Why do some people think that they can see a person clearly through a trip? what do you think?

Why can a person be seen clearly in a trip? Travel is the best way to see a person clearly. Because during the trip, everyone gets along with each other day and night, and their temperament is exposed. Chaos, whether it is a hobby or something else, will have a certain impact on travel and even later life. For example, how is the other person's personality, good or bad temper, whether he knows how to solve problems when he meets, and communicating with people is not only a lover, but also a test of friendship between friends. Because traveling is a relaxed and happy thing, there is no need to bear the so-called pressure of life and work during the trip. At this time, people show their true selves. Generally speaking, people who choose to travel together are close friends, such as relatives, friends, lovers and so on. Because they are close to each other, some behaviors in the journey will be unscrupulous or expose the essence. In a trip, not only happiness, but also some differences will make it unpleasant and the trip will end.

Tell me about my friend Xiaoxi's personal experience. After the college entrance examination, Xiaoxi and her boyfriend met to go out to play. Less than a day later, Xiaoxi called me at night to say that we broke up. I wonder if I should be happy to go out to play. Listen to her. First, her boyfriend doesn't want to buy her local specialties as souvenirs during the trip. They are all cheap little things, but the other party is unwilling to spend money to buy them for her. Xiaoxi feels that the other party doesn't care about her at all. Secondly, it is obvious that two people are traveling, where the stream is going, and the boyfriend is reluctant with a straight face. The other party is not willing to take care of the stream's feelings at all. Third, seeing a lot of new things during the trip, the other party is indifferent. The whole trip was quiet, which made the trip particularly depressing. No accident, the journey is painful, and the breakup is doomed. Two people have different personalities, travel needs to get along with each other day and night, and the boyfriend's temperament is exposed.

For friendship, too, some people are really not suitable for traveling together. Because meeting some people will really ruin the planned trip and make you exhausted instead of relaxed and happy. I heard that the most ridiculous thing is that you want to buy local snacks, and your friends tell you not to eat unclean food, and then you stop eating; When you decide to buy a souvenir, your friend tells you it's not good, but she secretly buys a lot of it herself, but you get nothing from a trip; Your friends always refuse to wait when you decide where to go.

Therefore, traveling can clearly see the essence of a person.

This view is both correct and inaccurate. Why do you say that?

First of all, on the right, a trip is actually a microcosm of the journey of life. Manners in travel often reveal people's character and temperament, and these aspects are often the main characteristics of people's character.

When a person travels to a strange place, he should show his character and strength in eating, living, traveling, playing, having fun and shopping.

It is precisely because of the uniqueness of travel that many young couples, especially women, like to travel together before marriage, so as to verify each other's personality and personality characteristics and consider whether they can be entrusted for life.

Especially when there is an emergency during the trip, or when two people have differences or opinions, it can best reflect whether the three views between two people are consistent, or whether the other party is tolerant.

Therefore, many young couples who have good feelings in daily life often break up because of a fundamental contradiction after a trip. There are many cases of this phenomenon in reality.

Secondly, everyone has duality, and a trip is not the best basis for completely testing people's moral level.

For example, when a couple travels abroad, the man may be at the lowest point in his life, his career is not smooth or his strength is not good enough, his personality will inevitably be depressed and his temper will inevitably be a little anxious. However, the woman can't analyze the specific problems and can't understand the man's melancholy and shyness. Just because of a short trip, she denied her future lifelong happiness, which is inevitable.

Therefore, the travel of young couples is not the best experimental stone to judge the firmness of love. Whether two people can get along for a lifetime or not depends on sincere tolerance in the constant details of life.

Love is like this, and so is girlfriends. You can't turn the boat of friendship over completely in one trip!

