If you don’t have a suitable travel companion, it’s better to travel alone. Do you agree?

“If you don’t find a suitable travel companion, it’s better to travel alone.” I completely agree with this sentence.

As someone who often travels alone, I have certainly tried to travel with friends, and I have also enjoyed the joy of traveling alone.

It is of course good to find the right travel companion. Some people like to travel with many people, and some people think that traveling alone is too lonely. It is better to have someone to travel with you. Some people even have no one to accompany them and would rather not travel. This is their own decision.

In fact, I don’t always want to travel alone. Like me, although I often travel alone, the premise is that I can’t find a suitable travel companion. If I find the right travel companions, I guess I will also enjoy traveling with a few people.

To be honest, it’s hard to find a suitable travel companion. Some people say that finding a travel companion is like finding a significant other. It may not be the most suitable, but at least you can make do with it.

But I think it is a little different to find a companion on the road than to find a partner in a stable life. Otherwise, how could a best friend who has been together for so long break up because of a trip? Some couples go out once and break up after returning from the trip?

Travel is actually a state of urgency that is very unfamiliar to you. You come to a strange place and face unknown things. In fact, many times, a sudden accident will make you whole. Human character is fully revealed.

For example, what kind of personality you are, how you deal with problems, your attitude, etc. will all be exposed. If two people expose their most primitive mentality in a very unstable state, they are likely to have a dispute.

In fact, traveling can reveal a person’s true state. Through traveling, you may get to know this friend more comprehensively. Traveling alone may help you find yourself better.

It is better to travel alone if you have not found a suitable travel companion

I remember once traveling with a friend who I have known for many years. We were both looking forward to this trip, but during the trip, I found that our concepts of travel are actually somewhat different.

For example, when I travel, I feel that I should spend money on places where I should spend money, and I should not spend money on places where I should spend money. But this friend of mine may be more generous in spending all his money. There is always shopping on the road.

Because we are traveling together, the cost of accommodation and food are equally divided. This led to him wanting to eat some luxurious and expensive delicacies from Internet celebrity stores, while I wanted to eat some more down-to-earth local delicacies from street stalls.

For example, the hotel I am looking for may be relatively cost-effective, while the hotel he wants to stay in is an Internet celebrity hotel that costs nearly a thousand yuan a night, etc.

I will find that when we get along, there are actually not many conflicts in many places. But when it comes to traveling, everyone wants to carry out the trip according to their own ideas. The two of us If it is not in sync, the ambiguity will be greater.

For another example, my friend may just want to check in at the scenic spot, take photos, and then stop playing and turn around after taking good photos, but I want to After seeing the entire scenic spot, it was a leisurely play style. In order to achieve harmony at this time, maybe I would unify the pace with him and walk back halfway through the scenic spot instead of continuing to explore the scenic spot according to my own plan.

After that trip, we still kept in touch as usual when we returned, and we didn’t talk about the breakup of our relationship, but it gave me a more comprehensive understanding of some of his concepts and views on travel, so that I I know that he is a friend that I can usually get along with, but he is not a friend who is suitable for traveling with me.

I often walk on the road alone. I think traveling alone can be very happy. After all, whether it is food and accommodation, scenic spots, transportation routes, etc., everything is arranged according to your own wishes. You can satisfy your travel needs to the greatest extent.

And on the road, you will occasionally meet some travel friends who are very compatible with you. It is also very happy to travel together for a few days.