My son is leaving.

The more you do, the more experience you have, and the more confident you are.

My son is going to travel to other provinces, and he also made an appointment with two classmates. The three of them bought their own air tickets, booked hotels and found tourist attractions. My son traveled to other provinces for the first time by himself. I am both happy and worried. I am glad that my son has grown up, is full of interest in the outside world and dares to take risks outside. What worries me is that my son is out of the province for the first time. What should he do if he encounters setbacks? What should I do if I am cheated?

I told my son my worries, and he said, "Haven't I been to Taiwan Province Province myself?" My son's reminder reminds me that my son 14 went to Taiwan Province Province with her husband's classmates in the winter vacation. When he went home, he found that he had lost his pass. Fortunately, the timely replenishment on the same day did not affect everyone's return on time. The time when my son went out alone in junior high school increased his confidence in his later travel. This reminds me of my son's participation in winter camp and summer camp again and again with the ladder English teacher when he was just in primary school. Last summer vacation, my son and classmates traveled to Qingdao and Jinan. As a tour guide, I went to Qingdao with my classmates a few days ago. My son has accumulated rich travel experience.

I remember when I was in college, because I was usually responsible for myself, I could go anywhere and never felt afraid to leave. Since I married my husband, my husband has been in charge of all my outings, so my dependence is getting stronger and stronger, and I have become more and more timid and inexperienced, so that I dare not go anywhere now, and I have to have a companion when I go far away. The confidence and comfort of traveling far away are getting lower and lower.

A person's psychological self-confidence needs constant experience, and summing up experience in overcoming setbacks can enhance self-confidence. Therefore, as long as children want to try, our parents will firmly support them to do it. The more they do and have more experience, the more confident they will be.