A man told me that when he was in love, he asked his girlfriend to go to the movies. During the movie "Mom loves me again", he peeked at his girlfriend's expression many times. His girlfriend was so moved that she cried in the movie plot. Therefore, he thinks that his girlfriend is caring and has a firm belief. Love her all my life. For this topic. What I want to say is that there is not only love, but also lovers traveling together. If a man goes somewhere and a woman complains, which leads to unhappiness, this relationship should break up as soon as possible. Don't get married, and finally divorce. Not only two people, but also children and parents will be injured. The most important thing is that children suffer the most. Three views are really important. See if your girlfriend is in love, take her to a sensational movie, see if her three views fit her, and take her on a trip. Unless she hides, she will be exposed. And then decide how long to stay with her.

This, I have personal experience!

If you want to know someone, it is clear to go out for a trip together.

Seeing a person's character and nature clearly is really seen clearly in the tour.

Before, a good friend took several families on a trip, traveling back and forth for more than 2,000 kilometers. When we set out, everyone was very excited, United and eager to rush to the destination. However, after the trip, the friendship between friends has undergone subtle changes. Although no one wants to say more out of face, after a long time, we found that an individual disappeared from everyone's team …

Why? I think if you go out, you can see clearly whether a person is selfish or not. No matter how you hide it at ordinary times, problems encountered during the trip will be shown. Otherwise, all the friends who come out together are watching, and everyone is not stupid. Who wants to associate with a selfish person for a long time?

Therefore, if you want to know whether a person is selfish or not, it is clear to go out.

At school, the relationship was very good and close. After graduation, I got married and had children. After several years, I met each other and had a trip. After I came back, we were basically like passers-by ... along the way, we were all uncomfortable and depressed ... time can really change people. Even if your appearance remains unchanged for decades, your thoughts and cognition will make people feel strange, distance will arise and friendship will end. ...

Short distance is not acceptable, long distance is acceptable, but not in one country. In many countries, two people have just met for more than ten days. It is impossible not to quarrel. They just met, but they don't know each other. How can they not quarrel? A woman is a very emotional creature, but traveling is just the opposite, and she needs reason to prepare everything. I can't go everywhere because I have limited time to go out. I must give up some scenic spots and have one more choice. Man is just a very rational creature. They find it boring to go out to play. They spent so much money and got nothing. I might as well buy a mobile phone/computer for practical use. Travel planning started from the moment I bought the plane ticket. When booking accommodation, many different views of the two people have been exposed. Some people want to go to the east, some people want to go to the west, some people want to stay in youth hostels, and some people want to stay in ultra-luxury hotels. These contradictions will be exposed before we leave. Of course, if it's just a weekend. I really don't see whether it's appropriate or not. Time is too short to end the trip without a chance to inspect. Or the country where two people go happens to be the country where he/she has stayed for a long time before, and he/she is familiar with some of them, so you can't verify it. Personally, I think the best way to test is to go to at least 2 domestic and foreign places and more than 2 countries. However, many times, before the test results came out, the two people broke up in discord.

At the end of last month, three tourists sneaked into the unopened Danxia landform reserve and trampled on the protective layer about 1 meter wide and 200 meters long.

In Tik Tok, he frequently boasted, "Isn't there news that it will take 60 years to recover after stepping on one foot?" We don't know how many feet we stepped on. "

These parties are not ashamed of destroying the Danxia landform for 6 million years, but are proud of it. What they show off is actually their stupidity and ugliness.

Tourism is a good opportunity to get close to nature and a good way to know human nature. You can really get to know a person by traveling.

When we wander among the green mountains and green waters and look at the beautiful scenery of nature, our body and mind will not feel relaxed, and human nature will show more true colors.

Unveiled language and behavior will truly show a person's quality, ability, tolerance, connotation and so on.

Through the preliminary arrangement of tourism, we can see the level of a person's ability.

There is a friend, no matter who goes out with her, she can safely be the shopkeeper, and she will make proper arrangements for eating, drinking and having fun during the trip.

We were all impressed by the fact that we could handle such trivial things as trains, accommodation, scenic spots and tour guides.

