Chapter 1141 Doing homework, too much, no time to play

When I saw the homework for the first time yesterday, I closed my eyes on purpose and didn’t want to read it. I felt like I wanted to vomit in my chest and felt dizzy. My first reaction was, So much homework! ! !

Recently, I watched our young children sitting from 8 a.m. to about 4 a.m. after school. Although there are also physical education classes and manual activity classes, I feel that it is still quite hard, even if they just play for a day. The game is also played day after day, which is quite tiring. The class I teach has been studying for more than two months, and parents have already asked for leave to take them on trips.

When I look at Tutu, I get up at about 7 o'clock, sit down until about 4 o'clock, and go to bed at 9 o'clock in the evening, sometimes at 10.11 o'clock. Moreover, in order to take into account the time of part-time primary school teachers, their cultural classes are all arranged on one day, so the two days when there are cultural classes are even harder.

When she got home from get off work, Tutu had already eaten and said that she had read the story and grandma recorded the video.

I feel sad... I think it is really not easy for little people. From playing in kindergarten every day to having to do homework every day, it is really difficult to adapt. If this continues, I will be very resistant to doing homework and hate going to elementary school. I told a primary school teacher before that she, too, asked me why there are so many homeworks for the transition from early childhood to primary school. I just need to sit down properly, hold the pen properly, go to bed early and get up early, and just learn Pinyin! How can I go to elementary school after studying so much and doing so much? Let alone study in the future.

I think this is the case. Nowadays, we follow the rhythm of primary school classes. By primary school, we are tired, have no freshness, and no curiosity.

With my own empathy and painstaking projection, I said nothing more.

When we got home, Tutu said, I want to eat something, I want to pour a drink, and then we sit down.

Tutu took out the first assignment, Pinyin, a book, a piece of test paper, and copied three lines.

After I finished writing, I said, is there anything more? I said, Tutu, what class did you take today? Recall it. It’s not easy to miss it in the order of the classes. Give it a try.

Tutu recalled that she had 5 classes today. The first class was Pinyin, and then there was ancient poetry. I have already read the ancient poetry.

I said, OK, I have read the ancient poem and put it here. What lesson is next?

Tutu thought for a while and said, next is mathematics.

Then he took out the math book, and the teacher circled the place where he had made up the work before, which meant that the words were not written well, some were big and some were small. Indeed, Tutu didn’t want to write at that time, although the answer That's right, but the words are deliberately made super big or super small. Then erased and re-wrote.

Tutu became irritated and said, why do we need to rewrite it? It’s all right.

I said, why do you think the teacher asked you to rewrite it? You see, why don’t you rewrite it here?

Tutu looked at it and said softly, "It's too big, this one is too small."

Then erase and write again.

I said, look, your numbers are so good. Look at this, your numbers are so good! Are these written randomly?

Tutu said, Mom, look at how I write. (Proud)

Mathematics took 30-40 minutes to do. In fact, the content is not very special. If you do it normally, you can definitely finish it in 15 minutes. But he went to have a drink and went to the toilet three times. , pick up the toy, hold it up if it falls, etc.

Later, when I finally finished it, Tutu said, why haven’t I finished it yet... I’m too tired.

I said, yes, it’s not finished yet! I feel tired too.

You just said that you have learned Pinyin, ancient poetry, and mathematics. Are there any more?

Tutu weakly opened her schoolbag, took out her oral composition, and started reading and literacy. Open the pencil case and say, oh, now is the time to read.

He said that this should be read three times. You get it for me and I'll read it.

I held it for him without saying anything, and he read it by himself, three times, and then two more times~

Later, when I opened the oral composition, he said, Mom, I want you to write this. Yes, I said, OK, I will collect the clothes and put them here for recording. You can tell by looking at the pictures.

He said it himself. After more than 1 minute, I finished talking. I'll write it to him later. I said, Tutu, you are right! ! These words are used very appropriately! I read your words, not the pictures, and I think your story is very interesting!

Tutu was very happy.

Later I asked, is there any more?

Tutu said, I had 5 classes today and I have finished them! There are no other classes.

The teacher had sent the article I opened to read, but he said no. I deliberately ask, do you want to read this article? Looks like fun! The tadpole looks for its mother.

Tutu said, no need to read it~~ I don’t want to read it.

Later, I took a look at his schoolbag, and there was a math test paper that he didn’t take out and didn’t see. I directly took it out and said, here is a test paper, didn't you see it?

Tutu ignored me and had already gone to watch TV.

I asked him, do you want to do it now or after taking a shower?

Tutu didn’t even look at me and said softly, “I’ll do it after taking a shower.”

I just did my homework. I recorded the time for each item, 1 minute, 3 minutes, 2 minutes, and 5 minutes. Finally, I said, Tutu, you can press the computer button. Look, how long have you been using it? Guess how long it took you?

Tutu said, it took me 100 minutes! !

I said, really? Just do the math and you'll know.

Then he did the math. Except for mathematics, it only took 20 minutes, and it took 55 minutes before and after mathematics. Total ***75 minutes.

After using it, he took a shower and entered the room. He reluctantly came in with the test paper, and was fussing over it, but he just didn’t want to do it. In fact, it’s just 4 pictures, broken down into a few numbers, and it only takes 10 minutes to do it properly.

