The e-book "I am not teaching you to cheat: 36 strategies for smart women". If anyone has the e-book, please send me a copy. Thanks. Email: 229102576@qq.com

If you want to be a smart woman, you must read it (a must-read for women)

1. If a man starts to neglect you, please leave him. Don't be reluctant to let go of a man who doesn't know how to cherish you, let alone continue to give your tenderness and love.

2. Don’t be sad for a heartless man at any time. Women should understand that being sad will ultimately hurt their own heart. If that man is heartless, you can't hurt his heart, so put away your sorrow and live a good life.

3. Never circle around the man you like endlessly. Even if you like him to the point of death, you still have to learn to give him space, otherwise, you will Be careful of wrapping it too tightly and strangling him.

4. When a man says to you: Break up. Please don't cry or shed tears. You should smile and say: I've been waiting for you to say this for a long time. Then turned and walked away.

5. Believe in yourself, be kind to yourself, and make your life wonderful. Don't mistake it for making someone regret it, but for making your own life more exciting.

6. Dress up elegantly and calmly when going out every day, giving yourself a different smile.

7. Give a slight smile to a man who appreciates you in kind.

8. Women should learn to take care of their skin after the age of 25.

9. If you can avoid smoking, don’t. If you can avoid drinking, don't.

10. No matter how depressed you are, don’t go to a bar. A lonely woman holding a goblet or smoking will add to the loneliness and sadness.

11. Don’t be greedy for vanity. Vanity is a poison and it is addictive.

12. Wear high heels, but not too high.

13. Have a few best friends. When you are alone, make sure you have some best friends who can serve you tea and water. Rather than howling at the top of your lungs as to why the person who said he loves you can't come to accompany you.

14. Open your eyes and choose your future partner. If you choose the wrong one, break up immediately. Don't make do with each other, that will harm two people.

15. Don’t fight with men. First, you can't touch him; second, the man who strikes you must be a lunatic. So, it’s better not to move.

16. Travel. The soul can be more fulfilled when traveling.

17. Have the habit of drinking afternoon tea, reading books, and listening to music.

18. Buy clothes and accessories that suit you. What suits you is the best, so don’t envy other people’s outfits.

19. Don’t accept any gifts from men you don’t like.

20. Love only one person at a time.

21. Know what you want, including the man you love.

22. It is better to lack than to overdo. Don't just grab a man because you're lonely. It's unfair to you and him, and it lacks a sense of responsibility.

23. Say no and refuse firmly to the advances and concerns of suitors you don’t like. Even if he says, it's none of your business.

24. Take your work seriously. Work may not make your heart beat as much as love, but at least it can ensure that you have food to eat and a house to live in. Uncertain love cannot give you these, so work hard and seriously.

25. Own at least five bags of different colors and styles that can be matched with clothes, and more than five pairs of shoes (slippers are not included.)

26. Learn to be refined and elegant. Makeup. Know what to wear for what occasion.

27. Don’t regret the good men you have missed. They don’t belong to you, so you have to open your eyes and find another one.

28. Don’t fall in love with a married man who still swears to you that he will leave his wife and children to marry you. If they really have no feelings, they will naturally get divorced instead of saying incomprehensible things to you all day long.

29. It doesn’t matter if no one sends you flowers on Valentine’s Day or birthday. You don’t have to buy a bouquet yourself and let the florist deliver it. You can use the money spent on flowers to buy beautiful gifts for mom and dad.

30. Remember the birthdays of the people you like, including your family and, of course, yourself.

31. You can love a man, but don’t lose everything you have to him. No man is worth your life to please. If you don't love yourself, how can you get others to love you?

32. Occasionally cook beautiful women’s private dishes for him or old friends. But don’t do it every day. You were not born to go to the kitchen every day for someone.

33. In your leisure time, make your own scented tea or make snacks, play some soft music, read a few pages of a good book, and then sleep in. It will be nice.

