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My boyfriend wants a divorce after his honeymoon trip. What should I do?

Marriage cannot be forced. If it can't be redeemed, choose divorce.

Zhao has a classic dialogue in Fortress Besieged: "A trip like ours is the best way to test a person's character. Travel is the most tiring, troublesome and exposed time. Only those who have gone through a long and arduous journey without hating each other can become friends. "

This passage talks about marriage: "The honeymoon after marriage is in reverse order. We should travel together for a month first. After a month's travel, the two sides have not yet seen through each other, hated each other, quarreled and turned against each other, and still have to maintain their original engagement. This kind of couple promises not to divorce. "

Life and marriage are like a long journey. Be especially careful when choosing fellow travelers. These words are still very reasonable today. The road of life is long, and it's Xiu Yuan, but I don't know the frustrations. We are still United through hardships and will not change through hardships. Only by holding hands in this way can we grow old with confidence.

Marriage is impossible. Marriage needs your love and my wish, and both sides move in the opposite direction. If the two sides run counter to each other, strange bedfellows, divorce is inevitable; If both sides go their separate ways, they will never go hand in hand.

The contradiction between husband and wife, if it is caused by misunderstanding, can try to eliminate misunderstanding; If communication is difficult, time can solve it ... as long as the two sides stick to marriage and move in the opposite direction, they will grow old together. But if the other party asks for a divorce and you want to do the opposite, what does the other party mean? This requires both sides to have a judgment and good communication.

You know, the ultimate way to save your marriage is to save your feelings, communicate frankly and understand each other's true meaning, which can eliminate misunderstandings, resolve contradictions and make decisions. Therefore, the answer to your question should be found from the other person.

If the other person is bent on divorce, then everything you do is in vain. What you can do is to constantly reflect on yourself, constantly correct your mistakes, and let yourself meet the right person in the next journey and spend the rest of your life with you.