What kind of scammers have you encountered on the dating website?

A former female classmate tricked me into going to her house at night. She told me that as long as I stayed, I could have anything I wanted.

Once I went to Shanghai on a business trip and stayed in a hotel at night. I was a little bored, so I opened WeChat nearby people and added a few people to chat. One of them was chatting very happily, it was really a shame to meet each other so late. We immediately decided to meet. I told her my room number, and she came after a while. When I opened the door and saw her, I felt familiar. After chatting with her, I realized that this girl turned out to be my elementary school classmate!

With such a relationship, we first lamented how amazing our fate is. We haven’t seen each other for so many years, but we met like this! It's also a little embarrassing. Then I invited her to dinner, and we both had a lot of fun together. I asked her what she did for a living, and she said that she started a business with others. I saw her starting a business at such a young age, and I felt that she was quite capable.

I was a little lonely at that time, and she was quite beautiful. I was a little attracted to her, and it was obvious that she felt very good about me.

One night, she asked me to go to her house and said that today was her birthday. I was very happy when I heard it. Doesn't this mean that our relationship will undergo substantial changes? I dressed up well, bought her a gift, and went happily.

When I arrived at her house, she opened the door for me. I was dumbfounded. It turned out that there were so many people in her house, including men and women. She was quite enthusiastic towards me, saying that these were all colleagues. , and then we ate together and cut the cake. This meal made me depressed. During the meal, these people were extremely excited and kept shouting slogans, wanting to make a lot of money and so on. Only then did I realize that these people were all involved in pyramid schemes!

After finally finishing the meal, I told her that I wanted to leave, but she refused to let me go. Seeing that I was determined, she told me that as long as I stayed, she could do anything. I knew she was cheating me into a pyramid scheme, how could I stay? But I couldn't leave even if I tried hard, so I pretended to be moved by her and quickly texted my friend to call the police. Soon the police came and took the gang to the police station.

Fortunately, I informed my friend in time, otherwise I would not have known whether I could escape. The sad look she looked at me when she was taken away made me feel very uncomfortable. Alas, my classmate, the person I like a little bit, did not follow the right path, but chose to take the evil path. He even used my feelings for her to trick me into going there. Doing pyramid schemes makes people sad!

Once upon a time, I met a girl online. When we first met, she asked me to stay with her for the night.

That year, I was 25 years old, but I didn’t have a girlfriend yet. I heard from a friend that he and his beautiful girlfriend met online, and I was particularly envious. Later, I registered an account on Momo. After various recharges, I was finally able to chat with girls casually.

At that time, I really hated Momo and couldn’t do anything without recharging. Fortunately, I met a girl I felt good about, and the money I spent was somewhat worthwhile.

After a few days of chatting, she actually asked me to be her boyfriend, and I agreed instantly. Such a beautiful girl, I couldn't ask for more.

About a month later, she said she missed me and wanted to come see me. I was particularly touched. I didn't expect her to be so considerate and take the initiative to come all the way to see me, knowing that I was very busy.

But when I saw her, I was a little disappointed. Because, although she is the same person as the photo in the feed, she is not that beautiful in person. However, I don’t judge people by their appearance, and I don’t care too much.

That day, we went shopping together all afternoon, and I bought her 2 pieces of clothing, which cost about 1,000 yuan. Perhaps out of emotion, she actually asked me to stay with her for the night, and she booked the room using my ID card.

That night, she said that she would wait for a period of time before being completely together with me, and I agreed. Later, she slept on the bed and I lay on the sofa.

When I woke up the next day, I found that she was gone. Although I was a little sad and reluctant, I didn’t think too much about it. Maybe she was in a hurry and couldn't bear to wake me up, so she left without saying goodbye.

But when I was about to send a message to contact her, I found that my mobile phone could not be found. At that point, I vaguely realized what was happening and quickly looked for my wallet. Sure enough, my wallet was also missing, with more than 2,000 yuan in cash, as well as my bank card and ID card.

I was cheated and stolen! Later, I called the police and used the police phone to log in to Momo, only to find that she had canceled her account. Alas, I am so unlucky!

It can be seen from this incident:

Dating websites are not as reliable as everyone thinks. There are many female scammers who use the banner of dating to deceive men who want to make friends.