34. It’s good to experience crazy things once, such as traveling across thousands of mountains and rivers to visit someone.

35. If you don’t have time and energy, don’t show love and raise small animals. It is also cruel to neglect them, although I understand that you are lonely and need a companion.

36. Don’t imitate others in playing mahjong. Don't do things that torture your body and mind.

37. Occasionally sing to yourself. It doesn’t matter whether it’s good or bad, as long as you’re in a cheerful mood.

38. When you are lonely, find good friends to chat, go shopping, and eat. Don't let loneliness overwhelm you.

39. If you send a text message to the person you like, he will not reply. Don't post it again.

40. If you are too fragile, please choose someone to cry to, and don’t just lend your shoulders or chest.

41. Before going out, remember to look in the mirror and check whether your attire is coordinated. If time is too tight, it is recommended to choose clothes for the next day before going to bed.

42. No matter who you are meeting with, you must arrive before the appointed time.

43. If you accidentally get drunk, don’t call anyone, including your best friend.

44. Go home early in the evening. If you don’t have a car, you have to take a taxi or have someone pick you up after ten o’clock.

45. From now on, be smart and don’t ask him if he misses you? Love you or not? If he misses you or loves you, he will naturally tell you, but when it comes out of your mouth, he will be very proud and doesn't care about you.

46. Treat your love with him equally and fairly. If you step on many boats, the boat will eventually capsize.

47. Go to the movies alone. Buy popcorn and Coke and laugh your ass off. Or, burst into tears. If you like sports, go watch football and no one will care if you cry to death, but it will be very relaxing and enjoyable.

48. Don’t miss the same person 24 hours a day. You can give some to family and friends.

49. If you like someone, tell them if allowed. You may not get the answer, but at least you have tried hard and you won’t have to regret it in the future (maybe it’s the other person who regrets it, haha).

50. Have fixed places for recreation, such as fixed cafes and bookstores. Let the waiters at that place get to know you, so you'll have a warm place to go when you're lonely.

51. If you decide to leave someone, act quickly and cut the knot quickly; if you decide to fall in love with someone, wait a little longer to see if they are suitable for you.

52. Find someone to make color matching suggestions. Don't be gray all day long, make yourself brighter, don't waste your youth and beautiful figure.

53. Don’t torture yourself for anyone or anything. For example, not eating, crying, being autistic, and being depressed are all things that fools do. Of course, it's necessary to be stupid occasionally, and you don't have to be smart all the time in life.

54. If a man tells you that he likes you, believe him. If he says he doesn't love you anymore, believe him. At any time, tell yourself that it is lucky for someone who doesn't love you to leave.

55. Under any circumstances, do not talk about other people’s rights and wrongs behind their backs. If you must say something, say something nice.

56. Buy yourself comfortable pajamas, it doesn’t matter if you are sexy.

57. It is allowed to watch soap operas occasionally, but it cannot become a dependence. Letting your hair down occasionally is allowed, but be mindful of the occasion. Occasionally swearing is allowed, but only in front of old friends or when alone, and remember to forget about the pleasure afterwards.

58. Take care of your hands, they are your second face, but that doesn’t mean you don’t need to share any housework.

59. Love your parents, call them once a week or take time to have dinner. (Should be in the top ten.)

60. There is no need to choose to destroy the ID or disappear for a certain person. Whether you love it or not, you will continue to live. When it ends, it will end well. Why bother yourself?

61. Wear quality clothes and find a quality boyfriend. He doesn't have to be rich, but he must make you feel safe and happy.

62. There should be flowers in the room and remember to change the water. If you're going on a business trip, clean up before you go out. Don't come back to a room full of mosquitoes and bugs.

63. When you have time, light your favorite aromatherapy for yourself and let the fragrance fill the room. Pleasure.

64. Eat whatever you want. Starving yourself in order to stay in shape is the most stupid beauty in the world.

65. If possible, try to keep your hair long. Short hair is indeed easier to take care of, but it is always less feminine.

