What do you think of "don't envy others, because what you see is only appearance"?

The head of the company's customer service department, who is young and beautiful, is a mother, and has Mercedes-Benz shuttle service all day. Every time she goes to the company, she will say how good her husband is, give him 52 and 1314 red envelopes, buy her aj, buy her a bag, and prepare to take her abroad for a trip, buy her a diamond ring, and so on. Whenever it comes to housework, she will always show how she and her husband are doing. Later, I learned that it was not her husband who was picked up by Mercedes-Benz, but her concubine. Her husband was riding a battery car all day, picking up the children to school, and she was learning a foreign language with her concubine at home because of her busy work.

The company has a vice president, a semi-old Xu Niang, who is somewhat attractive and does everything all day. One mouth is brand-name bags, brand-name shoes, what children go to aristocratic schools, travel abroad that day, how much jewelry they buy, and all their friends circle are high-end clubs and beauty salons. I thought she was beautiful and capable, and found a rich husband. It was not until her online gambling and misappropriation of public funds came to light that I learned that her husband was an ordinary worker, and the benefits in the factory were very bad. He was holding a salary of about 2, yuan and was crowded with his parents-in-law in a dilapidated community. I really admired this kind of person at that time.

There is a young guy in the company who drives a Volvo, giving people the impression that he never cares about money, having dinner all day, going in and out of various bars and nightclubs, with a dragon tattooed on his body, a big gold ring on his hand and a big gold chain around his neck, giving people the impression that he is a rich second generation. Of course, he himself said that he is a rich second generation. Later, I took a fancy to a beauty business in a disco and went to pay tribute all day. Finally, he took the public money to pay tribute, and the company lost more than 1, yuan in payment. The boss told his parents to come to the company. Only when he arrived at our company did he know that his parents were laid-off workers, one was a security guard, the other was a cleaning worker, and his mother cried her eyes out, telling us to pity them and let them pay back less. Later, I learned that Volvo was driving his friend.

The above are three real cases, so saying "Don't envy others, because what you see is all appearances" is an absolute truth in most cases. You can't see the truly happy or happy people, because they are enjoying life, not showing their false selves.

every family has its own problems, and everyone will be killed. The poor have the sufferings of the poor, and the rich have the troubles of the rich. The highest one is easy to work, and the lower one is easy to work. Even those who have unlimited scenery and happiness in front of them must have unknown sadness in their hearts. It is best to learn to be bold and strive for a good day.

Many people in life care about face. Once they fall in love with you, they will be reckless. When they see someone else buying a new car, 2, yuan or 3, yuan, they will be moved. How envious they are when they see someone else buying a new house. Have you actually considered your actual ability?

this phenomenon is the general wind, which can't stand the dazzling of others and can't control itself. I met many such friends and only regretted buying a house.

The salary of husband and wife is around 7, to 8,, with two children, a junior high school and a primary school. Maybe there is not much money for studying now, but the food expenses of the two children are more than 1,, and the house is about 2,5. There are also property management fees, water and electricity fees, parking fees, living expenses, etc. After all, the salary is almost exhausted, and I dare not spend it at ordinary times. It's not normal for children to see a doctor. It's really necessary to keep the family healthy and the husband and wife's work stable!

The smile on my friend's face used to be hard to see, and sometimes I joked that you are a city person now! He always said I was being sarcastic.

really don't envy others, because all you see is appearances!

"Don't envy others, because what you see is only appearances", which is true in reality.

Take a relative I once met as an example: how many people introduced the good local families, but she didn't care. She envied the superiority of urban families. After many years, I occasionally met her and sat at her house. Her family was a suburban farmer, but it was not much better than the husband's family introduced locally. She was still a housewife, and it was quite hard to take care of the children and cook for a nearby school student during the semester.

under the background of the times and the framework of the professional pattern, families and people are basically equal to the cultural quality differences between the rich and the poor in the region, but each has its own strengths and ways to survive; Everyone should stand on his own feet and learn from others' strengths, instead of just admiring the glamorous side of others and not understanding the real side of real life behind others.

And every normal person is confident and self-respecting, and always shows his glamorous side to others. However, the cover will not let people know that he is not "ugly". Only when he applies for relief from the government will he cry "bitterness and poverty", because no one will be kind enough to help you at ordinary times.