When meeting a girl you met online, be sure to keep an eye on your valuables, just in case!

If you find that you have been deceived, you must call the police in time, and you must not let those scammers continue to harm more people!

I downloaded Tantan for the first time 15 days ago, and then I met a boy on it. After a few words of conversation, he said he wanted to add me on WeChat because he didn’t like using Tantan.

At that time, I thought to myself that I didn’t like playing Tantan either, so I gave him my number and asked him to add me. After adding WeChat, he chatted with me and said that he was a policeman from the township police station. I relaxed my guard against him and felt that the police should be very upright people. He sent me a photo of himself in police uniform, which I thought looked very good, so I trusted him even more and talked a lot with him. Then he would send me messages every day, and we also sent each other photos. He kept saying that he liked me very much and wanted me to be his girlfriend. I felt that he didn't agree before we met, and he expressed his understanding. Then we continued to have voice chats every night, but he seemed very busy every time. While chatting, he said that he wanted to send the police out, explaining to me that the township police were very busy. Then he asked me almost every day if I could be his girlfriend, but I still refused because I always felt that we met online and never met, so there was no point in saying yes. During this time, he kept saying that he didn't have a girlfriend and was looking for someone to get married to. He also said that if we meet later, I think he can talk to my mother about his situation. He calls me baby every day and says he loves me and likes me. Maybe it's because of these illusions that I think he really doesn't have a girlfriend. The reason why he hasn't come to meet her is just because he is very busy.

After I sent him a message last night, he never responded. I was still wondering why he went to bed so early. Then this morning he suddenly came over via video. I heard a female voice over there, and then he Just ask me who are you? Why are you sending me WeChat? I don’t know you. Why are you sending me WeChat? I was confused at the time and stupidly asked what are you talking about? What don’t you recognize? I still felt in my heart that he was joking on me. Unexpectedly, he hung up, and then he called me again after a while. He asked again why you sent me WeChat. I don’t know you, and then hung up again. Now I understood, and then I replied on WeChat. I fainted. He replied ugly. Then he blocked me. I also immediately blocked him and deleted all contact information. When I thought about it later, it still felt wrong. I needed to explain it clearly to his girlfriend because I was being cheated on by a mistress without my knowledge. . .

I kept calling him, but he answered the phone and was still pretending, who are you? I don't know you! Then I said give the phone to your girlfriend! He hung up and I called again. After hanging up, I called again. Finally he picked up and asked what on earth you wanted to do! I said give your phone number to your girlfriend! He said no! Hang up on me again. I called three more times and he didn't answer.

After a while, a new number from their side called. I thought it was his girlfriend this time, so I got straight to the point. I said, are you his girlfriend? She was about to curse, and I said calm down first. I called you so many times just to explain it to you. Can you listen to my explanation first? She didn't speak, and then I explained to her. I said that I never knew he had a girlfriend because he told me from the beginning that he was single, so we chatted, and then we just chatted and didn't meet each other. We met and never did anything else. Even the content of the chat was normal. There was no excessive content. I will not contact him again in the future. Please take care of your boyfriend! She said, should I care about him? How do I care? What other boyfriend and girlfriend are there? Do you know he is married? Why are you pestering him?

I was really shocked at the time. I never thought that he would get married. Then I said that I really didn’t know that he was married. He kept telling me that he was single! And he even showed me proof of his unmarried status before. I said it was not me who was pestering him, but him who wanted to add me on WeChat to chat with me. If I knew he had a girlfriend or was married, I definitely wouldn't talk to him. I never want to ruin other people's feelings. I will never contact him again. Please take care of him. Then she was silent for a few seconds and said I can't control it! I'm too lazy to care! The phone was hung up. During the whole call, I kept hearing him arguing over there. Maybe he was still arguing that I had seduced him...

Growing up, maybe I had experienced Very few people have encountered this kind of thing. I have never encountered such a liar. So everyone should be cautious

I chatted with a beautiful girl on a dating website. She said to me: As long as you come to see me, then I will be your girlfriend and accompany you to travel in the mountains. Play with water!

I was on a business trip. I was on a dating site at night, and suddenly a girl added me as a friend. The girl added me, and I immediately agreed!

