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What kind of experience is it to travel with the opposite sex?

There will always be some different experiences in life, and I don't know if my communication skills are not good, and the opposite sex is more common. Seeing this problem, it seems that there are only a handful of opportunities to travel with the opposite sex. Many years ago, I simply went to the hometown of a heterosexual netizen. Later, I went out with her and her two female classmates, three men and one woman. What will happen in the future?

If you are interested, please take your time and listen to me slowly:

My friend of the opposite sex should be said to be a net friend. We have only met once before. I met him when I was attending an activity, and later I added an instant chat tool. In fact, this chat tool was actually added by this female netizen. I just added it casually and didn't think anything.

I, a netizen, come from a mountainous area in Guangxi. I first met her when I was working in the city where I live. Since I added the online chat tool, I usually ramble on the Internet and chat with friends all over the world, so I seldom take the initiative to find a topic to chat.

Until one day, this netizen suddenly invited me to her house to play. I didn't know what to think at the time. Anyway, my job is very free, I usually go out to play more, and I prefer to go out to play and travel. I heard her say that her hometown is beautiful, and the mountains and rivers in Guangxi are the best in the world. I like to travel around the mountains and waters best. In order to invite me, she repeatedly said that a kind of wild fruit in their hometown was ripe and could be picked, which would definitely interest me.

I agreed to her invitation. At that time, there was no high-speed train, only the shuttle bus reached her hometown. After the bumps of the bus, it was still morning when she arrived at her hometown. She drives a women's motorcycle herself and waits for me directly at the place where I get off. Then she dragged me to a place with mountains and water by motorcycle. It turns out that she and her brothers and sisters are catching fish here.

They only let me watch it on the shore, then they fished with nets together and finally caught a lot of fish. This is their villager's fish pond. After the fishing was cleaned up, they continued to drive me back to her house by motorcycle. Here, I have to admire the paper of my sister in Guangxi. Driving a motorcycle on a country road can still fly. Anyway, I feel fast and have hugged her on her back several times.

I was surprised when I arrived at her home. It turned out that it was her birthday. What a surprise. They went fishing to cook raw fish. Everyone may have heard of sashimi in Guangxi. Maybe the raw fish you see is the kind that is cut into thin slices and crystal clear, but that's not what they eat here. Their family's practice belongs to what we call "fish buckle", which is equivalent to the way of fish buckle, that is, raw fish is sliced and eaten with various ingredients.

Her two sisters, probably trying to play a prank, specially brought me a bowl of raw fish, which was full of me. They think I'm afraid to eat it. Who knows I killed a bowl directly, and then I added two bowls of raw fish, so I stopped. They all appreciate it.

I don't know that I usually eat raw fish many times, and this little problem won't bother me. It's just that it's the first time for me to eat this kind of raw fish. To tell the truth, it's still that kind of sashimi. It's delicious.

When I finished eating raw fish, it was already noon and the weather was just right. I mentioned what she said about wild fruit. According to her, there are many wild fruits on the mountain, and I'm curious.

So she called her two sisters and two motorcycles, and she continued to ride me to the mountains. I can't tell the direction anyway. At that time, there was no smart phone, and there was no navigation and positioning on the phone. Anyway, I am a big man who is not afraid of getting lost. A girl took me for a ride on a motorcycle on a country road. That's cool, that's cool!

After driving for about half an hour, I arrived at the mountain and saw wild fruits all over the mountain. I didn't know what wild fruit it was at that time. It was Myrtle, also called Xunzi. The mountain here in Guangxi is not high, and you can drive a motorcycle halfway up the mountain.

They parked the motorcycle, gave me a bag, and then a man and three women went into the grass.

Don't get me wrong, drilling grass is just for picking seeds. Compared with these seeds, these seeds are overgrown with weeds. If you want to pick them, you have to drill into them. It's only been half an hour, and their bags are still light, so I don't have to choose. I walked behind them with a heavy bag on my back, and I could only watch them pick it, because they felt a little heavy when picking it, so I had to follow them with a big bag of wild fruits on my back, and it was actually quite happy to watch them twitter in the grass.

By the time the sun went down, I had put a bag full of dice on the motorcycle and picked another bag at the back. Finally, I couldn't carry it anymore. I reluctantly went down the mountain and began to go home.

When I got home, I found an embarrassing problem. I was going to stay in a hotel, because I heard that her family is also from the same town. I asked her before I came, but I found that I was cheated. There are no hotels and inns in the town, and there is no car to return at this time. If you want to leave, there will be only one car and one trip the next afternoon. If you miss it, wait for another day.

Well, I couldn't sleep that night. Finally, she arranged for two older sisters to live with her, three men and one woman, to sleep in their big house. Rural people's houses are relatively large, and they can sleep with a few mats on the ground. Very cool. I am a man, so to speak, I went out for a day with the opposite sex for the first time and continued to sleep in the same room with the opposite sex. Once I was three members of the opposite sex, which kept me awake all night.

