My boyfriend and buddy are out traveling, and I can understand why he didn't send me a message, but he doesn't even have time to talk sooner or later? We are only forty in love.

When two people are together, they should understand in many ways. You can't let your boyfriend contact you alone. If you take the initiative to contact your boyfriend every day and his boyfriend doesn't reply to you, it's his fault. You need to calm down and see where the gap is between you. It takes time to get used to liking someone.