Your loneliness, though defeated, is glorious.

I firmly believe that you are very lucky to meet a shining person in your short life. You have regarded loving him as a belief, working hard for him, and life is not lonely at all. This kind of youth really has no regrets. The following is your loneliness, although it is glorious after reading it, for your appreciation.

Your loneliness, though defeated, is glorious. Have you seen it on the Internet from time to time recently? Your loneliness, though defeated, is glorious? At first, I just thought these eight words were interesting. On the surface, it is sending us a message: even if you have no friends, no love and no home to rest in peace, you should be proud of your loneliness!

Later, I read more words like this, and found that these words are eight penetrating words, which can reflect the emptiness and loneliness in people's hearts, hit people's wandering souls, and make people feel the call called loneliness from afar in the dead of night.

I am used to squeezing the subway to work every day, standing in a long line, walking shoulder to shoulder in the crowd, watching those office workers who are easily agitated because of crowding and impatience, and being careful every step, for fear that accidentally stepping on strangers' feet will attract a scolding.

Sometimes, I can't help asking myself: What makes tolerant and kind people get angry so easily? What makes sociable people feel lonely in downtown?

Is it the fast pace of this city? Did iPhone and ipad take away our fragmented time? Are you afraid that people have ulterior motives and refuse to get along with others? Is it for money or profit? Seek advantages and avoid disadvantages? Must choose?

Where does our loneliness come from? What makes us lonely? Why do people choose to accept rather than refuse when loneliness first appears? In the face of loneliness, should people be removed bit by bit, or should they continue to be sealed and protected?

No matter why it came into being, when it first approached people, people did not choose to kill it in the cradle, but accepted it and gave it some reasons for existence. Only when the root of loneliness spreads to people's hearts can it be found that it is too late, because it has enslaved the human soul.

I can deeply feel that loneliness is a terrible thing. When it surges, it is useless to resist it, but it will make you feel more empty and afraid.

So I usually set a fixed timetable for myself, when to work, when to relax and when to play.

Take a book with you and put it in your schoolbag, desk and pillow? Don't limit the types of books, because reading different books can bring different experiences and horizons. When you can slowly absorb the essence of different authors' thoughts, your mind will open.

Of course, you should rest on time when you should, because people who can't rest can't work. This is what my uncle told me.

Although loneliness is terrible, it is always fascinating, and even because of its existence, it has created those extraordinary people in the lonely group.

"Maybe you are still working alone, taking the subway, going upstairs, eating, sleeping and staring blankly. However, you can get off work alone, take the subway alone, go upstairs alone, eat alone, sleep alone and be in a daze alone. Many people leave another person and lose themselves. You spent all this alone. ?

I first saw this passage on the Weibo in Liu Tong. As the most influential young leader at present, his words can always easily penetrate into people's hearts and point to the depths of people's souls.

? Maybe you are still working alone, taking the subway alone, going upstairs alone, eating alone, sleeping alone, in a daze? This is in line with the real life of young people in today's cities!

How many young and energetic young people shuttle through the sea of people in the imperial city every day, and their steps are always in a hurry. They didn't have time to take a look at what people passing by looked like and what clothes they were wearing, so they rushed to the next destination. But the more busy people on the surface, the more unstoppable loneliness.

Fortunately, you can get off work alone, take the subway alone, go upstairs alone, eat alone, sleep alone and be in a daze. Because before you meet the right person, you choose to face life with a lonely smile, instead of just choosing one person to accompany you, and two people will bear the different suffering brought by loneliness together!

I have always believed that there is nothing wrong with being single. At least before meeting the right person, it's better to be single than to hang out with two unsuitable people. It's better to stick to the vows of eternal love between two people and not want to get through it. It's better to be suspicious of each other and blame each other. It's better to be because two people who could have become friends eventually hate each other.

In fact, everyone can say goodbye to loneliness for a while, but they don't have to find someone to live with, let alone someone who will leave you one day.

You can try to get out of the dormitory, go to the community to see the children laughing and playing, see the puppy lying in the middle of the square, see the old man playing chess seriously, see the vendors selling watermelons and cherries on the overpass, see the security guards who abide by their duties in the subway, and see the pedestrians taking pictures with cameras everywhere?