She took the initiative to send me a message and said, "You are the only one among the five people I added tonight who did not take the initiative to talk to me, so I will only chat with you tonight!" Why don't you take the initiative to talk to me? Am I not beautiful? Don’t all men like chatting with beautiful women?

Only then did I click on her photo album, and all I saw were life photos of a beautiful girl. She was so beautiful! So I started chatting with the girl, and the more I chatted, the happier I became. Many of the views were the same, and I felt like I had known each other for a long time.

From that day on, whenever I have free time, I will chat with the girl. About a week later. The girl suddenly said, I find that I can't live without you. When I can't see your information on my phone, I will feel lost! I told her that I felt a little bit the same way.

The girl asked me, do you have a girlfriend? I said, no! The girl said, I want to be your girlfriend, why don’t you come and meet me? When I heard the girl say this, I couldn't hold back my excitement and said, I'll go to your place early tomorrow morning!

Early the next morning, I got in the car and set off to the city of girls. The girls were as beautiful as in the photos! When the girl saw me, she hugged my arm and said, I am your girlfriend now, I will take you shopping! I was very excited at the time!

During lunch, the girl said, this is your first time meeting your girlfriend, why don’t you give me something to continue? I said, I want to give it away, I will take you to buy it later! She said, if you buy it for the first time, you will get a valuable point!

After dinner, she went to a gold and silver jewelry store. She chose a pendant necklace and bought it for more than 5,000! It can be seen that the girl was even happier after receiving the gift I gave her! In the afternoon, the girls and I played a few more attractions!

After dinner in the evening, we found a hotel to stay in together! On the way to the hotel, the girl said she had to go to the bathroom, and then I couldn't find her, and I didn't answer her phone. When I called her, my phone turned off!

I searched the street several times but couldn’t find her! Later, I called her many times in the hotel but her phone was turned off! I never called her again after that!

At this time, I realized that I was deceived by beauty and deceived!

Summary: I was really confused by the beauty of the female netizen, and then I was deceived! A lot of the information about the netizens you meet on the dating website is untrue, and the people are also untrue, so when you want to meet netizens of the opposite sex, you must be careful to prevent being deceived!

Fifteen or sixteen years ago, when I was in my hometown, a netizen chatted with me. He said that he worked in the Public Security Bureau and sold black tea in his free time, and could earn more than one million a year. Three thousand yuan is enough, and he asked me to spend some money to do this business. He chatted with me every day, and I suddenly asked him, do your wife and children also do this business? He immediately said that his wife worked as an accountant in a company and his son opened his own photocopying agency. I laughed secretly, earning more than one million a year. Eight generations of your family have been doing business. It’s still my turn. But I said: It’s quite profitable, but it’s a pity that I don’t have any money now. If you can lend me three thousand, I will Also joined, and since then, he has stopped chatting with me. I had just graduated from school at that time. I went to an ordinary university. It was not easy to find a good job. I submitted my resume online. A few days later, a man contacted me and said that he was very satisfied with me and hoped that I would work for him. .

He asked me to add WeChat and voice directly. His voice was very magnetic and I developed a crush on him. He sent me a set of photos of the luxury car he drove while traveling on the beach and going to Paris. From the travel photos and scenery around the world, he looks very dashing and handsome. I think he is a successful man, not an ordinary man.

He said he liked me and wanted to be friends with me. Although I was also happy to do so, I didn’t even have a job, so how could I be qualified to have a boyfriend? I just said I wanted this job.

He said that he introduced this job to me, and he didn’t know whether I would like it or not. If he was not at ease, he could personally conduct an on-the-spot inspection to see if he was satisfied. If he was satisfied, he could stay. If he was not satisfied, he could leave at any time. I said that I didn’t have any money at the moment and it was so far away. In fact, I wanted to see if there were any good opportunities in other places that were relatively close. Unexpectedly, he sent me travel expenses and said he would reimburse me for the round-trip ticket. If I didn’t want to, he could do it at any time. return.

Since he said that, let’s believe him once. Although we have never met him, I bought a train ticket to go to the city he mentioned, got off the train, and sure enough, he drove a luxury car to pick me up.

