Many boys subconsciously resist when they hear that girls "like traveling". Is it because of low self-esteem?

I think it may be because of low self-esteem, but it may also be because many boys nowadays think that girls who like to play outside are often girls who are not easy to control.

In fact, we have to admit that many people now have stereotypes about some people's practices and opinions. For example, people who like to travel are seen by others as too free people. So it’s not easy to control, especially from the perspective of boys. In fact, boys still have some desire to control girls. Then if he knows that the other person likes to travel, he will feel that this person may not be controllable, so you will subconsciously Some resistance.

But in fact, low self-esteem also has this factor, because everyone knows that traveling is a very expensive project, so when a boy’s conditions are not that good, and his girlfriend wants to travel, then he You may also have to go with the other person. If conditions do not allow it, it is very easy for two people to have conflicts because of this. Then when they think of these problems, some boys will naturally want to retreat.

But in general, it does not mean that girls who like to travel will be treated unfairly in their real love life. Generally speaking, I think that although there are not a few boys who have this idea, I think if a relationship is mature enough, they can restrain their thoughts. As for whether they have low self-esteem, it may have to be considered on a case-by-case basis.