Everyone has something that others envy.

I remember a senior chatting with me the other day. She said that she admired having a group of good friends around me, and then I just smiled and said nothing. Senior just saw a group of friends around me who were very kind to me, but didn't see the running-in and tolerance between friends. In fact, I envy my seniors. When I was a sophomore, I finished all the certificates, and then I have been living the life I want in the world of learning.

I am a lively and cheerful girl, and I always have more friends of the opposite sex than of the same sex. When I first went to college, I always fantasized about having a good relationship with my roommates, then cooking hot pot in the dormitory and traveling together. Maybe it's because I was a science student in high school, and then I was always careless and said whatever I wanted. My roommate felt that my words were very hurtful, and I always liked to participate in various school activities and wander around in various student organizations, so my roommate and I gradually became strangers from familiarity. Many people envy me that I have a group of heterosexual friends who have a good time at school and know many people, but they ignore my envy that they can simply live with their roommates every day.

Many people say that it is more difficult to find a boyfriend and girlfriend in college than a boyfriend. Because there are always many friends of the opposite sex around, male girlfriends are relatively easy to find. However, I feel that every boy who plays well with me always quarrels with me from the beginning to the end. Even if I treat you as a good boyfriend and girlfriend, and you treat me as a good girlfriend, we will never go back to the past ... when many people envy me having a boyfriend and girlfriend, I envy the friends around you who are always the same.

Each of us has many things that others envy, but there are also sorrows that others don't understand. The reason why I have many friends of the opposite sex around me is that they all regard me as a buddy and think that I am not as melodramatic and casual as other girls. Now I calm down and think about it. I pretend to be so strong that my friends around me think I won't be sad easily. In fact, on the contrary, I am not that strong, because I am a girl.

Love yourself rather than envy others.