He took me to a restaurant for dinner. There were several people at the table. He said they were all his friends, both men and women, and they would all be my colleagues from now on. Those men and women were bragging right in front of me about how easy their jobs were and how they could easily earn tens of thousands a month. They were so boastful that no one had to believe them.

After dinner, the handsome man asked me to get in the car and drive around the city. Later, he took me to the hotel and got a room. He said that it was a tiring day and that I should go to bed early and have a restless night. Well, it didn’t come until the morning of the second day.

Ask me how I feel. If you like this job and want to join, just be friends with him. If you don’t want to be friends with him, you have to pay money to join.

I don’t know him well, so how much does it cost? He said that he would just pay 5,000, and then use the 5,000 to earn hundreds of thousands a year. No one else has such a good thing. He told me mainly because he likes me. He is very busy and will come back in the evening. Look at me. I was dubious, but he came again in the evening and asked me if I had thought about it. I wanted to make friends with him, talked about his successful experience, and then started to introduce to me what "1040 Project" and what "chain operations" were. There are pictures and truth. In his opinion, success and getting rich are so simple.

However, I suddenly realized that this is not a pyramid scheme? This is impossible, they are all lies. One of my cousins ??was once deceived. His entire family was defrauded of tens of thousands of dollars, and he risked his life to escape. Unexpectedly, I was also deceived.

At that time, he asked me to take a shower first and have intimate communication with me at night. I was so scared that I hurriedly said, "You go first, and I will wash you after you wash." I was thinking about what to do. Get away. If you don't get away, you will be defiled by him.

I was so anxious that I was sweating profusely. There were strangers walking around outside the door. It must be their people who were monitoring me. It was very difficult to escape. In an emergency, I called the police. Maybe the man felt bad about the phone call and wanted to take me away. Three or four people hugged me and wanted to leave the hotel.

In desperation, I jumped directly from the window next to the stairs. Although it was on the third floor, one of my legs was broken. The police also arrived at that time and arrested them all. I stayed there, and later the police sent me to the hospital, asked a doctor to treat me, and contacted my family to take me back. Fortunately, I learned from past mistakes and was not deceived. Otherwise, I would have been tainted by a man and ruined for the rest of my life. This is the story of a cousin of mine who made friends with an online friend and was deceived.

Thank you for the invitation.

I have not registered information on the dating website, so I have no chance to come into contact with scammers on the dating website.

However, from my personal point of view, I can suggest that you judge whether the other party is a liar based on the following points.

First, scrutinize your family information and dabble in the account number and password information of all payment channels such as bank cards, Alipay, etc. In fact, everyone is already very vigilant about this type of scammers who defraud money and will not be easily fooled.

Second, routine feelings. On the Internet, you create an image of yourself as a rich, handsome or lonely newly divorced diamond queen. Generally, scammers who deceive both money and sex are men of high rank. They deeply understand women's desires and understand what it means to be in touch with others. But I want to say that in fact, men who are truly successful in their careers and have integrity do not have many opportunities and time to make friends online. After all, in real life, there are already many socialites of the right age around them, and they occasionally look for excitement online. Yes, but it is almost impossible to find a wife online.

Third, a man who talks about sex in a few words. Such men are generally just there for sex, and it cannot be said that they are liars. This depends on the attitudes of both men and women.

Fourth, it depends on what level of dating website you met on. This is easier to understand. It is like two people meeting each other in the Ferrari Supercar Club. Then at least the financial capabilities of both parties are equal. Even if you meet a liar, most of them are emotional liars. This is the truth.

Fifth, see how much time the other person is willing to waste on you. Please forgive me for using the word waste. After all, for scammers, they cast a wide net. Before he determines whether you are a big fish or a small fish, he will not put too much energy on you. So to judge whether the other party is a liar, in the early stages of chatting, don't reveal any information about your financial appearance to the other party, just use your talents to chat.

Finally, I want to say that the online world and the real world are different after all. The real world is live broadcast, there is no filter for beauty, and bragging will be exposed in minutes. In the online world, there are many rehearsals, and even your mother may not recognize the changes in people. Even if you meet an exceptionally good person of the opposite sex on the Internet, you must have a deep understanding of whether you are creating your usual image or a beautified image for that person on the Internet. This is so obvious even if you die in the light of others , let alone the general public?

