Why are some women accused of leaving home when they travel around after marriage?

With people's higher income, better living standards and more advanced ideas, people's enthusiasm for tourism is unprecedented. But if you are trapped in the besieged city of marriage and travel without restraint, you will be accused of doing nothing.

Especially for women, it is understandable to travel around before marriage, but if you still keep this kind of travel habit after marriage, you will be treated differently by people around you.

First of all, the deep-rooted feudal thought still has an influence on modern people. In the traditional sense, women should contribute to their families, but they are willing to be workhorses and contribute to everything. This is also a good wife and mother who is often praised. In the eyes of many people, women should stay at home, work outside to earn money to support their families and take care of the elderly, children and husbands.

If you travel, who does housework at home? Who will take care of the elderly at home? Don't you need to spend money to travel? Now that I am married, I don't want to plan for my children's future, I don't want to make money for my children, and I don't want to go out and destroy money myself. Is it a very unreliable behavior?

Secondly, although there are some remnants of feudalism mentioned above, it is undeniable that a woman's burden will become heavier after marriage, because once she forms a family, she will bear her own responsibilities, whether it is for her family, her parents or her children's future education. If she travels all day and runs around, it will inevitably affect her care for her family, especially after having children.

After marriage, you are no longer lonely. You have family needs. It is not impossible to travel, but you should also consider it from the perspective of real life.

If economic conditions permit, traveling will not bring great burden to the family, so I think there is nothing to blame, but please be careful not to leave alone. It is best to travel with my husband and children. If parents' physical conditions permit, it is best for the whole family to travel together, which not only increases their knowledge, but also promotes family harmony. If you can only travel by yourself under special circumstances, you should also communicate with your family to avoid family disputes and contradictions.

If the economic conditions do not allow, we should still earn money to support our families, increase revenue and reduce expenditure, and travel as little as possible. Even if you want to go out for a walk, you should choose some places that are not expensive and can go back and forth in a short time.

After all, every era has its responsibilities and responsibilities. After marriage, this family is your responsibility, and your husband and children are your responsibility. You should take on your own responsibilities and take on this important task.