Sometimes I feel that the development of the Internet not only does not liberate the lonely soul of human beings, but also encourages people's closed psychology.

People are immersed in the virtual community, leaving messages and chatting with all kinds of anonymous people, thinking that they have gained the role of power and the right to speak in the network society. In fact, when they return to reality again and face the living crowd, they are still full of indifference and estrangement.

Sometimes, girls will regard the love on the screen as emotional sustenance, and pin the emotional imperfection in reality on the perfect affection of the screen hero. Some people even have such unwilling questions: Why am I like the heroine, who is obviously Cinderella, but I haven't met such a prince?

Not every boy can be an heir? Kim sighs? Not every girl can see Lee MinHo in her life, and not every woman can handle her tenderness? Do Min Joon? The only thing we can do is to resist those loneliness with love. One day, when love really comes, we may be moved by ourselves: my loneliness, although defeated, is glorious!

Youth is so precious that it is fleeting. If you can't wait for that person in the colorful years, why not leave a waiting place for each other in your heart?

Use your wisdom, enthusiasm and kindness to work hard, study hard, be kind to others, contribute a little kindness to this society, and spare no effort for your dreams.

When you can treat life and everyone around you with the most passionate love, you will no longer feel lonely. I believe that when you can face your singleness with a normal heart, one day, the right person will come to you through the sea of people.

At that time, you will sincerely sigh: my loneliness, although defeated, is glorious!

Your loneliness, though defeated, is glorious. After reading it, I feel that the train is at 8 o'clock in the evening, and I will wait with you at 6: 30. The bustling railway station is full of people. People with suitcases are in a hurry, or servants are dusty, and I don't know whether to go home or pass by. You say, let's eat vanilla ice cream again. If we want to leave, we will put the wonderful memories here in the suitcase, open them silently when we miss them, and there will be a sweet vanilla flavor on our lips. Yes, leaving is to do what you like again, so that there will be no regrets, so that there will be no regrets. The train has also started to check in. Looking at you, dragging a big box, walking in the crowd, is so lonely and powerless, my heart can not help but be sour. I know I'll be alone as soon as you leave, and I don't know when I can meet you. I hope that when we meet again, you and he will have achieved a positive result and be full of happiness.

Walking alone on a cold road, something called loneliness separates me from the busy crowd. I can't hear their laughter or touch their happiness. I walked like a walking corpse, numb. Originally, I was so afraid of loneliness. As soon as you left, I completely collapsed, and loneliness always accompanied me. A person goes to work, a person eats, a person cleans, and a person fights alone.

After reading Liu Tong's "Your Loneliness, Although Defeated, I found that there are many kinds of loneliness in this world:

I know the ending is the end of the song, but now I'm going to laugh to tears in such a teasing.

Years later, I suddenly looked back at the road I had traveled, only to find that I had been repeating it for a while and was caught in the whirlpool by reality.

Independence.

Set a goal with like-minded people and rush forward shamelessly. When the time is not far away, you turn around and find that like-minded people are gone.

It's dark all around, so I can't see clearly. First I was afraid, then I calmed down. At this time, I can suddenly hear the flow of air and start to see every step of my past. Such introspective loneliness is better than all encouragement.

I thought I wouldn't be understood, so you began to practice talking to yourself. It doesn't matter. You will find that as long as you can understand yourself, it is more important than anyone's understanding in this world.

The vast world, the vast sea of people, can not find a similar person, can not find a like-minded person, just like Boya has no children, lonely and helpless, no business; Whether the couples in pairs will stab your eyes, and you will be defeated and flee alone. There is no one worthy of entrusting your life and accompanying you to the old age; The whole world is drunk and you wake up alone. You say you are right, they say you are wrong, and you are speechless. This feeling forces you into a corner and feels helpless. All this makes you feel helpless and helpless in this world. You really want to find a warm room, as if there is a bowl of warm soup to warm your stiff and numb heart.

