Couples travel together, why is the breakup rate high?

I think: this statement makes sense, and there is this phenomenon. However, this sentence is not correct!

Let me start with my conclusion. Many couples break up after a trip, but the real reason for breaking up is not the trip, but it is not suitable at all, just because of a trip. Why is it easy to break up after traveling together? The answer is simple, because traveling together is the most direct conflict between two people's values, outlook on life and world view.

The trivial problems accumulated at ordinary times have expanded infinitely during this period, and it is easy to judge. Maybe that person is not what I need. For example, college students fall in love at school. Most of them go to campus, watch movies, go shopping and climb mountains. Even if there are contradictions, they will be angry at their dormitory. It's no big deal to think about it later. But travel is usually seven days, and the conflict between the three views is inevitable.

How many hotels are you staying at? Will it be better, or will it be almost bought? Don't underestimate this problem, it can be seen whether two people's values are consistent. )。 Of course, no matter whether it is cheap or expensive, no one has better values than anyone else, but if you have different views on this issue, one side will be angry!

For example, it is right that men save money and women deserve it, but if life is cheap, women on the road will think that men are stingy and will not like him so much. And if you choose expensive things according to women, men will think that women are very extravagant on this road. Of course, no one is right or wrong, but generally doing so will bury contradictions. What about being forced to shop? What attitude should we take? What to eat? Where to eat? The route to play? How to get back? Wait, there are still many small problems.

However, different attitudes and different ways to deal with small problems are all manifestations of your values. At this time, you can best know whether two people are suitable or not. So I found that many couples are not suitable at this time. So traveling is not to break you up, you are not suitable at all, not traveling, just to help you.