Ferryman: Only by empathizing with others can we ferry others

There are all kinds of people on the street. Who can tell the story behind each one? How many people have stories in their hearts? It starts with infatuation and ends with sadness. You see, they are still in a hurry.

The movie "The Ferryman" tells a story. The bar owner Chen Mo is a gold medal ferryman who ferries many sentient beings and men and women. He lives to relieve other people's troubles every day, but he can never get out. own memories.

He was passionately devoted to He Muzi. He had tasted the beauty of love and lost the person he loved most. It was his infatuation and pain that gave him the power to ferry others.

The movie uses comedy and exaggeration to tell the story of the experiences of several "ferried people". Tony Leung Chiu-wai interprets the legend of the ferrymen with great immersion.

Chen Mo once told Xiaoyu, who was equally infatuated with him, that only by empathizing with others can he help others. He seemed to have the ability to see through others and resolve their pain.

He said that there are four stages of healing: after loving, tired of loving, healed, and I’m gone.

But have you ever had such a doubt? The people living around you are all normal and work hard every day. How can there be so much pain in the movies? There is nothing wrong with it. In real life, there is neither The scenes in the movie are so sad, and not as beautiful as the fairy tales in the movie.

Life is life, and it is more about doing laundry, cooking, buying vegetables and washing dishes. You have to take the bus to work at seven o'clock, and you have to pick up and drop off the children on time. Those infatuations that originally made people cry and laugh in their youth , when faced with the pressure of society and life, they have long been forgotten.

So why does the movie still show so many emotions? Because movies are a condensation of life. Movies use their unique techniques and emotional expressions to interpret life outside of art. They magnify the good and the bad. It can not only alert the world, but also make people believe in beauty.

The same is true for the movie "The Ferryman". He gathered all the people in need of help into a bar, and he expressed people's venting of pain by indulging in the bar every night and being hungover until dawn. The movie depicts a bar as a microcosm of society.

I remember reading a piece of news many years ago. A man who had just lost his love wanted to commit suicide by jumping off a building. He stood on the top of a tall building and looked down. Someone discovered it in time and called the police, but only plainclothes men nearby The police arrived first, and the fire truck with life-saving equipment was blocked at an intersection where a serious traffic accident occurred.

At this time, the young man who committed suicide called a girl's name and was about to jump down, but he heard someone singing behind him. The person singing was a female plainclothes policeman, humming Rene Liu's "Crazy for Love", and then sat only five meters away from the young man and told his story.

She said that she also had a lover, but because of their disparate family backgrounds, they could not be together. She could not accept it at first. Her parents also locked her in the house, blocking all contact between them. Over time, There is no contact.

Then one day, he went to the mountains where they often went to play, and accidentally found a lock with their names engraved on it. It turns out that sometimes falling in love means enduring, taking on, and letting go. He said that later, his ex-boyfriend's career became successful, but she was already married.

Her ex-boyfriend loved traveling and opened a travel agency named after her. They never saw each other again, but they both knew that they were doing well with each other.

The young man who committed suicide was so absorbed in listening that he didn't notice that someone had sneaked into his side and rescued him.

Later, the reporter did a special follow-up report. The young man who committed suicide was very emotional. The plainclothes policewoman was still counseling him. The policewoman also applied to her superiors to provide psychological counseling to the young man. In the following months, In the cafeteria of the police station, you can see more young men. It was the policewoman's professionalism and patience that enabled the young man to finally overcome the pain of broken love and recover.

After getting to know the female police officer, the reporter found out that she had taken courses in psychological counseling, and the nature of her work was also focused on analyzing the personality of prisoners. The unit also intended to train her to become a senior psychological counselor at public expense.

There are also many "ferrymen" in reality. They are not as cool as the movie characters. They do not only enlighten the suffering people, but understand the disease from multiple aspects and find out the source of their pain. , and tell them a rational way to deal with pain and how to look at the diversity of problems, so that they can get out of the shadow of pain.

The "ferryman" in life always starts from the problem itself and makes the treatment systematic and rational, through a series of treatment, enlightenment, training, integration, and implementation in scientific methods. It allows the suffering people to find the reasons within themselves and improve their spiritual world. Some people find new interests, some change their direction, and some become very cheerful, without any influence from the past.

The "ferrymen" in reality have rich experience. They have faced many difficulties themselves and solved them rationally. They are quiet and strong in their hearts. They can face those in need of help rationally and protect them. Other people's privacy, I just hope it can be done. It is these experiences that make them willing to help others.

Only by empathizing with others can you willingly and selflessly help others.