But dear you, you have to believe that all this will pass. The loneliness and indifference you are experiencing now will be the wealth of your youth, because you have a strong and flexible heart. Dare to face life and challenge difficulties. Please remember, no one is with you, no one understands, this is the state of most of us, you know, your loneliness is glorious even if you are defeated!

Your loneliness, though defeated, is glorious. When chatting with friends in the afternoon, I accidentally talked about Sam, so I casually replied? Loneliness is a person's carnival, and carnival is the loneliness of a group of people. ? I remember my mother ran to write an article about A San on a whim. Just after she wrote a lonely song, Sam left. My mother was very sad and wrote another letter, which has been very calm. Consider it a memorial service.

I'm doing propaganda for Liu Tong recently, and I have a lot of thoughts when I walk on the road? 20 14 Liu Tong's new work, although your loneliness is still brilliant, the whole network is in hot pre-sale. ? The whole person is like a demon. A paper on the history of foreign literature is due in two days. I casually asked my classmate what you wrote and she said? The influence of magical realism in One Hundred Years of Solitude on Mo Yan's novels. ? I thought about it and said, oh, shall I write? On the Similarities and Differences between Marquez's A Hundred Years of Solitude and Liu Tong's Your Solitude; Your Solitude is still glorious despite its defeat. ? My classmates smiled at me and said,? I wish you a long life and loneliness. ? Say that finish and then added at the back? A hundred years of loneliness. ?

Speaking of loneliness.

I was besieged by people for some messy things the other day. Although I did something wrong before, I always insisted, at least I have a clear conscience. But it doesn't feel good to be rejected by a group of people, and there are several girls I have always liked. That time was very, very low because of this. I will be troubled by this every day when I am free. I want to enlighten myself for various reasons, and I am afraid to see any news about them. I am usually cheerful and optimistic and I shrink back to my shell carefully.

? There will always be people who don't understand you when you do something? ,? It doesn't matter to you what others think, what matters is that you like it and do it. ,? You can stand as much praise as you can stand slander. ? During that time, I came up with 100 kinds of words every day to enlighten and encourage my depressed self.

I really felt lonely at that time. No one understands me, and I have no one to talk to. I remember my brother and I used to play together. No matter what happens, he will protect me. Even if I made many mistakes, he wouldn't be mean to me, just patiently reason with me. I was obsessed with online games for a while before, and I was a king in it. In fact, my skill is quite poor, but if I am killed on the road, people in the gang will avenge me, and I won't feel resentful if I kill that person a hundred times. When I was a child, even if I fell down while walking, my grandparents would coax me with a candy. What about now? Broken teeth can only be swallowed in the stomach. In fact, I also know that no one can protect you to the end, and the strongest backing will always be yourself. Thought of here, I feel as if even if I am lonely, it is not so terrible.

One morning last winter, I was sleeping in a daze and was awakened by my father's phone call. He said grandma was dying, so he came to see her. I woke up in a tingle, brushed my teeth and washed my face, grabbed my clothes and went downstairs to take a taxi to the hospital. On the way, my heart ached.

When I got to the hospital, my milk was running out. My father and mother pushed me to the milk and said? Mom, Rui Rui is here. ? Let me call grandma. I leaned down and looked at my scrawny skin, my mouth wide open, my mouth tightly closed and I was breathing hard. I have always been deaf. I said loudly, grandma, I'm coming to see you. Suddenly there was light in her eyes, and then tears began to flow out of her eyes. My aunt said beside me, you know, grandma kept saying when she was awake a few days ago that she wanted to live for two more years and pay your tuition with her retirement salary for two years. You are the last thing she can let go of. My grandmother got stuck in her throat and couldn't shout the next sentence. Tears began to fall.

Later, grandma recovered a little, and my relatives saw me standing there at a loss and asked me to go first.

Out of the hospital, the whole person suddenly fell ill. The winter wind is blowing, so I stood on the side of the road and waited for a while, shaking all the time. This is one of the few times that I have felt the fragility of life and our helplessness to the disappearing things.