Learning from others' strengths can improve and make progress for yourself, while just admiring others can make people impetuous, lose self-confidence and self-weariness, and even breed "red eye" jealousy, which will become a negative side.

Therefore, I think the sentence "Don't envy others, because what you see is all appearances" is very reasonable, and as a high-quality question creator, every question is really high-quality and weighty.

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I quite agree with this sentence. There is a couple in our community who are inseparable all day. Every time they go out, they are women with men's arms slung over their shoulders, talking and laughing, which makes people look envious.

Although everyone doesn't know what their husband and wife do, they all look like intellectuals from the outside. They are tall and tall, with a slightly fat and handsome figure. The woman's long hair shawl, white skin and charming smiling eyes give people a gentle and innocent girl look.

Those of us who are on duty in the community, every time we watch them come out and go in, we should praise them and guess what they do.

When they asked where to pay the property management fee, Sister Chao asked, "Are you newly bought?" The man replied, "No, I just rented it." Looking at their far-away backs, Sister Chao said, "You see that the couple have such a good relationship, so I haven't seen anyone acting alone."

One day at noon, we were preparing to go home and cook when a 11 police car drove into the community. We thought it was a post inspector and stopped at once. I saw the police car driving all the way to the front of a building. In a short time, a slightly fat middle-aged woman and several men came out and got on the police car. Then the couple came out, only to see the woman crying and scolding the man for being heartless and not knowing how to protect herself.

It was several days before we realized that it was a fake couple. The man was married and the woman was a third party. The man was given six suites, one for his own family and five for rent. When he got rich, he found a divorced woman to rent a house and live a "husband and wife life". The wife at home searched for a long time before she found it here, and she took several brothers-in-law to "property".

who would have thought that the "sweet couple" whose appearance is very enviable turned out to be "the husband and wife who can't see the sun"?

So don't envy others. We can only see the most "glamorous" side of the appearance, and only ourselves know the pain, sadness and unhappiness hidden under the beautiful appearance.

There are many such people around me, wearing brand-name clothes and shoes and smoking good cigarettes! Do you really think how rich they are at first? After a long time of contact and understanding! Just know that it's not like that! Most people can pretend!

I have a small hair, almost as big as my brother, and I have a great virtue in doing business! The character is not good! When I was a child, I was particularly responsive to his kind of arrogance and arrogance. Once I stabbed me with a knife and ran away. After a long time, I thought it was okay! I can seize the opportunity. I don't wear much in summer. I take a triangle belt with small screws all over it.

I came to him quietly. When he found me, he wanted to run, but it was too late. Let me smoke and roll all over the floor and call mom! Don't be afraid to tease me anymore. Later, my wife and I also did business! Often together * * *! Really, this kind of ugly words is a beating! No memory! I still owe my mouth. Pretending to be rich outside, the average person can really be fooled by him. I know best how shameless he is!

When using money for business, go home and force his parents to lend him money, or lie on the ground and cry! You said that people who are married and have children are still like this, wearing suits and ties, like a rich man! I didn't even look him in the eye. Maybe God has eyes, but then the business lost, the house was sold, the wife was divorced, and people were down and out, and people were much more honest. Leave the children to their parents and hang out in the street all day! And no one wants to talk to him.

"Don't envy others, because all you see is appearances". It really is! The dazzling appearance of some people in real life is just the tip of the iceberg! This kind of person is really enviable! Most of us don't know the story in their secret corner!

truly rich people keep a low profile! For example, the boss of my company, whose family business is several hundred million, dresses casually and throws it into the crowd like a big brother in the countryside! No car, very ordinary and low-key person. When we were together, many people thought I was the boss! There are many advantages over him in appearance! But I don't have the ability! His success is an opportunity and vision! When many people didn't know about the business opportunities, he started to do it long ago. I especially admire him. He is a very just and good person and appreciates my ability. He gave me one of his stores to do! But I refused to do it! There are many factors!

called me many times and wanted to talk to me! I sent my lieutenants to find me, but I refused. Many people think I am awesome! I'm jealous, too. I don't like to get involved in his business! Then I found an excuse to resign. When I first met him a few years ago, I also asked him how his business was. Also understand some problems! Then I told him: If I were you! Rent out the whole shopping mall, with an annual rent of about 1 million, and then concentrate on one career! Because he also has restaurants, hotels and mines outside. It really exhausted him physically and mentally! Plus the people under his command are not loyal! I can see this clearly!