At that time, I was not married and was on a business trip with a female colleague. She is single, too. Although I didn't know her very well before, I still feel very special in a strange place.

That business trip was to attend a training. On the weekend, my female colleague invited me to climb the mountain, and I was scheduled to stay on the mountain for one night and watch the sunrise the next morning. I accepted it gladly.

When climbing the mountain, because she was a little girl, I took special care of her and held her hand all the way. At the beginning of holding hands, both of them are particularly embarrassed, but they always pull together unconsciously.

Occasionally, I see couples climbing mountains kissing me together. My female colleagues and I feel embarrassed, but I envy them in my heart. Female colleagues always seem to deliberately avoid those couples.

Later, I went to the hotel on the top of the mountain. The business of the hotel was very hot, leaving only one big bed room. We are not lovers, so it is inevitable that we will feel embarrassed to live in a big bed room.

I asked my female colleague what to do, and she bowed her head shyly. I am helpless, but there is no other way. It's getting late, so I can only make do for one night.

That night I slept on the floor, she slept on the bed, and neither of us took a shower. Both of them seem to have stayed up all night. I may be a little excited, but she may be more scared.

When we got up in the morning to watch the sunrise, we were all excited at the top of the mountain, but it was a little cold. I took off my coat and hugged her gently. I felt that she was gentle as water.

Then we fell in love, and then we got married. Ten years later, we took our children to that city and went to the mountains to watch the sunrise. The past scenes came to mind, and it felt really beautiful at that time.

I'm Yao Yan, thank you for reading.

At that time, the traffic was inconvenient, there was no through train, so I had to drive by myself. A female friend asked me to take her with me, but I didn't agree, because I didn't know her very well and just met her. Although she was beautiful, pure and lovely, I later told him that this was his cousin, who had just been lovelorn and wanted to have fun. I have to agree.

The next morning, I ignored her all the way because she was so beautiful that I couldn't stand it. I drove, and soon it was night. I parked my car in the open space next to the national highway, took out dry food and water to eat, and slowly fell asleep. A cry woke me up. I turned around and saw her crying. I am embarrassed to ask her for forgiveness. She said she could forgive, but she was bitten by a mosquito and itched. She said she would tell her cousin that I bullied her, so I had to take out toilet water and touch her in the back seat of the car. I feel my heart beat faster, my whole body is hot and my lower body is hard. I rudely tore off her clothes and bra, and she hugged me and groaned. Afterwards, I promised to marry her. We had sex a dozen times on the trip. When we came back, we met the next day to get the certificate, but I sent her to her door.

I have always felt that the key to traveling is not where to go, but who to go with.

Choose like-minded and consistent companions when traveling. If you meet a traveling companion with different views, you will ruin a trip.

The number of trips with the opposite sex is very limited. Once, four of our colleagues traveled to Xi together. One of them is a new male colleague in the unit, and the other three are all girls.

Traveling abroad is mainly about eating, living and traveling. In order to reduce the cost disputes, before departure, each of us paid 1000 yuan and gave it to Xiao X. He is the small accountant of our trip and is responsible for keeping funds and keeping accounts. Wait for the final share of AA, refund more and make up less.

Because there is only one male colleague, he lives alone in a single room. We didn't care too much about the cost of an AA. Before we set out from our residence the next day, considering that the price of the scenic spot would be higher, we planned to buy some mineral water and bread near our residence and put them in Xiao X's backpack. We three girls each had a bottle of mineral water, and Xiao A took two bottles of coke for herself, naturally put them in Xiao X's backpack, and then put our hands in their pockets, so we walked in front very smartly. We couldn't get over it and said half jokingly, "Little A, you are the only man. Can't you carry this backpack? "

The little one was surprised and said, "huh?" Then I won't put it inside. " So I took out the two bottles of coke and held them in my hand. I walked in front by myself, which made us dumbfounded.

So the three of us took turns carrying backpacks. After climbing to the top of the mountain, we found a flat stone and took bread and mineral water out of our backpacks to pad our stomachs. At this time, Xiao Ah casually came over, picked up bread and mineral water to eat, and even said euphemistically, "I'll give you some, so you should recite less."

During that trip, I choked on internal injuries many times. So when you come back, everyone will not take a small A when they go out to play, so it is very important to choose the right traveling companion.

I once met a woman, and neither of us was single, as I'm sure you know, and then we chatted very well, so we talked often and gradually got to know each other.

One day, I wanted to go out alone for fun, and then I told her. Without saying anything, she said come with me, and then we went out by high-speed train. After all, this is an interesting trip to Chengdu. I went for three days and two nights, and I only opened one room when I stayed at night, you know.

I am very happy with the couple who have been in love for three days. In a strange environment, I forgot everything but you and me. Relaxation does not mean indulgence. After coming back, all my life is back on track!

Just playing and eating is comfortable!

At the beginning of 20 12, I went climbing. I agreed with her two couples to stay in the mountain for one night and watch the sunrise the next morning.

