There is a mother's ability called "I can take my baby to travel alone"!

Jay Chou lost his temper because his wife took the children out to play, but she didn't take him!

Not long ago, Hannah Quinlivan took a beautiful photo of traveling with children. In the photo, Hannah Quinlivan is dressed casually, her daughter is wearing a blue princess dress, and her son is wearing a cool black suit. The three of them walked hand in hand on the avenue covered with fallen leaves. I saw Hannah Quinlivan smiling back, and the camera captured the best moment.

As netizens guessed, is Jay Chou's father squatting in the mirror or sitting on the ground? As a result, Jay Chou's words made netizens laugh: "Why do you always go to interesting places when I am working ..."

Jay Chou is a little depressed: Honey, why don't you always take me out to play?

Jay Chou's little grievance made the old mothers very sad: What about a good family of three? Why is it always so difficult to go at the end?

After "widowed child-rearing" and "cheating child-rearing", "widowed child-rearing" is quietly popular in the circle of old mothers. Where's dad? Helpless, or the mother took the baby away!

Why does mother always plan to travel? Why does dad always get cold feet and run away? Why does a family of three always become a big headache? The appearance of two girlfriends, I think, tells the true feelings of many families.

"He is busy, too busy to accompany our NianLia. Forget it, my husband can't drag it, or drag the baby away! "

Xiao Hui, my best friend, is a real action-oriented mother. Before my daughter went to primary school, I saw her traveling with her baby for three days, far and near, short and long, which was really enviable.

Once I saw her, I said, "You are amazing. You came into this world alone with your baby!" " "

Xiaohui smiled helplessly and spread out her hands: "It is more difficult to make her husband a driver than to ascend to heaven. I have to go to work during working hours and work overtime after work. Some friends play football and games on weekends. Every time I tell him that we are going to travel, he is in trouble ... "

Indeed, boredom and tiredness are the main reasons why many fathers don't want to travel. My pig husband often says this to me:

"It's too easy to drive for such a long time, punch in with a group of people at a scenic spot, carry a bag, take pictures of you two, and wait in line to pay for the meal ... why don't we watch movies and eat popcorn at home? Why do you want to go out and suffer this? "

A trip for a family of three, the preparation before going out, is enough to make men crazy, not to mention dealing with all kinds of situations that appear at any time during the trip. Traveling is really something that men don't want to take the initiative to participate in.

Another girlfriend Pepe, her family belongs to another situation: no time, really distressed about money.

Pepe's husband is also very busy. Other people's holidays are their working days, and they have to take turns on duty from time to time on working days. Although you can take a long vacation, it's really a test. In addition to arranging your own work reasonably, you should also coordinate the work of your colleagues, and more importantly, it should be linked to the assessment at the end of the year. The income gap between full-time and non-full-time is obviously much.

Pepe's husband said: "Wife, I am responsible for making money, and you are responsible for showing the baby the world!" "

Pepe said that since I took my baby out for the first time, I gradually got used to the mode of mother and son going out alone. It's good, too. Every time I see my wife and son go out, men feel a little guilty. When the mother and son are outside, they will also feel bad about their husbands who make money at home.

Men are most afraid of being bound, and women are most afraid of being ignored. If mothers take their children out alone, they can reach mutual understanding, and they will live in peace and be grateful to each other.

"Will you take your baby on a trip alone?"

I have asked many of my mother's friends around me this question, and I don't want many of them to answer me calmly:

"With the first time, there will be a second time, and you will definitely fall in love with the feeling of relying on children during the journey."

Xiaohui shared with me her first experience of taking her children out.

When her daughter was two years old, Xiaohui took her children out alone for the first time. It is an objective reason that the father is busy. In fact, in Xiaohui's heart, she longs for a few days when mother and daughter can get along in the most intimate way. There is only mother in the children's world, and only children are in the mother's sight, and they have each other in the purest way.

Resisting the pressure of her in-laws and bidding farewell to her busy husband, Xiaohui took her children on the bullet train alone and went to a city hundreds of kilometers away. Xiaohui said that in the days when she left home, she found that there were so many bright spots in this spoiled child that she never found on weekdays.

Children spend a long drive in different ways. She paints, reads and sings.

Children learn to make friends with friends at the next table, share their toys and snacks with each other;

The child tried to ask his uncle around him to help his mother take down the heavy box from the luggage rack.

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Traveling alone with children is really tiring. Xiaohui was even more depressed when the child ran to the hospital, but when she saw her daughter insisting on waiting for her mother to take a shower and eat the newly bought food together, and heard her daughter lying in her ear and saying, "Mom, I loved you so much before, but now I love you more", all the hard work vanished and her whole heart was warmed by the child. Xiaohui said that everything is worth it.

Many people say that children's childhood memories are blank in the end, so why take them so far?

Really, it's not cool to take your children on a trip alone: you have to prepare a lot before going out and deal with more on the way, but even so, there are still many things that make you unprepared.

Then why are we willing to take the children out?

Life makes us in such a hurry that we are willing to slow down and feel good only when we are with our children. Although we accompany our children out to see the scenery, it is actually the children who accompany us to find our original mood.

There are also many mothers who have no confidence in themselves, although they are looking forward to it. There is a mother in the group. My activities are limited to showing my children around the community, she said. I was worried when I left the community door. How to take the children alone?

Some travel tips for mothers who need to travel alone with their children.

When the mother takes the child out alone, the child's belongings must be complete.

Drugs: cold medicine, gastrointestinal medicine, band-aid, antipyretic paste, wind oil, mosquito repellent. These items are necessary. In case the child has a headache and brain fever, the mother can solve the emergency on the spot.

Clothing: When the children have enough clothes, bring an extra set and put it in the carry-on bag. There are too many accidents when going out, and children's clothes are dirty and wet, all of which happen from time to time.

Other categories: carry a small schoolbag for children, put some snacks, toys and light picture books, and don't forget to bring simple picture books and brushes. These small objects can let children pass the long driving time and adjust their mood during the monotonous driving time.

Mothers travel alone with their children, and parent-child self-help travel is more suitable for children's work and rest rules. The child is tired and can sleep for a while. When the weather is bad, mothers can adjust their travel strategies at any time without going to scenic spots.

For the first trip with children, the travel time can be considered shorter, about 3 days is appropriate, the trip is not urgent, and the time should not be too long.

As for the choice of tourist destinations, we can consider city tours and seaside tours with mature tourist routes. Wait for the children to grow up slowly, and then travel slowly. Don't rush to the scenic spots, just walk one a day.

Speaking of accommodation, try to arrange it near the scenic spots, either early or late. Children are young, and most of them have the habit of taking a nap. The scenic spot is near the accommodation, which can ensure that children have plenty of energy every day.

The ability to be a mother is like playing with monsters. Whoever sharpens will grow again and again. Looking back on the road, I suddenly found: originally, I can; I can go further! And every moment when those children travel together will be the best memory in our life!

(Mano /80-year-old mother, male treasure, calling herself Mano. The world is big and the ideal is small. Read, write, walk the baby, laugh at things outside the window, and write quietly in Chinese. )