What should you do when you really can’t let go of someone?

I often hear people saying that you can’t let go of anyone.

This kind of inability to let go, or you used to like someone very much, but did not have time to confess, and you always have regrets in your heart, or you like someone unilaterally, and that person is indifferent, and you are unwilling to do so, or you have been in love with each other before , and later they broke up, but I still feel that the relationship is not over.

No matter what the reason is, once you have someone you can’t let go of, you will inevitably be tortured by this emotion. You will often feel sad about it and feel depressed.

It is wonderful to miss someone who also misses you, but to miss a hopeless relationship is just sad.

It is never a good thing to be able to let go of someone who should have been let go a long time ago, but when you are in it, you often don’t realize it, and you always feel that it is Not someone who should be let go.

If you have doubts in your mind, go find an answer.

I know a girl. For many years, she has been obsessed with the boy she liked in high school. Although they had no contact after graduating from high school, she still felt that he also liked her and that they would have a future.

She has always imagined that one day the boy will appear in front of her and talk to her about being together. However, she has been waiting for many years, but she has not waited for that day. Later, she really didn't want to wait any longer, so she chose to take the initiative to find him among her classmates.

At that moment she was trembling physically and mentally, but the boy's attitude was unusually calm, telling her that he was married or something.

It was at that moment that she realized that what she had been thinking about was just a joke. It was at that moment that she suddenly let go after being unable to let go for so many years.

In many cases, instead of all kinds of inner drama, you might as well find the person involved directly to see whether you should persist or give up.

If you don’t want to give up just yet, then try and try again.

Most of the time, the reason why you can't let go of someone is that you are still unwilling to accept the reality.

If you are not willing to accept it, then continue to like that person, continue to be attentive to that person, and continue to get close to that person. Fight for the people you like, and sometimes it doesn't matter if you are a little cheeky.

You can try your best to be with the person you like, but when you have done everything you can, but there is still no way to have a possibility with that person, even if you are unwilling, you You still have to know when enough is enough.

It was obviously possible to be with someone, but you didn’t fight for it. That really shouldn’t be the case, and it’s really a pity. But when you have tried your best for a relationship, you don’t need to feel that way anymore. Regret it.

Not being able to love is the normal state of life. You don’t need to feel defeated, and there is no need to step out immediately. Just give yourself a little more time. One day, time will let go of all the past. , healed all the sadness.

You have to let yourself go for everything that has passed.

How long does it take to truly let go of someone? Some say it will take a lifetime, some say almost a year, and some say until someone else appears.

The time used to let go can seem very long or very short. The key lies in whether you want to let go of that past and whether you really want to let go of that past. Be willing to look away.

When you don’t know how to let go of the past and always feel that the past was better, then no matter how much time passes, you are afraid that you will still be stuck in the same place. But if you know how to look forward and accept all the good and bad, letting go is just a thought.

All the past is prologue, the present and the future are what everyone should grasp. Those people from the past, those figures of the old days, you'd better forget what should be forgotten, and you'd better let go of what should be forgotten.

Everything you missed, didn’t cherish, and didn’t have time to give to that person, just leave it to that person in the future.

When you really can’t let go of someone, if you feel that the other person owes you an answer, then go look for it. If you are still unwilling, then try again. If you just miss him, then you Let yourself see it first.

Don’t always stubbornly miss someone who should have let go long ago. After all, that person does not want you to participate in his life.

Just let him go, let go of yourself, and use all your energy in your own present and love the people around you.

Happiness never lies elsewhere, but at this moment.

The past has never been important. What is important is to live a better life now than before.