"Behind the Traveler" first learns to suffer hardships, and then learns to shine.

1. Learn to survive first, and your heart will go far away.

At present, tourism is quite popular in the past two years. Tourism is a smokeless industry. With the improvement of people's living standards, the pressure of modern work and the acceleration of the pace of life, people are more eager to bid farewell to the hustle and bustle of the city after work and completely relax in the embrace of nature. Conditional people can also easily choose to travel all over the country, and finally arrive at the ideal destination by cruise or plane. Traveling to a different place is also very popular in China. What I share with you is the story behind a traveler. The following information is purely personal accumulation, not exclusive interview.

Too many people envy those travelers who are warm, free, literary, glamorous, or plain and elegant with Zen. Actually, I was just like you yesterday. But few people want to know the story behind their trip. People who like to travel all the way must be ambitious, dare to take risks, like to try different lifestyles in different environments, like to deal with people, have strong willpower and can bear hardships. In particular, it is best for girls to drive, speak English and cook, and bring an emergency medicine box with them. The mobile phone has enough power and some cash on it, which can be opened separately to ensure safety.

These things happen behind those beautiful pictures after ps, behind the tourists smiling or being silent and being cool …

Guoguo is a woman who likes to travel. In her own words, as long as she stays at home for a few days or stays with her parents, she will feel uncomfortable immediately. She is destined to marry a traveler. We often see her staying in star-rated hotels at home and abroad, and meeting craftsmen among flowers in Singapore, Iwate Prefecture in northeast Japan, Tibet, Australia and Mauritius, which are the holy places that countless people yearn for. She was very sad when she learned that hundreds of swans were maliciously killed on the shore of Swan Lake in Inner Mongolia.

I wrote an article saying, "It's not as simple as calling on everyone to punish the murderer severely to protect the single swan population. What needs to be protected and paid attention to is the whole biological population behind the swan, so that a balance can be maintained. Let us severely punish the law, call for awakening, and live in harmony with everything. " She loves the humanities and national cultures all over the world, as well as the current lifestyle and the most unshakable beliefs in their lives. She can take a luxurious Royal Caribbean international cruise and walk into the mysterious corpse burning temple in Nepal. In Cambodia, a poor and backward country, she once brought many bags of candy to the children there, and only when the children ate the candy would they take pictures together. Later, she often thought of those innocent and lovely children from photos. She said regretfully and unhappily, "I wish no one would give you candy." In fact, I hope that they will always be simple and happy, and will not be used innocently by future generations. She also prefers to walk into the ancient villages in the mountainous areas of Yunnan. Guoguo used to mainly study the national costumes of ethnic minorities. She also loves ancient towns, snow-capped mountains and grasslands. When you see her riding a white pony, galloping enthusiastically on the endless prairie. The blue sky, the soft and white clouds like wool, the endless green grassland, the hospitable herders and the free-roaming sheep, and the carefree experience on horseback have envied many people. Who knows that two or three years ago, in order to learn to ride a horse, she fell off her horse and caused serious harm to her body. Once again, when shooting and recording in the deep mountains, it was rainy and a landslide occurred in a small area of the mountain. At the critical moment, gay men saved their female colleagues in advance, which made Guoguo very moved.

Travelers also have their unknown feelings and love behind them, and sometimes they have to "break up, give up and leave" in order to travel. Sometimes it is common to meet two or three seasons a day, so I feel unwell and have frequent colds.

Now, through her own efforts, she can finally let her hobbies support her ambitions. Everyone can think that travel needs money and a back road. If you don't understand that people in these two aspects are already on the road, then those who continue to rely on poor travel are really asking for it. Fruit is not the person you think the tourism industry spends a lot of time hanging on a tree. Although she was on the road every day, before she got those auras, every trip was at her own expense. Because she is self-funded, she needs a stable supply of funds. Later, because of her love for ethnic minority clothes and her own love for buying such clothes, her close friend suggested that she could open her own clothing store. Later, this happened. She opened the first one, then the second one. Her shop has carefree staff to take care of it for her. She only collects money every month. Other times, she is more comfortable. Of course, she can consider traveling.

Every visit to her Weibo is a spiritual and visual enjoyment. She has a lively temperament and a beautiful mind, so she can write a lot of warm words. In my opinion, Guoguo is a very independent and powerful woman. When resting at home, she can cook several colorful dishes by herself. She said that a woman's happiness is not that you can't cook, but that you can't cook but you can.

So, not everyone is a vegetarian in your eyes. Although they won't tell you how hard they worked for their dreams and how much pain they suffered behind them, the fact is that only by learning to survive can their hearts go further.