The year before last, the boss probably figured it out and really did as I said, renting out all five-story shopping malls. Makes me feel very happy! Call me for a drink! I said busy, no time. Once I met his vice president and told me: You really lose face, which made the boss angry with us. Now you can see that the boss has stopped doing this business and runs restaurants, hotels and mines! I often talk about you and hope you can come back. I can only say some polite words! Now that I'm retired, my life is quite casual and free, and I don't want to be so worried and tired! Then the vice president asked for my phone number! Contact often in the future!

I never contacted them again! Even if you don't answer the phone, you can't tell why. Maybe it's my unique and special personality. No wonder my female colleagues in the company used to say that I was like a ghost, and I came and went in a mysterious hurry! I am really like this in my life, and I like to be alone! Some friends haven't contacted for a long time! Makes people wonder? But I live happily! Let's not envy everyone, being the best of ourselves is far more important than anything else, and what we see in life is not true!

I have a friend, a fair-skinned and beautiful woman with long legs.

I have good taste in clothes. My bag on my back and shoes on my feet are not cheap goods. I drive nearly 2, private cars. My makeup is exquisite, my life is petty, and I am generous, giving people the impression that I am quiet, happy and well-off.

however, in order to start a business, she sold her pre-marital house and failed to start a business. She not only lost all the money for buying a house, but also lost her savings at home.

My husband was dissatisfied because he lost money at home, which led to cold violence for nearly 2 years.

Now, when I go out to work, my income is not high. Although my income is not high, it is impossible to save. Take the motto "Women should be kind to themselves".

Never take a taxi if you can drive, never take the subway if you can take a taxi, never take the bus if you can take the subway, and never walk if you can take the bus.

I earn money and spend it myself, which is basically moonlight, regardless of family expenses, which further leads to the dissatisfaction of my husband and mother-in-law. My husband has always wanted a divorce, but she has no confidence to divorce, so let's wait and see.

A woman who is almost 4 years old plays a good hand with her strength.

Many colleagues in the company only see her glamour and envy her. Only a few people know that her life is really full of holes.

It is really a response to this sentence: Don't envy others, because what you see is only the appearance and the taste, and only you know it. [Cover your face]

People envy you because others have it and they don't.

In our eyes, those who envy us live well, at least better than us.

when we look at other people's lives, we always see what we can and can't see, which may be true.

I have a friend whose husband is very capable. Many years ago, he was paid the annual salary, and his salary card was also given to his friend.

my friend's husband works in other places and rarely comes back several times a year. My friend's life is very leisurely. She doesn't go to work, so the children have nothing to do after school. Generally, I go to practice yoga in the morning, take a nap at noon, go shopping or have a beauty in the afternoon, and basically have dinner, drink tea and play mahjong at night.

Many women envy their friends' lives, but I know that their friends are not happy.

My friend and her husband live in two circles. She wants a divorce, but her husband disagrees for many reasons.

My friend longed for love, and then she had a lover. But this sneaky love is not what she wants. What she wants is the warmth of home.

once, my friend told me that she envied me for being busy and full every day.

what my friend said surprised me a little. At that time, I was tired into a dog every day, and I often left without talking to them. I also envied her ease and comfort, but I didn't expect her to envy me.

From that time on, I realized that it is not easy for everyone to live, so I seldom envy others in the future.

Later, after meeting more people and things, I felt it was redundant to envy others. Behind the glamour of many people is the bitterness and helplessness that is not enough for outsiders.

don't envy others, maybe what you envy is just an illusion. Or perhaps, others are envious of you and your illusion.

(The picture is from the Internet, please contact and delete it if you feel uncomfortable) Tell me an example of a friend around you. She earns about 5, yuan a month, is a proper career woman, and has free working hours! I was envious to death! But after really understanding her working state and life, I really should have said that: Don't envy other people's lives casually, what you see is really appearance!