Qiu Ze disclosed his relationship without discussing it with Zhang Junning. He didn’t even show basic respect. Do you still want to fall in love?

The incident between Qiu Ze and Zhang Junmi was Qiu Ze’s one-man show from beginning to end. He and Zhang Junmi met when they were filming the TV series "Detective Chinatown", and then they became separated from each other. Confessing to Zhang Junmi on Weibo does not count as an announcement of a relationship, but Qiu Ze shaves his head and picks up a man. Although the two of them were only related to one TV series, Qiu Ze did this without telling Zhang Junmi in advance that he was indeed disrespectful to Zhang Junmi. Zhang Junmi is worthy of having high emotional intelligence. She also responded to Qiu Ze through Weibo, but it was just a polite and distant response.

Mutual respect is the basis of love between two people. With this respect, two people can be on an equal footing. This kind of respect is not about telling the other person when you do something for the other person, nor is it just buying a lot of things for the other person, but listening carefully to the other person's thoughts. Love has always been about fulfillment, not possession. When we love someone, we will respect his every decision, be able to rationally analyze the other person's decision, and when we reach an agreement, we will spare no effort. To support the other person’s decision.

This kind of thing is actually just some small things in love, but it can give the other party enough respect. Mutual respect in love allows two people in love to understand themselves better. Because you give the other person respect, you can give the other person more personal space and allow the other person to become a better version of themselves. Among lovers, lack of respect will make it difficult for two people to move forward in love. Respect is the icing on the cake. When we like someone, we should like everything about that person. This is also a kind of respect. Because two people have different growth environments and life experiences, their world outlook, outlook on life and values ??are not exactly the same.

When couples face different views, respect can keep the relationship between the two people fresh. If a person wants to be with us, but cannot give us enough attention, then such a person must not be worthy of our love.