My aunt and I were taking my mother-in-law on a trip. When I heard their conversation before departure, I turned around and went back to the house. Why?

My name is Chunxia, ??an ordinary rural woman. Three years ago, my boyfriend of five years and I officially got married. Since my husband is the only male in my husband's family, I have shouldered the responsibility of taking care of my parents-in-law from the first day after marriage. My husband's father became sick due to long-term hard work and eventually lost his labor force and became a burden on the family. Although my mother-in-law's body is still strong, she is old after all, so the burden of the entire family rests on my husband and I.

My mother-in-law’s family tried to stop me because of the poor conditions of my husband’s family, but I was in love with my husband at the time. In order to get my parents to agree to our marriage, I gave them many kneel. In addition, my husband is also very sincere. He and my family promised that they would work hard to make money and give me a comfortable and prosperous life. After our persistent efforts, my natal family finally agreed to our marriage.

On my wedding day, I made up my mind to work hard with my husband and live it up. I had to let my parents know that my choice was right and that my persistence was worth it. Therefore, after getting married, I hardly wanted to waste a single second. My husband and I had to go out to work every day, and he often came home late at night. I needed to take care of my parents-in-law, so I found a relatively free job.

Through the efforts of my husband and I, our living conditions are indeed getting better and better. Not only did I have a deposit in my hand, but we also built the house on the south side of the courtyard two years later. In addition, because I never leave my mother-in-law's family, my neighbors say that I am a rare and good daughter-in-law. In addition to my parents-in-law, I also have a very good relationship with my eldest sister who has been married for many years. Whenever we go out, we always follow each other. Others think we are biological sisters.

Although our living conditions are much better than before, not long ago, my husband's father suddenly became seriously ill and left us forever. During that time, my mother-in-law seemed to be a different person. She didn’t talk to any of us, and she stayed in the house every day. In order to ease her mood, my husband and I decided to take her on a trip for a few days. But then my husband couldn’t leave because of work, so we finally decided that my eldest sister and I would take my mother-in-law on a trip to relax.

On the day of departure, after packing my things, I planned to go to my mother-in-law’s room to call them to set off together. When I walked to the door of the room, I heard my mother-in-law say to my eldest sister: "Chunxia has not traveled since she married into our family. We have to compensate her well for this trip. I have thought about it, no matter how much money we spend, We can't let her spend money." Then my aunt agreed: "Mom, don't worry, I brought enough money this time, I won't let Chunxia spend a penny."

After listening to what they said, I was instantly moved to tears. After thinking briefly, I turned around and returned to my room. I know my eldest aunt’s family situation. She is not rich, and she has two sons who are in primary school. If she insists on not asking me to spend money, then I will not travel. I thought about it, and when they came to call me later, I would confess to them directly. If they insisted on not letting me spend money, then I would not leave.

You think, am I doing this right?