Mr. Zeng, please know the rules of Sweden before you travel.

In fact, I don't believe that the Swedish police who are widely circulated on the Internet treat China tourists violently. I think there must be a misunderstanding of poor communication. ? Every country has a key word, and Sweden's key word is following the rules, which probably represents Swedish culture. The world is so big, I want to see it! But the moment you stepped out of the country, did you understand the local culture? If we can't do as the Romans do and communicate in a friendly way, our mother can't take care of the children who are away from home.

In 2009, when I resigned, it happened that my husband was working in Sweden for three months, so I decisively applied for a visit visa. Every time I look back, it is a honeymoon-like paradise. Not to mention the beautiful food in other places, the honesty, trustworthiness and simplicity of the Swedish people are also highly respected. Mr. Wang's business trip is to karlskrona, a seaside town in Sweden, which is the only Baroque city in Sweden and the only naval base in Sweden. When my husband is at work, I walk alone in the streets of this city, the church square and the village by the lake with my camera on my back. Security seems to be an issue that I have never considered. People are friendly and helpful. I remember once I was about to cross a crossroads without traffic lights, and I stopped when I looked at a speeding red sports car in the distance. The latter stepped on the brakes and let me gallop away first. At that moment, a warm current flowed through my heart and was respected and treated in a foreign country, which made me feel warm. ?

Some people say that Nordic people are particularly lazy and don't work hard enough. I remember when I first arrived in karlskrona, I was very dissatisfied with the local service industry. On Sunday, the shop is actually closed. When you go to the barber shop for a haircut, you should first check the service hours of the barber shop. Most barbershops only work four to five hours a day. If you are "lucky" to catch up with the barber's closing time, the barber will also apologize to you for polite reasons such as "I want to go fishing with my children", "I want to go back to repair the swimming pool" and "I have a party with my friends". They do things according to the rules, even a little old-fashioned, and they don't know what is white and what is accommodation, but this is their culture. Maybe you think the reason why you are so unprofessional is that the Swedish people are rich. Their per capita income is 82,900 US dollars (about 543,000 yuan), ranking second in the world. The land area is 450,000 square kilometers, but the population is only 9 million, the density is 20 people/square kilometer, the iron ore reserves are 3.65 billion tons, and the forest coverage rate is 54%. There are abundant timber and water resources, and there are famous fishing grounds along the Baltic Sea. But the fundamental reason is that they pursue the highest balance between work and life! ?

In order to catch up with the weekend, my husband and I booked a plane ticket to Stockholm, Sweden. After nine years, I vaguely remember that we visited the classical Stockholm Palace, watched the handover ceremony of the guards, enjoyed the royal treasures, and shuttled between museums and churches in the city. However, the trip to the city hall left a deep impression on me, because there was a blue hall for the Nobel dinner and a magnificent golden hall. The best scientists in the world gather there every year. Advocating science and peace is the belief of the Swedish people! ?

As the plane was late, we got on the train in a hurry, because we didn't have time to buy a train ticket from Langneby Airport to Karlskrone. I don't know what it looks like now. At that time, there was no need to check in by train, and it was entirely up to people to consciously abide by it. Honesty If we take the initiative to ask the conductor to explain the situation clearly and ask for a replacement ticket, we will dramatically catch up with the failure of the replacement ticket machine. I thought the conductor would keep our cash for himself, because we had a similar situation in Rome. In order to avoid sharing a car with several bearded Middle Eastern passengers, we asked the conductor to change cars, but we were asked to pay 20 euros. Finally, the Swedes once again demonstrated their honesty and trustworthiness. Finally, the conductor accompanied us to the ticket machine at the station to buy a train ticket from Karlskrone to Langnaby and threw it into the trash can. To this day, I am awed by the thought of that handsome figure!

Three months passed quickly. When we were leaving, Mr. Wang's colleague held a farewell party for us. The host family is a friendly and slightly shy Swedish couple. They have a house facing the forest, their children have a good time, and a loyal big dog is with them. I think heaven is so much. Eating an open-air barbecue in the garden, we talked about China culture, Swedish culture and our joys and sorrows. They picked delicious mushrooms and barbecued in the forest. They told me that Sweden has an ancient law, that is, the right to use public areas. Everyone can go into the forest and pick mushrooms, strawberries and flowers in the wild. Looking at the lovely children, I am worried about snakes, insects, mice and ants in the forest. They say I worry too much, and they can live in peace with these animals. I'm surprised. Can you get along with snakes? ! Speaking of Swedes who don't like small talk, they told me that there is a Swedish proverb "Speech is silver, silence is golden". They are willing to communicate purposefully and insist on the authenticity of the dialogue. At the same time, they don't like conflicts and will try their best to avoid quarreling with each other. This is probably a good understanding of Mr. Zeng's family being carried out by the police in the guest house.

When traveling abroad, we must make a good plan for the strategy, which is also essential for the study of local culture. Especially elderly parents like Ceng Laoshi who have no language skills should not be taken lightly. A piece of filial piety broke up in discord, and personal emotions incited national hatred. Why bother to discredit the motherland?