Nowadays, young people's travel is nothing more than changing places, eating, sleeping and playing mobile phones. Then live up to those beautiful clothes, and finally put them on your body and took pictures to make yourself stand out. On the road, you will always see those donkey friends who are wearing sportswear, carrying travel bags, sweating all over, and there is no decoration or cover outside. The real meaning of travel is not to tell others "I have been here", but to change. Travel will change people's temperament and broaden their horizons. On the trip, you will see that different people have different habits, and then you will realize that not everyone lives in your way. In this way, people's minds will become broader, and we will face life with a better attitude.

Young people in their twenties, like me, like taking shortcuts. In fact, many people are highly imitated. Standing with the real ideal person, I feel less confident, calm and calm. ...

There is never a shortcut in life. Some people like to dress up as someone they like. Over time, one day they succeeded in deceiving themselves. Try hard before becoming an ideal person, and walk with your legs instead of your brain and heart. Just like Liu Tong's more than 20 million fans, he once wrote an article on the official WeChat account entitled "Those useless things you bought are your bets on the future". When reading, don't just listen to stories. Some people naturally don't say anything mean between the lines in order to suck powder, but you should learn to get dry goods from porridge. What he said was that he bought an expensive suit and watch a few years ago. In America, he bought a dozen black stockings and a shirt that was still expensive after the discount. He thinks that one day he will put them on the podium, and it is impossible to buy them for nothing. Later, he did participate in a meaningful award. Liu Tong is currently the vice president of Light Film and a young writer. All the words he has written in the past ten years are for himself. Nobody knows. Everyone came out of the shadows. When you solve your own survival problem, the ideal is naturally no longer a problem.

Don't be afraid that you can't put on the good clothes you bought. Be patient and concentrate on your work first, and don't rush to make high-quality imitations.

We often see some travelers traveling happily through the Internet and experiencing foreign life. They look radiant, carefree, simple and warm. If you observe patiently, most of them are people around 30 to 40 years old, and these people are mature and stable, and have certain experience conditions. Travelers must first endure loneliness and temper their minds.

They used to be bosses, presidents, gold collars, and some middle class. When they are tired of a life style, they have the ability to choose a simple life. In fact, the more they want simple people; The more quality is required in life, look at those houses with retro and simple home art, which refer to the same housing area. Interior design and decoration is about three times the price of ordinary houses.

Just kidding, look at those unmarried people who keep saying that it is good to find a simple person, but no one wants to accompany a casual person.

Only capable people have the right to choose life, and only single people who can live a quality life are not afraid of loneliness. If you have nothing, or even lead a careless life, you still have to choose and persist, and the result will naturally be subversion and displacement.

Now there is a most tasteful label called "literary youth". I only care about the person you like most, not the demon, not the depressed one.

No matter what one's hobbies and interests are, the difficulty of survival is the same. However, literary lovers often fantasize that if they can paint, read, drink afternoon tea, grow flowers, make tea, write, make handicrafts, travel and so on all the time, they can avoid those worldly troubles and be happy forever.

But it's impossible.

Unless you are born with money, or someone is willing to give you a lot of money to support you, or you are single and your family is open-minded.

In addition to these three situations, you should also consider the problems of making a living and supporting your family. The interpersonal pressure, pain, struggle and confusion that everyone has experienced must be experienced, and people can only grow up in this way.

The truth is always the opposite of what you think. In fact, if you can handle the affairs at hand efficiently and mature enough, your literary and artistic level will be greatly improved, and it will be improved in essence. Because the "internal force" of doing things: doing things effectively shows that emotional management, time management, crisis management, teamwork, project management, self-study ability, interpersonal relationship and so on have reached a certain level, that is, mental maturity. When the mind is mature, all aspects will be mature.

Immature but addicted to literature and art is actually a good excuse to escape from life. Even with superb construction ability and expression skills, what is expressed may be unbalanced, morbid and extreme, which is not conducive to people being themselves.

Then talk about survival methods:

The first nature is not to leave my present job to engage in literary and artistic creation, to improve myself through work, to release energy through creation, and to realize my ideals.

The second is to change to a job that can make money and I don't hate it too much, and engage in literary and artistic creation in my spare time. This may win your heart more than the first case. As long as you are lucky enough to ensure your income, work and amateur creation are likely to form a benign interaction, stimulate and promote each other, and you may also succeed in independent creation or other things you like.

The third is to resign directly to engage in creation or tourism. This situation requires people to have a skill first. And you have to be much better than your peers, or you won't have food. It's as simple as that. Many people who do things well after resigning have become top experts before resigning, which makes resignation a natural choice.

Another possibility is to do business by yourself. Doing business itself is very common, but it is a bit special for people who like literature and art, because people who are immersed in the pursuit of poetry and experience feelings are generally unwilling, disdainful, uninterested in doing business, and even have strong resistance, which is actually a psychological obstacle of self-destruction.