I called some friends out to chat, and they all comforted me and left. I walked from the south to the north, and from dawn to dark. The uncle who directed the traffic shouted don't let a little girl run a red light. The child who just left school sprinkled jiao and wanted to eat the rose mirror cake on the roadside. A couple had just quarreled, and some people were laughing and making noise in the street. Time passed quietly in the noise of the whole city.

Suddenly I feel that I am the only one left in such a big space.

What is loneliness? At that time, I felt lonely at a loss, incomprehensible, helpless, without company when I was sad, unable to say what I wanted to say, and lonely and confused.

I went to play in Yunnan during the holiday. When I was in Lijiang, I visited the ancient city every day. After a long bus ride, I went to a place where I don't even remember my name now. The bus took us to a particularly remote place along the winding mountain road. There are many tall pine trees with big pine cones on them. The sun shines on the tree, reflecting beautiful light. A forest blocks the sun, much like the forest that Masako found in the seagull canteen.

My friend left me to go to the toilet, so I picked up a pine cone and dug out the pine nuts inside. While I was digging, a man came to talk to me and looked up. It turned out to be a monk. He is young, dressed like a Shaolin temple monk in the movie, carrying a bag and bareheaded, which is particularly cute. He asked me if I knew the way to XX. I shook my head apologetically and told him that I was also a tourist from other places and was unfamiliar with it. But if he is not in a hurry, I can check it for him. He smiled and nodded, so I opened the map of my mobile phone and searched it. Sure enough, it is not far away. He thanked me, but he didn't mean to leave. I happened to be alone waiting for my friend to panic, so I chatted with him. I told him that I had nothing to do on holiday, so I ran out to play. Old Town of Lijiang is too commercialized and meaningless, so I went far away to see the scenery. After that, I looked at him and asked him, are you alone? He nodded his head. I said, God, don't you feel lonely running so far alone? After listening to my words, he smiled, pointed to the sky and pointed to a lush forest. He said, look, is the weather bad today? Is the forest next to you very green? The sunshine in the afternoon is warm and the wind is comfortable. Everything that exists in this world is created for us to enjoy. Why else are there so many kinds of apples? In that case, how can you feel lonely walking in such a beautiful scenery?

I remember when I was a child, every family would be on duty in my grandmother's yard. Saying that you are on duty is just a formality. Sit downstairs and see if any children get lost and can't find their home. Is there an old man who fainted due to hypoglycemia in the middle? When it's grandma's turn, she will move a small stool and carry a paper bag, which contains a semi-finished sweater, sometimes with me, sometimes without me, find a sunny place under the building and sit leisurely all afternoon.

Zhou said to him? I think loneliness is more important than communication. If a person can't get along with himself, I think he really has no soul. ?

For example, my grandmother, for example, MengMeng's premium products. They don't feel lonely, not because of the company, but as a kind of enjoyment. They may not be lonely in their hearts, only the sunshine at three o'clock in the afternoon, what color should be used for the sleeves of sweaters, or where to stay next, and what the scenery here is like.

In the face of loneliness, I used to be afraid and confused, but I think loneliness is actually growth, courage, courage to go forward in difficulties, fear of exposed things, new experiences again and again, experiences and a positive and fearless attitude.

Playing games the other day, a gangster taught his son that it is impossible to work hard in this world. The girl next to me leaned in and took a look and said, but if you don't work hard, you will not be able to do it. When watching anime at noon, a barrage came over, which read? Do you choose to be a hero for three minutes or a coward for life?

Liu Tong also said a word, he said? The loneliness you are experiencing may be confused. The loneliness you have experienced will surely grow. ?

I'm not afraid of failure, frustration, pain and starting over. Because the most precious thing about being young is the opportunity to make mistakes. I have experienced loneliness and know that loneliness is not terrible, it is precious. Just like there must be cracks in life, the sun can shine in. Undoubtedly, behind loneliness, it must be growth.

I hope you have been confused on the road of growth, but you have not been confused because of it; I hope you have experienced hardships, but you can regard it as a fortune on the road of life; I hope you are strong, brave and fearless, even if thorns get in the way. Most importantly, I hope you can enjoy loneliness like me.