From the beginning of the journey, everyone gets along with each other day and night, and it is easy to observe this person's living habits. The taste of diet, work and rest habits, bad habits, etc. You can tell at a glance.

A person's connotation and cultivation are more obvious when traveling.

On February 23rd, 20 13, Bo Huang, who was on vacation abroad, said with emotion in the Weibo: "Palau was lamenting the beauty of God's wonderful work that day, and suddenly he saw a cigarette case floating on the water, secretly cursing unscrupulous people. How could such clean water be lost! Suddenly I saw two big characters "China" on the cigarette case!

St. Bo Huang stepped forward, took it in his hand, afraid of being seen like a thief, and brought it back to the shore.

There are endless news reports about events that are humiliating and thrown abroad during outbound travel.

The handling of some emergencies can better test a person's ability and sense of responsibility.

He Yongjie, the leader of Chongqing, was trampled to death by an elephant in Pattaya Elephant Garden in Thailand to save tourists.

In times of crisis, his reaction showed his Excellence and selflessness.

There was a girl around, who went out for a trip with her boyfriend and broke up when she came back.

We were surprised to ask, only to know that the two men had been moving towards the goal of further development, but after going out, they found that their consumption, aesthetics and ways of doing things were different, and they also saw each other's problems, and finally they simply quarreled and came back.

Traveling is a wonderful thing. Finding a traveling companion with a combination of three views and a high level of business can add a lot of interest to the trip and further enhance the friendship between friends.

Travel is also an opportunity to observe each other. The longer the journey, the more you can see a person clearly.

As the saying goes, you depend on your parents at home and your friends when you go out. When traveling, people around you are people from all over the country, and the personnel are more complicated. The only person you can trust is a friend who walks out with you, and his previous habits or some bad behaviors will be magnified before your eyes. Because in normal times, your attention is not entirely on him or there are too many friends around you, too many people to talk to or trust, and there is no time to pay attention to or observe these.

Once you set foot on a trip, you are inseparable and your behavior affects each other.

There is adversity, and adversity is a true friend. On the way to travel, you will meet all kinds of people, and at the same time you will encounter all kinds of problems, such as getting lost in the wild and raining heavily in the wild. In extreme or difficult situations, people will expose a person's nature, such as selfishness, meanness and a series of other problems. In normal times, because you can't meet these problems, even if you do, you can stay away from them and solve them. But in the process of traveling, you are interdependent and have no other choice.

Differences in values and qualities are also important factors to see a person clearly. In normal life, everyday scenes are basically fixed, so people will also form fixed behaviors to deal with these things. On the way to travel, you will meet all kinds of beautiful scenery, and people will relax their hearts in very beautiful and relaxing scenes. Some bad habits will also be displayed, such as littering and destroying scenic spots. The scenic spot is a magic mirror, which makes sense.

After a trip, more or less habits and some ways to deal with problems during the trip will make people feel particularly uncomfortable. Take a trip when you see a person clearly.

A trip, not everyone can go together. The choice of travel partners must be cautious! For example, there are three chapters about travel: simple life (not necessarily staying in a star-rated hotel), simple diet (eating well and not drinking), and rich play (getting up early and going to bed early, stretching your legs and watching the scenery with your eyes open). In the process of going to the destination, try to bypass the big cities (don't enter the urban areas), try to take the national, provincial and county roads (walk carefully in expressway), and stop at any time when the scenery is good. * * * The same hobbies, good physical condition and good economic condition are indispensable and important conditions for a successful trip.

I also think I can see a person clearly. Traveling between classmates can bring family members. One of my female classmates has a very good relationship. I can't believe she brought her brother, who didn't spend a penny. I told her that you wanted to find a sister-in-law among us. Just like your brother, I think it's impossible. Later, I went to her wedding. Her brother didn't have a girlfriend. She whispered to me that you were right. Hmm. How interesting