He said, I can’t understand the picture~

I said, should I look at it with you?

I looked at the four pictures. To be honest, I am not sure about the following two pictures. I said, I can’t understand it either~~~What does this mean? Here are a few. What does this big symbol mean? What do you write here?

Tutu said, the hair brackets here are +, there are so many of them.

I said, is that what you mean? How many people are there in total here?

He counted carefully. Then he quickly made the two pictures above and the two pictures below. Finally, he decided to ask the teacher. I listened to the pronunciation for Tutu. After listening to it a few times, he was able to do it.

After finally going to bed, I said, I have no time to read today. Go to sleep.

Tutu was unwilling, unhappy, angry, irritable, and powerless. He punched the pillow several times. I knew he was extremely irritable.

He said angrily, with so much homework, I don’t have time to play or read. I hate homework! ! !

Seeing him like this and saying these words, I felt a little relieved.

I said gently, tell me, tell me your irritability and anger. Mom can feel that you are very unhappy.

Tutu burst into tears and said, I am so angry! ! I'm going to get a gun!

I said, I know, you are so angry that you want to take a gun, but you know that this is too terrible. When your mother sees that you don’t do this, you beat the pillow.

He is still very irritable and wants to read.

I said, you go to the toilet and let’s chat.

He went immediately.

Lie down and turn off the light. I said, Tutu, do you remember that you just finished your homework and we counted the time spent doing it? Except for math, you finished all the pinyin, composition, word recognition, and story assignments in 20 minutes! Great, quick and well done! You did the math later for 55 minutes~~Isn’t it a long time?~~

Tutu is right, it’s been so long that I don’t even have time to play or read~~

I said, yes, you have been doing math homework for so long, and you still want to play. Let's think about it. We have been doing homework for the past 75 minutes, or can we reduce some time? Let's think about it.

Tutu said that there is no need to do the big and small numbers.

Which one am I talking about?

He said that it was the number that was written very big at once and very small at once, the same thing he did last time!

I said, oh, yes, yes! ! ! The last time I wrote it, it was too big and too small, so it took 5 minutes to erase, and another 10 minutes to write again. It took an extra 15 minutes here, and 75-15. Originally, there was only 60 minutes of homework. Any more? What other things are done and wiped, wiped and done again?

Tutu said, I wrote a line for the pinyin s, but I didn’t write it according to the book. I wrote it again, big and small.

I said, you have a really good memory... Yes, it only takes you 1 minute to write a line here, 1 minute to erase, another 2 minutes to write again, and there are 3 more minutes here. Just 60 minutes - 3 minutes = 57 minutes. Any more?

Tutu said, no more.

I said, do you remember what little movements you made when you left your seat when you were doing your homework?

Slowly he recalled it in bits and pieces.

I repeat, you remember when you were doing your homework, you peed twice, defecated once, poured drinks twice, and picked up toys five times. When the little person fell, you helped him again and again. 2 times, the car fell to the ground. Did you keep it there for a long time? ...

I asked him slowly, hoping to let him see the process.

Tutu nodded silently.

I said, do these actions take time? Mom just recorded it, you spent almost 25 minutes on this, so 57-25=32 minutes. In fact, it didn’t take you 75 minutes to do your homework, but 32 minutes. It’s only 30 minutes~~~

Tutu was pleasantly surprised~~

I said it took you 75 minutes to do your homework tonight, but in fact it took 30 minutes to actually do your homework. , that is, 75-30=45, and you are not doing homework for 45 minutes.

But are you happy during these 45 minutes? You hold a toy, go to the toilet, drink drinks, and get things. If you use these 45 minutes to have fun, watch TV, and read books, you can watch 4 episodes of TV, read 3 books, and eat a bucket of KFC!

Tutu became even more excited~~~

I said, but, are we going to spend these 45 minutes watching TV, playing with toys, and eating good food? None...although you also ate, drank, and touched toys during the process. But do you feel happy? Is it enjoyable?

Tutu shook her head silently~~~

I said, I really like it. Yesterday, you did all your homework at grandma’s house. The three of us got off work and school. Your own home, happy, comfortable, relaxed and happy.

Dad happily bought us food, and I was very comfortable watching TV. You were eating, building blocks, and watching TV at the same time~~~ It was so enjoyable! ! Do you like this feeling?

Tutu started to open. Balabala talked about what happened yesterday~~~ and let me talk about this feeling again...

That's it, in the end I said, homework is not Purpose, our goal is to see the bigger world, eat a lot of delicious food, want more fun, and experience various differences~~Discover your unlimited potential in the process of these actions! ! …………We were late last time and were not energetic in class the next day. Now you do your homework as soon as you come back. This is an adjustment! It’s so good~~~ We forgot to do some homework before, and then we had to make up for it. It took a long time. This is also an adjustment! ! You worked very hard on your homework today, you knew very well that you had to do them all, and you basically did it in one minute and two minutes! No need to re-do it, no need to do it for a long time! ! Mom, I believe in you. We will continue to see our infinite possibilities from homework! ! Mom will always support you! Let you know that you can do it quickly, well and easily~~~