How to live a good life while being in love?

Actually, every relationship is beautiful at the beginning, but it will take different directions later on. Some of them will be successful in the end, while some will change their path halfway. Regardless of any relationship, it needs to be managed carefully, and the first condition for careful management is not to lose yourself in a relationship. No matter how devoted you are or how much you like, you must leave space for yourself and retain yourself. , you have to live your life well.

1. To live your own life well is to remain psychologically independent.

It is understandable to be attached to others after falling in love, but do not lose yourself because of it. Don't lose yourself mentally, leave a space in your mind that belongs to you, and don't let your whole heart be filled with feelings. When you are lonely and lonely, there is still a field in your soul for you to rest. Because love has a shelf life, and if once the shelf life has passed, the relationship between two people is not as sweet as before, or in the process of falling in love, it finally reaches a fork in the road and the two people finally part ways, then if your heart is broken Full of love, by this time, the individual will suffer a great psychological blow, which is unacceptable for the moment. Therefore, leaving more open space mentally will also allow you to have a certain ability to withstand a psychological blow.

2. Live your own life well and maintain a certain degree of independence in space

We all know that when people are passionately in love, they like to stick together all the time, like two people. Conjoined twins, they never thought about their life after the eventual breakup. We like to eat together, go shopping together, work together, travel together, etc. We want to do everything together. However, while falling in love, we must also maintain a certain degree of independence in space. First, it is conducive to keeping the freshness of love. Each person has a small period of alone time, which can create a certain sense of mystery for the other person, and it is also more It is conducive to the cultivation of feelings; on the other hand, maintaining a certain degree of independence in space means that when encountering changes in feelings, you can have an independent space to vent your emotions, which is more conducive to getting over a broken relationship. Start a new life.