I opened three big beds at night, and then slept with her. In the process, she will reach out and hug me. I have been sleeping with my back to her and dare not turn over, so I almost didn't sleep all night.

When I got up at four o'clock the next morning to watch the sunrise, she gave me a gentle hug, as if giving me courage, and then took her hand all the way down the mountain.

Today, our child has been born for ten days.

I feel very tangled, I don't know what's wrong.

Hello, everyone, I'm the captain who took you to China, an entrepreneur engaged in self-media. If you like traveling, you can pay attention to me. Seeing this problem, I thought of going to Mangshan National Forest Park with my friends during the May Day holiday on 20 17. First of all, let me introduce Mangshan National Forest Park to you. Mangshan National Forest Park is located in the northeast of Changping County, Beijing, east of the Ming Tombs Reservoir Dam, 40 kilometers away from Beijing, with a forest area of 6700 hectares and a forest coverage rate of over 86%, so it is also called the Ming Tombs Forest Farm. Mangshan Forest Park, with the highest peak of 659 meters, has 1.3 million mu of artificial forest and 1.76 kinds of trees and flowers, which are lush all year round and beautiful in all seasons. It is the largest national forest park in Beijing. In addition to the vast natural forest vegetation landscape, there are four unique wonders in the park.

A friend made an appointment with a sister who was afraid of Mangshan Mountain. However, my sister took two friends, and my friend asked me to climb the Mangshan Mountain together. At about 9 am, we decided to meet at the subway station. Around 9: 30, we all got on the subway. Because Mangshan Forest Park is far away, we first took the subway, then changed to a bus, got off and walked for about 2 kilometers before arriving at Beijing Mangshan National Forest Park.

When we entered Mangshan, it happened that Mangshan was holding the first Dutch windmill festival in Jinyu Mangshan. Let's show you some photos. Is this windmill beautiful?

Seeing such a beautiful windmill, girls must take pictures. When I take pictures of them, I always can't take them well (I didn't do it from the media at that time, and my photography skills were not good). I took a lot of photos, and finally some of them were satisfactory. After taking pictures here, we went to see the Maitreya Buddha. There are stone statues of the 12 Zodiacs next to the Buddha statue, which are very vivid and lifelike.

After seeing several scenic spots, we began to climb the mountain. It was May Day holiday, and there were many people. Some people come to visit the park, while others come here to watch the windmill festival. Mangshan National Forest Park has a large forest area and lush trees on the mountain. Let's have a look.

There are generally two situations when traveling with the opposite sex.

One is special stimulation.

One is particularly inconvenient.

Let's start with the first kind that is particularly exciting.

The subject asked about traveling with the opposite sex.

Obviously, the relationship is definitely not a girlfriend.

So you probably have a crush on girls.

Most people hope that this trip will be fruitful.

Frankly speaking, whether the relationship between two people is confirmed or further developed.

In other words, the lowest level is confession.

Then there are two possibilities.

Confession success and confession failure

If the confession is successful, you will be happy all the way.

Are you happy? Is it stinging and exciting?

Confess failure, depressed and disappointed all the way.

Surprising? Unexpected?

So you say this situation, stinging or not?

Besides, the second situation is particularly inconvenient.

This is relatively simple.

There will be many inconsistencies between two people of the same sex.

What's more, two people are opposite sex.

There will be some physiological differences.

Dietary difference

Physical differences

Aesthetic differences

Differences between likes and dislikes

Therefore, there will be a lot of inconvenience!

First, if you are a boy, you may need to take some responsibility when traveling, because for many girls, it is very tiring to carry luggage upstairs and downstairs. So boys may need to make such preparations, which will be more difficult. At the same time, boys may take the initiative to strike up a conversation. Of course, it has something to do with everyone's personality.

Secondly, if you are a girl, you will often be taken care of by boys during your trip, such as the luggage mentioned above. But at the same time, there will be embarrassing and awkward feelings, because girls are still shy, sometimes embarrassed to express their views, but they will be more careful.

To sum up, whether boys or girls travel together, everyone will be taken care of and have their own responsibilities. And especially in the process of traveling, impressions are very important, and the experience is naturally very different. I hope that if there is such an opportunity, you should learn to experience life. Have you ever traveled with the opposite sex?

Traveling with the opposite sex you don't hate, even if it's not the kind you like, is beautiful enough. Of course, strangers seem more interesting, people don't understand, the scenery is unknown, and the areas to be developed are definitely more attractive. With men and women you don't know, there is enough space for you to imagine. On the one hand, you are reserved, on the other hand, you want to know how to get excited, not to mention the natural beauty you have never enjoyed. If the opposite sex is a family member, there is definitely no room for a better experience than the unfamiliar opposite sex. Strangers of the opposite sex may get an electric shock when holding hands, and you can feel it without the author's words. And we were intimate all the way, even very much in love, eating and driving together, and there were countless subtle feelings. Especially at night, how to live? Two rooms or one room? Full of infinite reverie. There are so many rich contents that you can only understand them after experience. Make an appointment while you are still young, and leave some good memories with your youth.