She said that she likes traveling, drinking, swimming, fitness and shopping. She is just her own king. She is totally dependent on others. She doesn't want to depend on others. How should I reply?

In fact, the so-called unhappiness is for yourself. People seldom pay attention to themselves when they are alive, and their thoughts are influenced by others. Happiness and unhappiness are also influenced by others. Know yourself well. If you want to be happy, there is nothing to be happy about. It's not important to anyone in this world, so don't be too obsessed with one thing. It is a great loss to let one unhappy thing miss ten happy things. Of course, this is my opinion. Only when you really know yourself can you like yourself. I hope you are happy.