In those years, how did you treat girls who liked you?

Once, I was drinking with Ali, Dachengzi and Lao Li. When we got into the mood, Ali couldn't help but recount the twists and turns of his dating experience. He said: "My experience has drawn a circle from beginning to end."

As soon as Ali said that he had drawn a circle, both Dachengzi and Lao Li became curious, and almost said in unison Urging: "Speak quickly!" Obviously, they couldn't help but want to listen.

So Ali told the story of his youth.

As a teenager or even a young man, Ali is a relatively dull type when it comes to matters between men and women. When he was in school, he only knew how to study hard and work hard after work. He had no sense of pursuing goals at all. It wasn't until he was twenty-five or six years old that he suddenly discovered that all his companions had wives or girlfriends. He finally realized with a shock: It was too late to take action on his own! It was too late!

The parents, other elders, and the master also felt that Ali was late in this regard, so they hurriedly used their respective channels to help him.

So, a girl met Ali. However, for some unknown reason, Ali met several girls one after another, but none of them came to an agreement: sometimes it was because Ali was unwilling, sometimes because both parties felt that they did not feel that way, and more often than not, it was because the girl did not look at the other girl. Go to Ali. The reason why there are more situations later is naturally because Ali, the nerd, is too dull.

Alitong *** has seen about a dozen girls, but none of them feel as they should. It was only then that he suddenly remembered a past event.

That was his last semester in college.

Usually, Ali is usually the last student to leave the classroom. After class that day, he found that a female classmate in the same class had not left. When Ali was wondering, the girl came up to him and asked him: "Ali, I want to ask you something."

Ali thought she was going to discuss study matters with him, so he replied without hesitation: "Okay, you can ask."

Who knew that the girl's question was completely unexpected to Ali? As expected by Li, her question was: "What kind of girlfriend do you want to have?"

Ali really hadn't thought about this question, so he shyly prevaricated it. He vaguely remembered that the girl seemed to be a little disappointed and walked away.

After several years, Ali still didn’t understand what she meant.

Now that he thought about it again, he realized something: Was she hinting at something to him?

However, many years have passed, and he has never seen that girl since graduation. Even if she was hinting at her back then, it is useless now.

Later, Ali waited until he was twenty-eight or nine years old and still hadn’t found a partner, and he was almost a prince!

Once, the work unit arranged for Ali to go to the city to attend a short-term training course on the implementation of corporate standards. When signing in for the training class, Ali saw two familiar names on the registration book: one was a male student, whose name was exactly the same as that of one of his male junior high school classmates. In the first year of junior high school, Ali was very close to that boy. However, in the second year of junior high school, the boy became a soldier and joined the army and left. From then on, they never saw each other again. The other is a female student, whose name is exactly the same as the female classmate who asked Ali the question back then.

Ali thought to himself: "The earth is still too small, and old friends whom I haven't seen for so many years can actually be met in this training class."

Before the first class The roll call started with the male student. Following the answer of "arrive", Ali looked at the sound, but was disappointed: this person just had the same name, not his old classmate.

After a while, he clicked on the female student and said "arrive" from the corner at the back of the classroom. No need to look, Ali has already heard it, it’s her! Because the voice couldn't be more familiar.

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Both of them were surprised to meet again after so many years. When old acquaintances meet, it's inevitable to have a little chat. The female classmate asked Ali: "Do you have a child?"

Ali never expected that the female classmate would not ask herself if she was married first, but would instead ask herself if she had children? Got a big red face.

Actually, this issue is nothing new to Ali and his peers. Ali also knew that the children of many old classmates and colleagues of the same age would run away.

"I don't have a partner yet!" Ali replied sheepishly, and talked about his difficulties in finding a partner in the past few years.

Unexpectedly, when the female classmate heard Ali say that she had never found a suitable partner in these years, not only did she not express the slightest sympathy for Ali, but she laughed happily.

Her smile was completely beyond Ali's expectation. "How did she learn to take pleasure in other people's bad things?" Ali thought to himself.

Maybe she looked at Ali and felt that she had lost her composure, so she immediately stopped laughing and said to Ali: "Actually, I'm not much better than you. "A pound for a pound."

Looking at Ali's confused look, the female classmate briefly talked about her experiences in the past few years. She is slightly different from Ali in terms of marriage: she once had an extremely short marriage - just more than three months, but after the marriage, she discovered that the two were actually not suitable, so they got together and parted ways. , fortunately there are no children to drag me down.

After the divorce, she never found a suitable partner, so she is still alone to this day.

This is why she said, "I'm no better than you."

Reuniting with his old classmates after a long absence, Ali remembered the question that had been boring in his heart for many years, so he finally raised it.

Ali asked his female classmate: "You asked me a question in the semester before graduation, do you remember it?"

"Why don't you remember? I hated you so much at the time!" The female classmate answered unceremoniously.

"Hate me? Why?" Ali was a little confused.

"Why are you still the same as before? So stupid?!" The female classmate was obviously emotional when she spoke.

"I am not?" Ali was confused by his old classmates.

“Not stupid?! You can’t ask a girl to say ‘I like you’ directly!” As soon as the words came out, she lowered her head in embarrassment.

It was only then that Ali finally woke up!

Dachengzi couldn't hold it in any longer. He interrupted Ali's story and said, "Stop for now. You just said that a circle was drawn exactly. So, is this female classmate of yours? That’s right..., haha!”

Ali also laughed, and he replied: “A person who knows how to date at the age of seventeen is a genius in this regard. Why didn’t I know you earlier? Otherwise, if I asked you to crack it in the first place, I wouldn't have been holding it in my heart for so many years."

Neither Ali nor Dachengzi said it clearly, but they were just like Ming Jing'er. The implications of their words were exactly the same.

After all, Lao Li was not as quick-thinking as Dachengzi. He wanted to confirm, so he asked: "What is the relationship between Li Jun and that female classmate."

"Li Sir! Do you really not understand, or are you pretending to be confused? Lao Li said it was a circle at the beginning. If he meets that female classmate again after many years, can he not let it go so easily? Are you that stupid?" Dachengzi scolded Lao Li this time.

"Oh! I understand!" After Dachengzi said this, Lao Li suddenly realized it. He couldn't help but slap his forehead with his hand and screamed out.

Later, Lao Li concluded with some emotion: "Tsk, tsk! Lijun and his younger siblings are old classmates. Since they separated after graduation, they have moved forward on their own paths, and finally met again They met by chance, and they formed a circle - a perfect circle. This is a strange thing! There must be a red thread holding you two, so you have to 'return' no matter how you go!"

Not to mention, Lao Li's word "return" is not only philosophical, but also full of mystery.