Many times, we regard a distant person as a distant dream, but it is perfect to watch from a distance and not to play with it.

A few years ago, I met a woman online. I thought I had found true love, but I didn’t expect that the love her whole family had for me was all fake, and she deceived me so miserably.

When I was 28 years old, I downloaded a dating app out of boredom and searched for like-minded people. Finally, I found a girl whose image looked very beautiful. We added each other as friends and started chatting. On.

Our two personalities are very similar, we are both relatively quiet, and our zodiac signs match very well. I am a Leo and she is a Sagittarius. We are both similar in age and have the same hobbies. She also likes what she likes.

So every time I chat with her, we have the same topic, and we chat for a long time. It feels wonderful, as if she can understand your heart, and we have a long chat. After half a year, it finally appeared.

After I met her that day, I found that she was not as beautiful as I thought. She was a little dark, with a good body proportion and a not very good-looking face, but the overall feeling was still very good. So I confessed my love to her that day and officially confirmed the relationship between boyfriend and girlfriend. She also agreed, so the two of us got together.

I thought she had a formal job, but she told me that she had quit her job for half a year and had not found a suitable one. So I thought that since she is my girlfriend, I should not be able to support her. Question, I said you should look for a job slowly, if you can't find me to support you, she said, how can I let you support me, so she is submitting resumes and interviewing every day, but after looking for three months, she still hasn't found a job, then She has been eating and living in my house for a while, and I would send her red envelopes during holidays, which probably cost her more than 10,000 yuan! Just when I was about to persuade her to find a job and do it casually.

She suddenly told me that her parents were coming to see her, and she wanted me to get to know her parents so that they could know our relationship. I was very happy when I heard that this is my future mother-in-law. Of course I had to make a good show of my intention to come, so I specially found a relatively high-end hotel and made a reservation in advance to welcome my future mother-in-law and father-in-law.

The moment I saw her parents that day, I always felt that something was wrong because she looked nothing like her parents. However, during the meal, her parents were very satisfied with my attitude. I completely dismissed this concern. And they told me, you must treat my daughter well, otherwise we will not let you go. As soon as I heard this, I immediately confirmed, uncle and aunt, I will definitely treat your daughter well, so you can leave it to me with confidence.

I thought I was meeting my mother-in-law now, and she and I were probably not far away from getting married, but I never expected what happened next, which I didn’t expect. That day, my girlfriend suddenly told me that it was not easy for her parents to raise her. Her mother had always wanted to wear a gold chain, because many parents of girls there loved wearing this thing to show that their children were promising. When I heard this , isn’t my girlfriend asking me to deliberately please my mother-in-law? So I asked how much it cost and bought it for my mother. When my girlfriend heard it, she was so moved that she cried. The price was 15,000. My mother had been looking at it for a long time and wanted to buy it. Unfortunately, I never went to work and couldn't satisfy her. need.

I said this was all trivial, so I immediately transferred 15,000 to my girlfriend and asked her to buy it for her parents. My girlfriend happily kissed me directly.

But the next day, I found out that my girlfriend had taken away all my valuables. I thought she had been robbed and didn’t answer her phone call, so I called the police directly. .

Unexpectedly, the police said that your girlfriend is a liar. We have had many people call the police saying that they were cheated. Her parents were all fake and she was part of a gang. When I heard that, I was immediately stunned. Wow, this deceptive method is too clever, it is almost impossible to detect and it is unbelievable.

Once upon a time, I met a girl at Jiayuan. When we met for the first time, I gave her a box of chocolates. She scolded me for not knowing romance and dragged me to a bar to drink.

In 2014, I just fell out of love. When I saw my colleagues getting married and having children, I was filled with envy. Why is it that some of you love me, but I suffer the pain of broken love. Colleague Lao Zhang said: Dating and dating websites are very popular now. If you try them, you might find a girlfriend right away.

I was hungry at that time, so I downloaded A Century of Good Luck and played it for half an hour. Wow, there are so many girls. Many girls sent me messages. It seems that finding a girlfriend is no problem. Half an hour later, the app showed that it would charge 100 yuan for three months, otherwise you would not be able to chat. I thought about how much I spent this 100 yuan on love.