66. When you have a whim, you can help him wash clothes and buy socks, but don’t be sentimental and buy him underwear. Let him wear whatever he likes.

67. If a man says something that embarrasses you, forgive him. A forgiven man will eventually regret losing a girlfriend as forgiving as you.

68. Have a goal that needs to be achieved within at least two years. A life with goals won't be too boring.

69. If you are unfortunate enough to meet a man who wants to have sex with you and who always abandons you, please smile first and then despise him: You are the most filthy and incompetent person I have ever met in my life. man. Then leave in the most beautiful way without looking back.

70. If a man does not come to check on your condition, does not reply to your emails, and does not care about your current situation because he is busy, he cannot bear the burden of life with you and cannot give you courage. Be brave and leave voluntarily. There is nothing more real than caring about yourself. And for someone who doesn't love you, no matter how much you give or how nice he is, it's just a waste of time and energy.

71. If a man who once liked you but is now married tells you: He will never forget you, you will always be his favorite person. Please tell him calmly: Live like a man. By doing this, you can keep calm while respecting and loving the other woman. This will make you more attractive.

72. Exercise often.

It's good to be a quiet sister Lin, but good health is more important.

73. Don’t eat carelessly on the road, it is unladylike. (Especially indecent behavior such as eating barbecue)

74. Innocence and purity are good. But naivety regardless of the occasion can lead to idiocy.

75. You must have a few male friends who have no wrong ideas and can use their chests as sandbags to hammer you when they are wronged. You can also help him give ideas to chase his girlfriend, and can give him advice late at night. Li picked him up from the bed and went to pick you up far away. Of course, first you need to make his girlfriend or wife approve of you. Otherwise don't try.

76. Learn to bear pain. Some words are suitable to rot in the heart, and some painful words are suitable to be forgotten silently. Once you have experienced it and you have grown, you will know it. There are many changes that others can see without you having to say it yourself.

77. Keep commonly used medicines at home. When you cannot judge your condition, go to the hospital as soon as possible.

78. Don’t wait for a man to buy you a gift. When you want to treat yourself well, buy it yourself. It will be more comfortable to use.

79. Don’t try to live with revenge after a man leaves. That will just make your life a mess. The right thing to do is to live better than before. And tell him: You are living a good and happy life, and let him not worry.

80. If you are going shopping, remember to wear comfortable shoes. Being kind to yourself shows up in the details.

81. If you have time, learn yoga or Taekwondo. The former can help you relax and the latter can help you defend yourself.

82. Set aside a drawer for snacks at home and in the office.

83. Clean your home and body and mind every once in a while. Give excess items to those in need, and remember to remove any unhappiness in your heart promptly. Don't let the busyness and depression of life take away from your beautiful appearance.

84. There are no ugly women, only lazy women. Women who are unwilling to spend time dressing themselves up should not be jealous or dissatisfied with other beautiful women.

85. Maintain proper self-restraint in any situation. Learn to say thank you, thank you for your hard work, and sorry. You should know how to apologize and make amends when you have done something wrong.

86. Don’t be invited to dinner and coffee with someone you don’t want to associate with, even if it’s just a dollar. A relationship without follow-up development and hope will waste other people's money and feelings. This is called greed for pleasure. A woman who is greedy for vanity will be looked down upon. If you really can't move away due to the favor introduced by a friend, remember the AA system.

87. For gifts from people you don’t want to associate with, send them back intact. This is a matter of principle.

88. Have your own outlook on life and values. When problems arise, you can tolerate them and seek solutions, but when it comes to principles, you must maintain your own principles. Losing principles will make you lose the purpose of life.

89. Avoid quarreling with others as much as possible. An angry person is very scary and can become a madman because he cannot control his emotions.

90. You can bargain when buying items, but if the other party accidentally gives you more money, you have to return it. Don't lose the meaning of being a human being because of being greedy for small things.