How to strike up a conversation with a strange girl when traveling

When traveling, I sometimes meet a particularly beautiful little sister or a particularly handsome little brother. So how can we catch up at this time? Today, Bian Xiao will tell you what to do when a book doll meets such a little sister on a trip.

Skills 1. If you have a map, you can read it.

Most girls are road idiots and can't read maps.

When you are traveling, do you often meet girls asking for directions? Do you have a good chance?

If a girl is unfamiliar with this tourist attraction, you can tell her: I have been here several times and I am familiar with it. I came alone. If you are alone, you can go together and have a companion to take care of each other. There is actually a lot of fun here. If, at this time, the girl politely refused. Don't lose heart.

Tell her where you are going this afternoon. Name one of the most famous places in that scenic spot. I hope to see you there.

If she is alone and has this trip, I believe she will agree to stay with you.

If she still refuses, bet whether she can see her there this afternoon. Don't let go when you meet, at least leave your contact information, you know.

2. There is an artifact "camera"

When you are playing in a scenic spot, you see a girl falling in love with you. You can walk up to her and take some pictures of the nearby scenery with your camera.

Then, he turned to her and said, Hello, can you take a picture for me?

When you give her the camera, you can have some unintentional contact. (remember, don't be too obvious and give people disgust. If it is a SLR, you can also take the opportunity to teach her how to use it. Don't let her go immediately after the photo shoot. Look at the photos she took, first praise her for framing well, and then ask her to take another photo of you with a certain background. Finally, look at the photos and talk about them. Then you must be decisive and take the opportunity to leave a WeChat or phone number. After getting the contact information, if you feel that you are in a good state and can chat with her, try to invite her immediately.

1, you look better yourself.

Few girls in Lery like a sloppy person. Ordinary people's looks are not easy to impress. If you can make yourself look like Shuai Shuai when traveling, or have a special iconic object on your body, it will leave the impression of "that guy" and make you easy to remember.

2, pick up girls artifact "camera"

After getting to know the master photographer, I feel that being able to take pictures is really a skill to pick up girls. If you want to chat up a girl, it is also a good way to improve your photography skills. After taking photos of your sister's satisfaction, you can ask her for advice. Can I leave my contact information and send you the photos, or make an appointment to take photos together in the future? It went well. No, no,no. If you fail the test, don't try it easily.

3, enthusiastic help

If my sister is alone when traveling, there will inevitably be some places that need physical help. Like carrying a box or something. This is because if you lend a helping hand, you will also touch your sister. Of course, you don't need a small bag to help when you really need help. Being too deliberate will make people feel defensive and stay away from you. Of course, you can also ask for help, explaining what problems you have encountered, and asking for help from your sister is the same.

Step 4 be sincere

Attitude is very important when chatting up people. Someone asked me, can I add WeChat as a friend? Apart from looking at the face, the most important impression I have is sincere attitude. It's no use just saying that you are beautiful.

5. Timing is very important

If you travel alone, sometimes you need someone to share your car and itinerary. Then when you live together, you can choose this reason to be together, which will be much smoother. Of course, there is also an element of luck.

3. Turn yourself upside down.

Few girls in Lery like a sloppy person. Ordinary people's looks are not easy to impress. If you can make yourself look like Shuai Shuai when traveling, or have a special iconic object on your body, it will leave the impression of "that guy" and make you easy to remember.

Enthusiastic help

If my sister is alone when traveling, there will inevitably be some places that need physical help. Like carrying a box or something. This is because if you lend a helping hand, you will also touch your sister. Of course, you don't need a small bag to help when you really need help. Being too deliberate will make people feel defensive and stay away from you. Of course, you can also ask for help, explaining what problems you have encountered, and asking for help from your sister is the same.

sincere

Attitude is very important when chatting up people. Someone asked me, can I add WeChat as a friend? Apart from looking at the face, the most important impression I have is sincere attitude. It's no use just saying that you are beautiful.

6. Timing is very important

If you travel alone, sometimes you need someone to share your car and itinerary. Then when you live together, you can choose this reason to be together, which will be much smoother. Of course, there is also an element of luck.

Required 1. Sincerity: This is the most important thing. Girls will tell whether you are a "dangerous person" according to your behavior. If you are sincere and polite, you are half successful.

2. Handsome: This is not to say handsome, but to dress up. Must be clean and tidy, giving a good first impression. Of course, if you are handsome, you will get more points.

3. Do what you can: help girls with their luggage when necessary, of course not all the time. Some girls don't like to disturb others, especially those who can travel alone, and don't like to be "big ladies", but sometimes they really can't move because they are weak. If you show up at this time, you will give her a good impression. Maybe this is the beginning of a conversation.

4. The purpose is pure: keep a pure heart and don't make unreasonable demands.

Resistance 1. Most girls know that they can strike up a conversation, mainly because of their looks, so they will be a little resistant to the boys who come to strike up a conversation. It is not easy to get to know each other because of work, study and other reasons.

Generally, boys who can talk to girls on the road will give people a frivolous feeling, so many girls don't like such boys.

3. You said that you want to find a girl to travel with, and it is usually a person who may strike up a conversation. Such a girl has strong travel planning ability. If you are a lonely traveler, both of you are very capable, and it is easy to disagree when you meet. Even if you travel with the other half, it is easy to break up in discord.

4. Generally, people you meet during the trip will not be in the same city, but together they are also long-distance love, which is a great test for each other.

It is easy to have emotional crisis because the other party will always think that since I can chat with you, so can others, and the other party will think that you can chat with me and others on the road, which has laid a bad factor for feelings.

Other mentality:

Nothing is certain. The first thing to do is to adjust the mentality, lower expectations, and start with the mentality of looking for chat partners, friends, or boring people. The question is not whether you want to go out or not. It's just a matter of courage. I want to think more about how to succeed. The question is what you use to attract others. Most people with a sound outlook on life can judge their intentions and purposes. Touching the bottom is easy to be shielded, and the process of feelings is always gradual, so adjust it first. Through simple chat, you can determine whether the frequency of the other party is synchronized with yourself. The topic of chat itself reveals your point of view and angle, so that others can feel your three views and other people's designs. People generally don't refuse to meet a new friend, especially those who are interested in it.

Appearance:

Handsome does not consider, unless it is a character defect. What is considered here is the usual problem. Clean, refreshing, sunny, confident and gentle, I think these conditions can be cultivated the day after tomorrow. This is the first feeling before communication. As long as it's over 60, I don't think I will directly refuse your accosting. Destination, itinerary and polite greetings can all be the beginning of a conversation. If it is a brave start, I feel more natural.

Topic construction:

About what? How to please others, what topic can please others, constellation? Makeup? Are you sure you know this well and can grasp it accurately? I think if I don't have this guarantee, I can please myself. Chatting is more about making yourself comfortable, and the topic goes on, and the other party is still unfinished. I think it will have a good effect. The topic is the communication between you and me, which can expand the topic, change the angle and so on. Talking about what you don't understand and what you don't know may not prolong the chat. Of course, it's good to be a listener at the right time, but you should have your own opinions, not just go along with them, and be yourself.

I think the process of chatting up is over, and the follow-up is the next stage. I wish the subject take the first step and don't think about dignity. I think there is no dignity before success. Dare to try.