The husband killed his wife for RMB 30 million and cheated out of bail. He usually seems to be an honest man, but why did he kill her in the end?

I read a piece of news titled "A man killed his wife in Phuket after buying her a NT$30 million insurance policy, and her daughter was only 20 months old." After reading this news, I was very shocked. It was originally a plot in a TV series, but it actually happened in reality. According to the news, the husband bought a huge insurance policy for his wife and set himself as the beneficiary after her death. Then he took his wife on a trip to Thailand and brutally murdered her. He then faked the scene and falsely claimed that his wife had drowned.

In a few months, the husband purchased more than a dozen insurance policies for his wife, with the insurance amount reaching 20 to 30 million. He set the beneficiary after his wife’s death as himself, and then took his wife out. While traveling, he took her to a very private villa hotel in Phuket, Thailand, and brutally murdered her. He then faked the scene and lied to his parents-in-law that his wife had drowned.

No matter how the two people are married, as the saying goes, a man can kill his wife with his own hands just to get 30 million. How cold-blooded is such a man? We learned from the news that the families of both parties were well off, so it may not be justified to kill his wife just to get a bail. From this, we also learned that the suspect’s computer contained 158 gigabytes of pornographic videos, and found that he had purchased online pornographic services, and that his computer contained some screenshots of nude chats.

Moreover, he has spent a lot of money on his credit card, from rewarding female anchors, staying in luxury hotels to buying luxury goods, and the whereabouts of some huge expenditures are unknown. From this, we have to guess that he is an irresponsible playboy. And he has a typical giant baby mentality.

What is a Chinese giant baby? The meaning on paper is obvious: an adult man who is incapable of independence. Giant babies have a lot of terrible psychology, the two most important traits of which are "omnipotent narcissism" and the belief that they are omnipotent. This is a very destructive pathology. It causes a person to regard the whole world as his own, to be unable to treat others equally, and not even to regard other people as living beings. This kind of psychology is actually a kind of psychology that exists in early childhood. It is called "self" in education. centralization”.

The second is "paranoia and schizophrenia". They are satisfied with their own imaginary world and are divorced from reality. People with a giant baby mentality are very strong on the one hand, but very fragile on the other. The inner strength is to protect their fragility, so they cannot accept doubts and will strongly resist once they are questioned; they cannot accept treatment that is not what they expected, and will fall into depression once they encounter this situation; they cannot accept setbacks, and once they encounter setbacks The heart will be broken. Only adults who possess these two qualities can be called giant infants.

It can be seen from the news that on the one hand, Zhang (the criminal suspect) does not have a good financial income, but on the other hand, he enjoys favorable living conditions. This lifestyle makes him more psychologically divided. . Every man hopes to be respected and to become an excellent person, but Zhang has not achieved any outstanding career or personal achievements.

When Zhang admitted his criminal behavior, he said that he did not want to live with his wife. Since you don't want to think about it and you can get a divorce, why kill your wife? Because, subconsciously, even if he divorces, he still wants to squeeze out the last value of his wife, that is, to defraud 30 million in insurance money through this matter. Undoubtedly, this kind of mentality is not only a giant baby mentality, but also distorted.

Extremely selfish, carefree, and irresponsible. The reason why this kind of man grows up to this point is also due to his family's poor education, excessive pampering by his parents, and the distorted values ????instilled in him, which led to the destruction of his outlook on life.

In real life, I have advised many single women to stay away from giant men. They do not show any shortcomings themselves and appear to be harmless. In fact, they can use selfishness to deprive themselves of human nature. The happiness and even life of others.

Objectively speaking, the development of giant babies has one thing in common - their parents raise them much like training, pampering, and punishing a pet, rather than an independent person. So that after they "grow up", they continue to use a distorted pet mentality and behavioral habits to deal with and demand strangers, instead of normal, rational and equal communication between people.

Once a certain age is passed, this pet psychological pattern will last throughout life and will be passed on to the next generation. Therefore, in real life, as a woman, when looking for a love partner or marriage partner, she must learn to identify giant baby boys. As the saying goes, "A long journey will tell you a horse's strength, and a long time will tell your heart." Don't rush to confirm the relationship with the other person, but discover the good and bad qualities of the other person from the details through words, deeds, and long-term contact.

Of course, there is also a very sad phenomenon in society today: some parents need their children to seek help from them to gain a sense of achievement and satisfaction, which has led to the emergence of more and more adults with a "giant baby mentality" in society. . Just like my friend Luo Feng, he received his undergraduate degree from a prestigious university in his own school, went to the Ivy League for graduate school in the United States, and returned to China after graduation. He wanted to start a business, but failed. So after getting married, I worked as a white-collar worker in a large company.

Living in a first-tier city, the house and car are provided by the parents. Fortunately, the wife’s family is well off, and the two of them can be considered to have no worries about food and clothing.

But after two years of marriage, Luo Feng's marriage had problems. He felt that there was no freshness between him and his wife, so he often chatted with women in the company and even went to nightclubs to have sex. He was caught cheating on his wife twice. , Luo Feng appeared painful and repentant on the surface, but secretly he still went his own way. Because, in his opinion, women are just an object and a way of entertainment. This kind of objectifying thinking of women is completely inconsistent with the higher education they have received.

The reason is that he is an only child, his parents earn a lot of money, and he grew up in a carefree environment. Because he is smart and studious, he is always praised by teachers and neighbors, so he develops self-esteem, arrogance and selfishness. character. He didn't know how serious the physical and mental harm that betrayal of marriage had caused to his wife. During a conversation, he asked me: Does the more women a man conquers, the more attractive he is?

I gave him a negative answer to this question, but he never accepted my refutation. I said: A man's charm comes from his quality and talent, not money and appearance. The number of women you conquer only means that you can sleep with women through some means, and it does not prove anything else.

Of course, he has always been entrenched in his own thinking pattern and refused to come out, just like Zhang in the news. Perhaps he always thought that he just wanted to be more comfortable and kill his wife in exchange for more. Is there anything wrong with money? This kind of distorted ideological value makes people feel timid. Therefore, at the end of the article, I advise single women: cherish life and stay away from giant men.