The next day, I had a lively chat with a girl and added her on QQ. Less than a week later, the girl said she wanted me to accompany her for her birthday and take me to meet her parents. I thought to myself, I am so charming. I met my parents in a week. It seems that I will be able to meet my parents in a short time.

On Friday night, I went to meet the girl near Baoan subway station and bought a box of chocolates and a bouquet of flowers. When the girl saw it, she smiled and cursed: It's outdated to give chocolates for birthdays. Now they go to bars to drink and celebrate.

Where is the bar? Isn't this just a small restaurant? Less than 20 square meters, dark and dark. What? ! A fruit plate costs 300, and two glasses of Sprite and red wine cost 500. Did I encounter a wine tote? I had an idea, prepared to pay, and then pretended to go out to answer the phone. Soon enough, I ran away and reached the Bao'an subway station in one breath.

How can you fall in love at first sight and become boyfriend and girlfriend after just one week of chatting? Innocent! It's a pity that my 100 yuan membership fee, chocolates and flowers are all gone.

I am a single person born in the 1980s. I dream of getting married, so I cast my net online. A girl born in 1995 made an appointment with me and asked me to stay with her that night, saying that she did not dare to stay alone in a strange place. I was elated at that time, and the solution to my personal problems was just around the corner.

I am a Scorpio man with a relatively traditional personality, which makes people feel a bit cold indeed.

So, there is nothing you can do about being single all the time.

My mother often says that it’s a good thing I’m a boy, otherwise she would have to teach me a lesson, and she wouldn’t take the initiative at all.

I told my mother that it wasn’t that I didn’t take the initiative, but that my fate hadn’t arrived yet. I had already sent out many “invitations” online and was now waiting for a response.

No, as soon as I finished explaining it to my mother, a notification came from the website over there. A post-95 kid added me as a friend. Let’s get to know each other first.

She is very proactive, and I can feel a trace of enthusiasm and initiative conveyed to me during text chats.

About a week later, we started voice chatting.

Her voice is N times better than Lin Chiling’s in my heart. When I hear it, I feel restless and unable to extricate myself.

Later, I took the initiative to send my art photos to her, and then asked her to send me hers.

She coyly used her voice to reject me and didn’t send it for several days. Then after I was silent, she suddenly sent her a beautiful photo, which caught me off guard!

This operation aroused the deepest desire in my heart, and I immediately clicked on the video call.

I knew it well and had no hope at all, but as long as I didn't get hung up on, I felt like it was an opportunity.

It is true that the video call was not hung up, but it was not connected and she was not seen!

I feel an inexplicable loss in my heart!

In less than a minute, a message rang on the phone. It was from her, asking me to meet this Saturday and go to the provincial capital.

I said yes, I am less than 100 kilometers away from the production.

We met on Saturday. She wore light makeup, which not only looked good, but also looked very elegant!

Her gestures made me feel that my trip was worthwhile.

That day, we ate together, went to shopping malls and parks together, and had a lot of fun!

Many times, she rushes to pay the bill and is very enthusiastic towards me, although I feel there is still a bit of distance between us.

For dinner, we ate in a Western restaurant, lighting a small candle, which gave it a unique romantic atmosphere.

Although the meal is not cheap, I think it is a great deal for us to enjoy more than 3 hours of romantic time.

But after dinner, I found the biggest problem. The bus transportation has been suspended and we can't go home.

When I was at a loss, she suggested that I should find a place to stay first!

When booking a room, she said she was afraid of the dark in a strange place and asked me not to leave but to stay with her.

The excitement in my heart can no longer be suppressed!

However, she asked me to use the quilt to sleep on the floor while she slept on the bed!

One night, I lay on the quilt and tossed and turned. It took several hours before I fell asleep.

When I woke up, the room was still dark. It turned out that the curtains were closed. Through a faint ray of sunlight, I found that there was no one on the bed. She had left.

When I was about to find her with my cell phone, I found that the cell phone, wallet, and watch in my pocket were gone!

At this point, I realized what was happening!

You can only admit that you are unlucky. You can’t have such fantasies in the future!