never meet a man again, but Jiayu's heart died and she resolutely divorced despite her own pleading.

In marriage, loyalty is the most important and the cornerstone of marriage. If a person is unfaithful to the other half, then the marriage will definitely break up and will be morally condemned.

Is there pure friendship between men and women? It doesn't matter at all. It is important that if you get married, you should keep your distance and don't make the other half suspicious.

If you want a happy marriage, you must be loyal to your feelings first. What friends of the opposite sex need most is to keep a certain distance.