Do you need a bride price to marry a daughter-in-law from other places? My parents said 1 points will not be given. We don't have the custom of betrothal gift here (Beijing). We all pay the dowry back

Do you need a bride price to marry a daughter-in-law from other places? My parents said 1 points will not be given. We don't have the custom of betrothal gift here (Beijing). We all pay the dowry backwards. No. It depends on how much other families value form and money, and how much they care about their children.

Not all places outside Beijing need a lot of bride price, but the general form will do. In the same way, Beijing has never heard that people who only give dowry but not bride price are generally 50-50. If you meet a poor family, the woman's family will generally suggest finding another partner. However, in big cities, women are generally well-off. If men are poor, women can bear more appropriately.

In essence, bride price and dowry are just forms, and the key point is whether two people are suitable or not, and whether two families are suitable or not, and bride price and dowry can explain whether two families are suitable or not by reflecting family financial resources. However, in the end, husband and wife live together. The right family just makes it easy for them to have the same language. Whether the two are suitable or not depends on the specific person.