My wife is a strong woman. She can take care of herself after confinement. I'm going to travel. Did I do something wrong?

In this new society, women in the new era pay attention to self-reliance, and they all know that women need economic independence to have personality charm. In the impression of many men, women look tender and fragile. It seems that as long as there is a little setback in life, they can be knocked down. But this is not the case. Some women will become stronger and more independent after experiencing the hardships of life.

Miss Ning, aged 30, director of the company:

Many times, I have been thinking, how can a woman be considered a happy marriage? I've thought about it for a long time, and I know that even if a woman marries someone with good conditions, she should be independent and self-reliant, because in this way, she can maintain her charm and not be looked down upon by others.

However, I didn't understand until I got married myself that the stronger a woman is, the harder our shell will be, as if we can accomplish everything without the protection of others. Many people think that a strong woman doesn't need to be loved, but in fact, the stronger a woman is, the more she wants to be loved by men, just sometimes she doesn't know how to say it.

My quiet family conditions are really average. I have achieved my present achievements step by step on my own, and suffered a lot. Only I know that when I met my husband Wang Daquan, I thought he was a more honest and reliable person, so we got married after getting along for a year. As for him, his family conditions are average and his parents are retired workers, but his hometown is in the county and he doesn't live with us.

I bought a married house before. When we first got married, it was quite sweet. I like my husband's honesty and honesty. He likes my independence, knows the truth and is very efficient. Sometimes when joking, my husband likes to say that I am a strong woman and marrying me is his blessing. What I did with him was really a matter of business and quantity, and there was no reason why anything was popular.

We are all busy with our own affairs. As for me, I have been independent since I was a child. After getting married, I have been able to handle everything by myself. I don't want to give my husband any trouble. Very dull. Good. Later, after I got pregnant, I worked for eight months before going home to rest. I think my husband sometimes really doesn't understand the pregnancy of these women. He is busy with work every day and never cares about me. I also decided that I was tired of working for him and didn't care.

Until I came out of the hospital after giving birth, my parents accompanied me for three days and went back to my hometown. After all, my husband is here, and he can take care of me. There is no need for so many people to look at me. When my parents left, I thought my husband would take care of me, but I didn't expect him to say that the company had a rare learning opportunity. He said he wanted to go, then completely ignored me and said to me, "Wife, you are a strong woman, you can take care of me." Hearing this sentence, my heart is really cold. It seems that we are just people who live together. I didn't say anything, but I saw through everything in an instant. He happily packed his bags and went on a trip by himself, leaving me alone at home for confinement. I made up my mind from the moment he walked out the door. I want a divorce. Such men don't need to live together. what do you think?

Answer: Hello, Miss Ning. In fact, what I want to say here is that I think a woman can be strong, but if she lives too strong and even seems invincible to others, that's really not good. It was herself who was finally tired. Daughters can be self-reliant in their careers, but in marriage, they still have to be soft-hearted. Men like women, innocent girls. After all, they all want their own women.

And men, in any case, with marriage, you must shoulder your responsibilities and be a real man. Women need to be taken care of during confinement. If you leave your wife and children alone, your behavior is really unmanly. Marriage is not easy, so cherish it. You must be careful about marriage.