The man who keeps saying that he loves me, why did he only take me to eat 15 yuan's box lunch when traveling?

I am 33 years old and have been married for 8 years. It is said that couples have itching for seven years. In the eighth year of our marriage, I felt that our marriage had reached a dead end, like a stagnant pool.

I feel that I haven't experienced the feeling of heart and love for a long time. I looked at my husband at home as if I knew myself so well.

Miss Jie reminded me that sometimes it takes some stimulation from others to make a woman's heart sprout again and find the passion of life.

Then in this case, I added Lao Li WeChat. Because I have many WeChat groups, I forget which group I added.

Lao Li is not old, 38 years old. I divorced my wife in my early years and have been working hard in big cities. I have my own factory, which is of good value. Anyway, we went back and forth like this and became friends on WeChat.

02.

I have to say that Lao Li is a prince of love stories, especially his rustic love stories make people laugh.

Compared with her husband who just wants to live a stable life at home and dare not fart, old Li Can certainly makes me more moved.

There is not a woman who doesn't like to listen to sweet words, men who say that they love themselves, and men who boast that they are beautiful and in good shape.

When my married life was the most depressing, Lao Li was like a stone thrown into a calm lake, causing ripples in my heart. Because of Lao Li's concern and affectionate words, I always feel that in my world, the sun is brighter than before, and birds are singing and flowers are fragrant.

Lao Li makes me feel that life can be expected, and women deserve men's love.

Compared with the man at home who never falls in love with me and holds a little fixed salary every month, it is self-evident that the balance in my heart is biased towards who.

03.

Later, Lao Li said, I want to know you and show me around the ancient town. I asked the company for two days off, and then told my husband that the company sent me on a business trip these two days, but the place I didn't go was not far from the surrounding ancient town.

My husband didn't doubt that he had him, and even agreed. Finally, he said to me intimately: work hard outside, don't worry about the children, and take good care of yourself.

Then Lao Li and I set off separately. In fact, there is nothing interesting around, just looking at some ancient buildings. The most important thing is that I like the feeling of being with him. After two people meet, they chat and look at the scenery. It was a little sunny that day, and I didn't bring an umbrella, so I was badly sunburned.

Lao Li still talked calmly with me, but I didn't find that I was afraid of the sun. I thought of that person at home, and he would know that I had a little emotional change.

After walking all morning, both of them were hungry. Passing by several restaurants with good environment, I thought Lao Li would take me in, but he didn't. He went straight ahead and came to a box lunch packing area. He ordered two boxes of 15 yuan.

There was no place to sit in the box lunch area, so the two of us stood and ate in the hot sun, sweating profusely. This is the first time I've eaten so badly.

04.

Lao Li said that she would definitely sign a prenuptial agreement with the woman when she got married in the future. Women nowadays are too gold-worshipping. Who knows if it's for your own money?

Finally, he smiled and said to me, you must be different. After chatting with you on WeChat for so long, I don't think you are the kind of woman who worships money. Look at 15 yuan's box lunch, and you can eat it with me.

I smiled and didn't want to talk about it anymore. I think of the man at home again. Even if he only earns 10, he will give me all the flowers. Unlike the guy in front who has a good price, he only wants to treat me to 15 yuan's box lunch.

Although I don't expect anything from him because of money, his attitude towards money makes me understand that at least he is not a reliable person.

At four o'clock in the afternoon, Lao Li and I made an excuse to say that my husband called just now and the child was looking for his mother. I must go back today.

I looked at Lao Li's dumbfounded expression and was really pleased. Then I left by car without looking back. I am glad that the man who came to me is the one who loves me the most. Although he is not good at sweet talk, has no ambition and career, and can't make much money, he is willing to spend every piece on me as long as he makes money.

The abandonment in this marriage made me understand the preciousness of marriage. I have decided to spend the rest of my life with the man around me.

Someone once told a joke on the Internet: A man who earns 1 10,000 and is willing to spend 1 10,000 for you, or a man who only earns 1 10,000 but is willing to spend 1 10,000 for you, which one loves you more?

Most girls choose the man who only earns 100, but is willing to spend 100 for you.

I have said in many articles before that whether a man loves you or not is really money talking.

This has nothing to do with material things and money worship. What women value most is the attitude that men are willing to spend money for themselves.

As Anita Yuen once said in a program, although I can make money by myself, if I spend money, I will definitely spend Csillam's money. A woman has the ability to make money by herself, while her man is willing to make money for her. A woman has the ability to make money by herself, but a man is unwilling to make money for her. Who do you think is happier?

I am glad that the woman in the above article stepped on the brakes in time at the end. But it was also because money finally saw Lao Li's face.

Marriage is always full of temptation, comparison, Excellence and beauty.

You may go the wrong way if you are not careful, and then there will be mistakes. I hope that every woman must weigh the pros and cons and think clearly when facing the temptation and stimulation of extramarital affairs. If you can bear the worst, then forget everything I said. If you want your stable family to be happy, then don't try.

If you really don't love, divorce peacefully and start your life again, instead of looking for emotional stimulation outside marriage. This consequence is too serious for anyone to bear.