China's first batch of DINKs have entered their old age, what is the current situation?

A new thing called "vlog" was born, which is the abbreviation of "video blog", that is, video blog. Many vlog authors record their lives in the form of images and share them with netizens through watching In these vlogs, we saw things we had never seen before, so more and more people joined this team.

No, our famous CCTV host Kang Hui also "joined in the fun". Some time ago, he also shot a vlog, took everyone to the Central Radio and Television Station, and showed us What do CCTV news anchors bring with them when they go on business trips? As soon as the vlog was released, it immediately became popular all over the Internet. It received 164,000 followers and 220 million views that day. Later, Kang Hui even took us to "go" to Greece to see China's diplomacy. The front line made netizens call it "enjoyable".

With Kang Hui's "overnight popularity", many people began to search for his information. Only then did people know that Kang Hui turned out to be a "DINK" (referring to those who are fertile but choose not to have children) ), he and his wife Liu Yajie met in college. At first, the two were just ordinary friends. However, as the relationship deepened, each other thought that he or she was the right person, so they fell in love, and later one became a A CCTV host, who became a CCTV director, is the "golden girl" in everyone's eyes.

In 2000, Kang Hui and Liu Yajie ended their eight-year love affair and finally decided to get married. However, before getting married, the couple had already reached an agreement - not to have children and to be a DINK family. Kang Hui responded this way: "When we were young, we hoped that life would always be our own, and we didn't want too many involvements and burdens." Now they have been married for 20 years, and they are still in love as before, and they almost never quarrel. Red eyes.

However, young people’s ideas are young people’s ideas, and parents on both sides are very worried. Which parent doesn’t want to have a grandson as soon as possible? Kang’s mother talked to Kang Hui many times about this, but every time After being rejected by her son, her mother gradually stopped mentioning it.

On November 15, 2018, Kang Hui was on a business trip abroad for work reasons. At this time, he did not know that his mother had quietly passed away. He was not able to see his mother for the last time and learned that her mother had passed away. Later, Kang Hui hid in the bathroom and cried bitterly. He knew that what his mother wanted to see most before she left was that he could have his own child. However, his mother could no longer wait for that day. At this time, Kang Hui sighed: "If If I could come back, I think I would fulfill her wish soon.”

According to data released by the National Bureau of Statistics, the number of births in 2017 was 17.23 million; the number of births in 2018 was 17.23 million. 15.23 million people, with a birth rate of 10.94‰; the number of births in 2019 was 14.65 million, with a birth rate of 10.48‰. It can be seen from the data that young people in China are becoming less and less interested in having children, and more and more people are joining the "DINK clan".

Many media have interviewed some young people about this phenomenon and why they are unwilling to get married or have children. Most of them said that they are "too stressed and cannot afford to raise children"; others "Being a parent is too difficult, and I'm afraid I won't be able to teach my children well," she said. However, most of them will eventually choose to have children due to family reasons. As for the first batch of DINKs who insist on not having children, they often feel a little lonely.

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